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9 Reasons Why He's Not The One

It's difficult to read a man's heart, but here are a few ways his actions will reveal what he is really feeling or not feeling for you.

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1. He has never invited you to meet his family.

When a guy likes you, he wants the people he loves the most to like you just as much. If he never invites you over to meet them, he probably doesn't feel the need to introduce his family to someone he doesn't intend to keep in his life.
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When a guy likes you, he wants the people he loves the most to like you just as much. If he never invites you over to meet them, he probably doesn't feel the need to introduce his family to someone he doesn't intend to keep in his life.

2. He only makes short term plans with you.

He can't plan a life with someone he can't see forever with.
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He can't plan a life with someone he can't see forever with.

3. He doesn't care to meet your family.

Getting to know your family, is him getting a chance to know the real you. If he never ask about your family life he's not interested in the person you are.
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Getting to know your family, is him getting a chance to know the real you. If he never ask about your family life he's not interested in the person you are.

4. He only spends the night with you.

A guy who truly loves you will want to spend time with you outside of the bedroom. If he's always leaving at the crack of dawn it means he is only interested in what you can do for him not with him.
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A guy who truly loves you will want to spend time with you outside of the bedroom. If he's always leaving at the crack of dawn it means he is only interested in what you can do for him not with him.

5. He doesn't acknowledge your existence.

You see him in public with his friends and he won't even make eye contact with you? Maybe it's because he doesn't want the other women in the room to think he has a girlfriend.
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You see him in public with his friends and he won't even make eye contact with you? Maybe it's because he doesn't want the other women in the room to think he has a girlfriend.

6. He doesn't share your beliefs.

Unless you are willing to conform, he's not the guy for you if you have very different beliefs. You can't build a life on two separate foundations.
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Unless you are willing to conform, he's not the guy for you if you have very different beliefs. You can't build a life on two separate foundations.

7. He gives bad gifts.

It's not the price, but the thought that counts. If he loves you he will consider you when he gives a gift. He will give you a gift that shows that he listens and cares.
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It's not the price, but the thought that counts. If he loves you he will consider you when he gives a gift. He will give you a gift that shows that he listens and cares.

8. He doesn't keep up with your success.

You have so many accomplishments, but he can't name one of them. This means that he isn't invested in your success nor does he believe that you will ever obtain it.
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You have so many accomplishments, but he can't name one of them. This means that he isn't invested in your success nor does he believe that you will ever obtain it.

9. He won't give you a title.

If he avoids the conversation about the two of you making things official, questions your need for a title, and often introduces you as just a friend, this may be your cue to move on to someone who is dying to say you're theirs.
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If he avoids the conversation about the two of you making things official, questions your need for a title, and often introduces you as just a friend, this may be your cue to move on to someone who is dying to say you're theirs.

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