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    A Man Emailed His Wife A Spreadsheet That Logged All The The Times She'd Said No To Sex

    All the times he did get sex are marked with italics.

    A distressed Reddit user told /r/relationships that her husband had emailed her this spreadsheet while she was travelling to the airport for a 10-day work trip.

    "I open it up, and it's a sarcastic diatribe basically saying he won't miss me for the 10 days I'm gone," the redditor said. "Attached is a SPREADSHEET of all the times he has tried to initiate sex since 1 June, with a column for my 'excuses', using verbatim quotes of why I didn't feel like having sex at that very moment.

    “This is a side of him I have never seen before. Bitter, immature, full of hatred.”

    Apparently the woman has tried calling and texting her husband since receiving the spreadsheet, to no avail.

    The reaction on Reddit has been mixed. Some commenters have come out in favour of the husband.

    Others are supporting the wife.

    Others see fault on both sides.

    And some are being a bit alarmist.

    The original Reddit post has now been deleted, so it's not clear if the wife has made contact with her husband yet (via spreadsheet or otherwise).

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