The idea of having your life together by 30 years old is such a laughable myth — just because you hit Jenna Rink's age doesn't mean you magically become the best version of yourself. With that said, there are certain behaviors that the majority of millennials feel are better left behind in your 20s.
Redditors of my age group added their takes, based on their own experiences, on what these behaviors are when they responded to a thread asking, "What is 30 too old for?" Here are the takes that stood out to me — and if any of the Gen Z'ers reading this think some of the points below are "dramatic," just wait. Prepare yourselves.
1. "Arguing with people online."
2. "Mind games and poor communication."
3. "Sleeping wrong."
4. "Sneaking up on someone. I was just recently trying to sneak up to my wife, who had fallen asleep in her chair. The sound of my knees popping blew my cover."
5. "Judging people for what they enjoy at an older age."
6. "Trying to go pro in most sports."
7. "Living your life for other people's happiness and making yourself miserable for it."
8. "Owning only one towel. You should already own more than one, but if you're older than 30 and not in some serious financial trouble, you should want better for yourself — get another towel, stat."
9. "Being up-to-date on slang. I'm 32 and realizing I have no concept of current slang terms whatsoever."
10. "Pretending to be interested. You ever just walk away from a horrible conversation while someone is mid-sentence about some crap? Great feeling."
11. "Not much. It might not feel like it right now, but the world is your oyster at 30."
12. "Putting up with BS. After your 20s, the tolerance for people's bullshit drops so much from what we usually tolerate when we're younger. I finally realized I can walk away if I don't like something."
13. "Not knowing basic survival skills, like cooking or doing your laundry, and relying on someone to do it for you."
14. "Dealing with nonsensical family members. Blood can definitely be dud, and you realize that just because you're related doesn't mean you have to be tied to them."
15. "Getting into a physical fight over words. There's a lot more to lose as you get older for assaulting someone over what they said."
16. "Drinking milk without hurting, apparently."
17. "Unless you have a major health issue or medical disability, having someone else pick up after you once you've hit 30 really shouldn't be happening — be it parents if you live at home, your girlfriend or boyfriend, or roommates who just do it 'cause they can't live in a messy home and you refuse to clean."
18. "Having the captions off when watching TV at home."
19. "Listening to loud music without hearing protection."
20. "Asking people you just met for their Snapchat as the sole means of initial communication!"
21. And finally, "Thirty is too old to be worrying about what you're too old for. If it makes you happy, do it."
If you're over 30, what are some things you feel you age out of once your 20s are over? Share your wisdom in the comments.
Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.