FYI Devon took a page right out of The Toxic White Feminism Playbook, specifically from the section on "Centering": "White women get so caught up in how they feel in a moment of black women expressing themselves that they completely vacuum the energy, direction, and point of the conversation to themselves and their feelings," wrote Rachel Elizabeth Cargle. "They start to explain why race is hard for them to talk about, what they think would be a better solution to the topic at hand, and perhaps what women of color can do to make it more palatable."