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1. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame that supports all your favorite positions. Keep things simple and *satisfying* by trying out a new position with the help of this pillow, whether on your belly, lifting your hips, or whatever you come up with (trust me).
This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.
Promising reviews: "Everything it’s promised to be and more! Also can be used as a yoga cushion prop! Such a win-win!!" —Jeannie Z.
"The angle was incredible for both of us. My wife had never experienced a G-spot and clit orgasm at the same time, ever! Also she didn’t want to stop! It is a bit firm, but we feel that lends to the pleasure. We have had other pillows in the past, but way too bulky and big. This is priced right too." —Kerry D.
Get it from Dame for $95.
2. The Discreetly Neat Blanket is a handmade blanket boasting an absorbent design made of cotton and/or fleece that holds up to four cups of water, so you can make a bit of a mess (read: squirt, ejaculate, pee) without worry.
Ummmmm, raise your hand if you're sick of lubricant and / or bodily fluids ruining your bedsheets and blankets. *raises 🤚* These blankets offer four layers of protection, plus a cotton or fleece top layer to keep you comfy. This innovative bed (or couch) accessory comes in 60x80 (full-size blanket), 30x60 (throw blanket), and 30x30 (small blanket).
Promising review: "I got the small waterproof blanket in the cutest print!!! Little Halloween flowers that make me so happy! But what really makes me happy is how I stopped staining my mattress!!! I use this for a week every month while I free bleed. And my husband always gets excited when I pull it out because he knows we’re about to have a lot of messy, wet fun!!! I didn’t know a blanket could change and improve my life but this one definitely does!!!" —Lillie Morris
Get the full-size blanket from TRB Creations for $180 (originally $200 and available in eight colors).
Black- and queer-owned shop TRB Creations makes these blankets for multipurpose uses and as a sustainable alternative to rubber or plastic sheets, puppy pads, and towels to protect mattresses and other furniture from bodily fluids and even oils.
3. The *very* popular Joque harness, created for versatility with adjustable straps that fit waists up to 65 inches and an elastic O-ring that's compatible with a variety of dildo bases.
This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.
Promising reviews: "This is definitely worth the price. It has great variety in the sizing for the wearer. You can use a vibrating dildo with it and you feel the stimulation. Also there are pockets you can add items to for your stimulation. The ring is very hard to get the dildo into, but it works out because it does not come out during use. The comfort to the wearer is phenomenal. Recommend for any experience user." —Customer DBG
"I was so exhausted one night after my partner and I had some fun, that I fell asleep with it on and forgot it was still there. It’s extremely comfortable but super sturdy. Also, very easy to throw it in the mesh bag it comes in and toss it in the laundry. I let it air dry though. Great product!" —divertida9
Get it from Amazon for $134.95 (available in two sizes and three colors).
4. A stimulating cushion, offering versatile use as a comfortable base for your favorite dildo or strap-on *and* providing a contoured grinding pad to stimulate the wearer with each thrust. Avid peggers should add this to their collection, stat.
This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.
Promising reviews: "I will never not use this thing. It is soooo soft. feels so nice AND hits that sweet spot every single time. My girl and I love it. 🥇🥇🥇" —Brie Sews
"My fiancé got this for me and let me just say…. This makes the world of difference in comfort, and pleasure. Jokes aside, I’ve never had a punani tsunami from pegging until this thing. Worth the buy. No sore spots and everyone wobbles away happy. 😉" —melissa mitchell
Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in four colors).
5. Or, up the ante with this unique cushion that's designed with contoured tips for an extra-stimulating sensation.
This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25 inches wide.
Promising reviews: "Works great with a harness and pretty much any strap-on dildo my partner and I own. Would highly recommend. Easy clean and came exactly as described. Super-soft material. 5/5." —Jacquie
"This made the base of so many dildos much more pleasurable to me! I use it with and without the harness... Sometimes I will put it on the base of a dildo that I am using manually and then grind against it. Great stimulation!" —Blank
Get it from Wet for Her for $35.95 (originally $39.95; available in black or blue).
6. A vegan-friendly sex toy cleaner to keep your toys fresh between uses without any residue or time-consuming cleansing.
You just spray onto your toys and then wipe down. Since it's water-based, this cleaner can be used on rubber, latex, glass, metal, and silicone toys.
Promising reviews: "I always use this on my toys, and it lasts a long time. Only a few sprays are needed since it lathers up nicely and cleans any toy you need it to. Smells pleasant while cleaning with it, and this smell gets washed away when you rinse it off, just as you would expect." —ajmanny
"Great product, which is nice and easy to use. Quick spray which goes along way, wipe over or down and leave to dry. No mess, no after marks, and nice natural/fresh smell, nothing too strong. A must-have product to keep clean and look after your toys." —Daisy1982
Get it from Lovehoney for $16.99 or Amazon for $9.99+ (available in two sizes).
7. Or, cleansing wipes designed specifically for sex toys with a paraben- and alcohol-free, hypoallergenic formula. Each wipe is individually packaged, so you can toss one in your purse or pocket and take it with you on the go!
These are my favorite wipes for sex toys, no competition. I like to grab them on a casual trip to CVS or Target (when they are in stock, because believe me, they apparently sell like hot cakes), and use them between sessions when I don't feel like giving my toys a full scrub down in the sink. If you own more than five sex toys, I highly recommend keeping a box of these nearby because they are great to use in a jiffy, especially if you keep a sex toy just floating around your bed all the time and don't clean (or charge) it too often. TMI, but I have definitely found and used one of these wipes to clean a toy for a quick session under the dimly-lit brightness of my computer screen, and the individual packaging makes using one of these wipes so much less of a hassle than pulling from a pack or using a regular toy cleaner.
Promising review: "Okay, so I have used several cleaning wipes before; many just resemble makeup wipes. These, however, were more than I expected! They are easy to unwind, and they stretch! This really helps with getting larger toys clean or wrapping smaller toys to clean easier. Also, the wipes are not so damp that a toy falls out of your hand! Individually wrapped so the moisture is locked in with the cleansing liquid making this easy for on-the go use or travel! These wipes are a great product, and I will continue to buy more!" —Joshua
Get a box of 12 from Plus One for $9.99 or Amazon for $8.51.
8. A versatile bed restraint system that includes four adjustable cuffs and restraint straps that fit underneath your mattress. If you've been wanting to spice things up, this is a perfect way for you or your lover to be immobilized with comfort.
Promising reviews: "I absolutely cannot say enough great things about these straps. They are versatile, discreet, convenient, extremely durable, well-made, and a ton of fun. Highly recommended for anyone who loves to spice things up in the bedroom." —AB
"These are very good. Wasn't sure if the velcro would be strong enough, but it was! She loved them and I loved them. If you are looking for a great addition to fun in the bedroom I highly recommend getting these." —N. W.
Get it from Amazon for $41.90.
9. An oh-so-convenient Ohnut set boasting an overall 4.6 out of 5 stars from reviewers. This neat accessory is constructed with a stretchy, body-safe material to fit your favorite penis or dildo and offer extra cushioning during penetration. Springtime is all about new beginnings, so why not experiment with more comfortable partnered sex or solo play?
This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation. Though it's stretchy, Ohnut is designed in two sizes: Classic and Wider, which can be determined based on condom sizing!
Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.
Get it from Ohnut for $65 (available in jade and rainbow for classic).
Ohnut Co. is a women-founded and small business wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.
10. An 8-oz. supply of water-based lube because there is zero shame in adding a little assistance to your play, solo or partnered, and 80,000 people (and counting) are willing to back me up on that.
BTW, some reviewers with sensitive skin or eczema really love this lube, and others don't. Remember to always do a test on your arm or leg when it comes to any skin products, or look into this aloe-based lube that has the National Eczema Association Seal of Acceptance!
Promising reviews: "With your partner or solo stroke over the sink, 😍 💪 this is great lube. Works with rear entry or regular penetration. 3rd order. 🫶" —XXX
"This just gave sex a whole new meaning for me. I'm a woman who tends to just naturally get dry after a few rounds, but baby, this right here? Holy grail. It does a good job at not getting sticky and makes the experience 10x more pleasurable. The orgasms were A1!" —Kiha Stowe
Get it from Amazon for $9.99.
Not sure which lube to get? We've got a round-up to help you figure out which lube is right for you.
11. A versatile silicone-based lubricant by Wet that reviewers say is great for all kinds of sex (read: anal!) and boasts a long-lasting waterproof formula. Slippery silicone lube is perfect for backdoor play (without toys) to keep holes lubricated while your session lasts (and maybe even longer).
Promising reviews: "OK, how do you review lubes? Let’s see... This one is my favorite. It’s slippery and last longer than other products. Whether you are rubbing one out or putting it in, this lubes does well. It doesn’t not make your vagina or booty burn. That’s a plus. To clean off is not as easy. You need water and soap. That’s why it lasts longer than other products." —Enrike
"My boyfriend and I love this lube. This lube can be a little messy but it works! I love it because I can slide right into my boyfriend without any issues. He loves it because he can do his thing without any issues. Depending on the day, the lube can last longer than me. I highly recommend especially if you plan to do anal. Enjoy!" —ManlyMan
Get it from Amazon for $8.99+ (available in assorted sizes).
12. A Liberator flip ramp that can be used as a ramp or converted into an ottoman, so you and your partner can explore and enjoy your (new?) favorite positions. Not to mention, it folds up neatly, so no one will know that "ottoman" in the corner of your bedroom is actually a sex toy.
It's a ramp! It's an ottoman! It's improving your sex life! This convertible cushion is created with high-density foam for comfortable support and a moisture-resistant lining underneath the removable cover. Flip the furthest side of the ramp on top for a versatile block shape or use the classic ramp shape to help find the right positions for superior stimulation alone or with a partner.
Promising reviews: "Awesome product. The flip capability opens up possibilities. The Liberator website has some suggestions of use, but with some creativity there are many others. This paired with the wedge and axis have had plenty of fun results. Highly recommend. Does clean very easy. The cloth outside does attract dog hair, but vacuums off easily enough." —J.B.
"Great addition to add some spice. Fabric is soft and soft stuff gets stuck to it easily. Thank goodness the cover comes off so you can wash it." —jen bardsley
Get it from Amazon $179.99 (available in four colors).
13. A convenient rigging harness for the Lovense Domi 2 mini wand vibrator boasting 3D printed strap holders and adjustable straps to keep your wand in place, even while your lover or sub squirms from the intense stimulation.
This specific listing is for the Lovense Domi 2 wand vibrator, but there's also a strap holder for the Magic Wand Rechargeable vibrator (available here on Lovehoney), a Le Wand rechargeable vibrator (available here on Lovehoney), the Doxy wand vibrator (available here on Amazon), and more. Check out the entire shop to find a harness for your preferred wand vibrator.
BTW, the standard straps are about 30 inches long and fit dress sizes 2–20, but extra long straps are available upon request!
Promising reviews: "This shop was super easy to work with and so helpful! I needed extra length on the straps I ordered and thought I’d be a bother with all my questions — that wasn’t the case at all! The seller was so nice and helpful. I waited a while to do a review because this was part of a surprise for my partner — and we loved it! It fit perfectly on my toy, and I can still use it without the straps if I want to. Such a clever and amazing product. My partner has trouble with spacial understanding and so using ropes is not it for him. But this was super easy and he had no trouble. Love it!" —Kate Ramlee
"Amazing, fits the Domi 2 perfect, straps to my wife's legs perfect...then just let the Domi 2 do its work while she was tied down. We both love it! Well-made and easy to set up. Would recommend." —John Hill
Get it from 3Deviants on Etsy for $27.99+ (available as individual holders or holders with straps).
3Deviants is a family-owned small business based in New Hampshire and devoted to creating size- and gender-inclusive 3-D printed BDSM accessories for kinksters of all abilities.
14. A unique pump designed especially for queer, trans-masc and nonbinary bodies to help increase sensation and stimulation of the genitals. A wide-flared base sets this pump apart and offers comfort during use.
The cylinder for the pump is 3 inches long and 1.25 inches wide. Looking for more sizes? Checkout the deluxe version of this pump which comes with three cylinders!
Promising reviews: "I’ve used a few pumps and this was absolutely perfect for me. The way the cylinder was made with the wide base seriously limited pain. I really appreciated the sticker to actually get a good visual on it, and I also appreciated the box. It used accurate (but not too accurate) imagery and didn't use language that made me dysphoric. It's extremely easy to use and insanely cheap for such a quality pump. Honestly just wonderful all around." —Finn Durning
"11/10. This kit is very easy to put together and use. I bought it mainly to encourage bottom growth, which it has certainly done even after just a few uses. But the biggest benefit has been the sensation of relief for my bottom dysphoria, nothing else has really helped up till now. Massive quality-of-life upgrade, highly recommended." —Rook (extra cylinders)
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $39.99 (also available with extra cylinders).
15. A waterproof mattress protector means no more worrying about exploring ALL the settings on that extra powerful toy you love. This convenient sheet stops…liquids…from penetrating the mattress, making cleanup a breeze and squirting a welcome surprise that doesn’t require stripping the bed completely.
Promising reviews: "I am very impressed with the sheet's ability to keep my mattress from getting wet. My girlfriend...spilled water...multiple times, making quite the mess, and the mattress was completely dry. They are easy to clean; just toss them in the washer. My only complaint is they aren't super comfortable, but they aren't uncomfortable either, so they get a pass. Highly recommend if you plan on spilling things on your bed." —josh
"My husband and I use this for intimate reasons. We use a lot of coconut or avocado oil when we fool around, and I did not want to stain my favorite high end sheets. I am very fabric texture sensitive, and I worried when I bought this sheet I might hate the way it feels on my skin. I would describe the water/oil proof backing on the sheet like a better quality windbreaker or light rain jacket from REI. It's malleable, but the fabric layer on top feels nice, like cotton. Once on the bed, I don't even notice we have a waterproof sheet on, and this has elastic all the way around the sheet, not just on the corners. The only downside is that the corner pockets that fit around the mattress corners, hold water when pulled out of the washing machine. Like — LOTS of water. It's hard to get it all out. If they wanted to upgrade this, they should put small plastic drain holes in each corner then it would be knocked out of the park! But I am glad we bought this, and I recommend it for similar purposes." —thriftpunk
Get it from Amazon for $17.90+ (available in eight colors and also twin, full, and king sizes).
16. Or, a waterproof throw blanket, allowing you to top your bedding with extra protection that’ll keep liquids where they belong, instead of wetting your comforter, sheets, pillowcases, etc. So basically, a splash zone for your bed.
Promising reviews: "Sometimes, it's not better down where it's wetter...and that's where these blankets come in. They come packaged very nicely, giftable right out of the box. Super soft, they hold up well using my usual laundry settings, and are truly waterproof. Based off the photos, I put the blanket on the kitchen floor and dumped a cup of water on it, and let it sit for a few minutes — floor was dry. I bought these for adult playtime shenanigans, and it's perfect for protecting the surface underneath while also being very comfy and cozy. I love these blankets so much, that I now use one as my winter blanket, and keep the other on the couch for general relaxing." —Sam
"I am so much more in love with this blanket than I thought I would be. This thing is just incredible. I got it for the extracurricular use with hubby. You guys know what I mean. Got tired of washing all the towels and the bedding because it gets pretty messy, but now I don’t even have to worry. And what used to be big puddles...are now small ones that do not spread. A little secret, too: if you take a small towel and blot it, the blanket dries almost immediately, and I mean really dry, comfy and warm. It’s quite comfortable to lay on. And it keeps the mess so localized barely had to use any towels. Hell, I could’ve even moved the blanket around and avoided the area altogether 'til I decided to machine wash it. None of it got through; my bed is completely clean and dry. I am really impressed. I’m honestly thinking of who I can give one of these to as a gift. I honestly could think of so many multi-purpose situations. This would be useful the bedroom, the car with small children, the boat, camping, dogs, and cats. Some people put them under their rabbit cages. It’s a great idea. I seriously think everyone could find a use for one of these. A great product overall." —ontilt626
Get it from Amazon for $27.99+ (available in three sizes and 11 colors).
17. A set of four glass anal dilators ranging from 2.7 inches long to 4 inches long and 0.8 inches wide to 1.5 inches wide. That size range alone makes them a must-have for anal training, not to mention the bulbous head and flared base.
This set is perfect for anyone interested in anal sex and wanting to work their way up to girthier or heavier toys. Since they're glass, these training toys also allow for temperature play and can be used with any kind of lubricant you choose.
Get it from B-Vibe for $129.99.
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
18. A set of four vaginal silicone dilators, perfect for working your way up vaginally. Each dilator is a different size, ranging from 4.33 inches long and 0.51 inches wide to 7.68 inches long and 1.26 inches wide. Just remember to use lube when training with dilators!
This is also available as a set of five dilators.
Promising reviews: "Totally works to dilate for vaginitis (aka when you're swollen down there and it's hard to get anyone in without it hurting). Use lube to help it go in. And just leave it there (I held it in with my hand because it kept slipping out) for, like, 30 minutes — I watched a movie." —Lily Hong
"I had gender reassignment, and part of that ordeal is dilating. These dilators are wonderful. They are made of a soft and smooth but firm silicone material. Easy to wash, easy to store because of the rings, which also makes it easy to remove if they get 'lost.' I recommend these for anyone going through what I went through." —Holly
Get it from Amazon for $25.99.
19. A popular boxer brief harness offers comfort and does away with complicated buckles and straps, so you can focus more on the actual pleasure of the moment.
These cotton-blend boxers are double layered for dependable support and can accommodate dildos with a 1.5-inch O-ring diameter on the base. Two interior pockets for bullet vibrators are strategically placed around the O-ring to add a little more rumble. Check out the site for more colors and prints!
Promising review: "Rodeoh boxers are possibly one of the best inventions for a lesbian couple. They are just 'normal' high quality boxers that my wife wears under normal clothing and within seconds we can be 'playing!' None of the faffing about with silly harnesses, it’s just simply put on and put in!" —S&V
"I am a bisexual female, and my boyfriend happens to be a bisexual male. Rodeoh opened a whole new world for us. Strap-ons have been very awkward and uncomfortable for me, which took away from the experience. This morning we were finally able to make love in an entirely new way. I feel in love with my sexy bottom boy all over again, and then all we had to do was slide them on and start round two. Thank you so much for such an awesome product!" —Carmen
Get the banana print from Rodeoh for $49.99 (available in sizes M–3X).
Rodeoh is a woman-operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.
20. A water-based lubricant specifically designed for booty play and mimicking natural lubrication with a flavorless and fragrance-free formula.
Promising reviews: "Wow! This product blew my mind! It is PERFECT for anal intercourse. I typically use silicone-based lube, but the cleanup is a disaster. This lube was not only a better quality than silicone lube, but the cleanup was a breeze. I have been disappointed many times by lube but this was definitely not one of them. We didn’t need to reapply a lot like with other water-based lubes and it doesn’t dry and get all sticky. I will be a lifelong customer. Buy this lube!" —Kassidy Singh
"This stuff is great for anal sex and easy to clean off, it has no flavor according to my gf and has no scent either." —Joshua Janey
Get it from Amazon for $8.24+ (available in 8-oz and 32-oz sizes).
21. A very convenient anal training set, stocked with a beginner-friendly plug, a vibrating plug, and a weighted plug. Along with the toys, it includes a comprehensive guide to anal sex, a lube applicator, travel bag, and an enema to help you prep and keep things clean.
This set is perfect for anyone interested in experimenting with anal, whether beginner or expert level.
Promising review: "This kit made me comfortable and confident enough to try anal again. I had attempted it with a past partner years ago, and we did it ALL wrong. Fast forward a couple of years: I have a patient and knowledgeable partner, and I'm ready to try again. That's when I found this anal training kit, and let me tell you, it is well worth the money. Not only are the butt plugs of exceptional quality, but the Anal Guide is extremely informative. After using only the first two sizes of butt plugs, I'm having anal sex. Apprehension and fear have been lifted, and a whole new world of pleasure has taken its place. I'm seriously beyond grateful to have had such a comforting and helpful tool to introduce me to the magic of anal and butt play in general. Take it from me, if you're nervous but want to explore the pleasure your butthole has to offer, invest in this kit — or any of their beginner products for that matter." —Allyson
Get it from B-Vibe for $159.99 (available in black and blue).
22. An oil-based, hemp-infused massage oil by Coconu that'll help you get in the mood for ~play~ whether you use it topically for extra stimulation or internally as a lubricant.
Promising reviews: "I think this is my very first Amazon review and, wow! This is the absolutely best lube I have tried, and I think I have tried them all! I saw this brand Coconu all over Instagram and was excited to see they’re finally on Amazon for free shipping. The good stuff — it is SO moisturizing both externally and internally, absolutely perfect for every type of massage and intimate action. This is a serious game changer, it’s unlike any other of its kind on the market and you can see from the product photos that it’s completely natural!" —Marie
"What a great product. It's a perfect consistency and really makes a difference. I've tried other brands, but I'm so impressed with this one. It's gentle and it's so comforting to know I'm using safe and natural ingredients. So glad to have found this." —RR
Get it from Amazon for $39.99.
23. The Palm Grease lubricant, which is perfect for fisting and thrusting with it's ultra-thick consistency and conditioning formula to help prolong and elevate your sessions.
This creamy lube is created with palm butter, grape-seed oil, and vitamin E for a moisturizing and velvety feel wherever it's applied.
Promising review: "There are no words for how good this lube is. It is amazing for long sessions, it feels incredible, it's .... I damn near got misty that someone, somewhere, had the exact same need as I did, and then invented something that solved that need. Serious, historic tip of the cap. To potential purchasers thinking they will get a sample size to start — fuck that. You have found the product you are looking for." —Rick Willet
"Great to use as a moisturizer and even better as lube! I've purchased this several times over the last couple of years and my partners love it as much as I do!" —Joseph Gurk
Get it from The Butters Hygienics Co. for $13+ (originally $16.50+ and available in six sizes).
The Butters Hygienics Co. is a Black- and Queer-owned business based in Michigan that creates products using simple ingredients and hand-crafted in the owner's kitchen. In true millennial fashion, they want you to be able to afford quality body products that do what the bottles say they do.
24. A vaginal plug, so you can gear up for any large dildos or girthier partners you may be entertaining. This plug is contoured specifically for multi-point vaginal stimulation and created with *super* squishy silicone for comfortable wear before, during or even after play.
TBH, this might be the squishiest toy I've ever handled. It's elegantly curved and kinda looks like a vagina, so all you have to do is fold and insert. It's designed to help enhance clitoral sensation, deliver deeper internal stimulation, and it even has a slightly flared base for discreet wear and effortless retrieval. Also, it comes in a variety of thicknesses, so you can choose whatever's most comfy for you and deliver that full feeling you've been craving.
Note: These plugs are intended for vaginal use only and not recommended for anal. Check out the following link in case you want to explore anal toys created with the same squishy silicone (these have a flared base for safety).
Promising reviews: "I just bought this along with the Tango X after getting tired of my rabbit vibe being too uncomfortable to sit with between orgasms. I'm 30, never been sexually active with a partner for various reasons and sex toys are something I've only recently begun to appreciate as I become more comfortable with intimacy and learn my own body before trying to share it with others. So I'd classify myself as a beginner and for that, this plug is amazing. I'm not able to handle anything large but the softness of this silicone is no joke — even the small was kind of daunting to me but it just popped right in, and I can barely feel it when I'm not playing — the most noticeable part is definitely the base, and even then it's not uncomfortably noticeable. This acts as a major upgrade to clitoral orgasms for me, it's like blended orgasms without all the effort and buildup that those normally take. And it's a lot of fun on its own, too!" —Kat
"I find myself very surprised, in a good way. This toy has impressed me so much that I had to leave a review, which I have never done on this site! It’s a great little thing to leave in for an hour or so and tease yourself, before some actual fucking. I used the size small, since too big can be a bit painful for me. It also stretched me out a bit so I probably would have been comfortable taking a size that normally would be too big for me. Left me dripping wet. Excellent on all fronts!" —Lesbian
Get it from Peepshow Toys for $42+ (available in four sizes and four colors).
25. An innovative Pulse warming lube dispenser, so you can get the right amount of lube without the hassle of leakage, slippery hands or accidental stains.
This warming dispenser comes with four specially made lubricant pods that can be inserted with ease, warmed at the touch of a button and dispensed with motion-sensor technology. It includes two water-based lubricants and two silicone-based lubricants, for your pleasure.
Promising reviews: "What a brilliant and much-needed innovation in women’s sexual health. Where have you been all my life? This is a luxury I will no longer live without. A new way...having conveniently dispensed warm lubes and massage oil for personal use...now I can’t imagine it any other way. So nice and lovely. Everyone should have one bedside. You can unplug it like an iPhone and discreetly tuck it away when kids are around :-). I appreciated that I received an initial supply of each lube with the order of the warming dispenser. The personal lubricants and massages oil are scent-free and really convenient to use. If interested, I wrote separate reviews of each when I ordered more of all of them. I prefer Aloe-ahh for my lube but if hydration is more important for you, H2Oh! might be your preference; it is all so personal. :) Spoil Me is a great massage oil!" —Ann S.
"If you've ever been 'in the moment' and needed a little help with lubrication, you know how unsexy it is to stop, open a bottle, squirt (probably too much) lube into your hand and everywhere, and then try to get back in the mood again. The Pulse bridges that gap and makes it really easy to keep the vibe going without interruption. It dispenses exactly the right amount, warms it up for you so you/partner are not shocked with cold, and allows you to continue the fun. It's a nice change from the old routine, it feels amazing, and honestly I'm never going back. I ordered some of the additional pods and I'm glad I did because I'm going through this stuff at twice the normal speed now, haha. Seriously though, this stuff is a life-changer." —Billy
Get it from Amazon for $199 (available with lubricants or massage oil).
Pulse is a woman-owned and woman-founded company that created this dispenser because they wanted a mess-free and hygienic way to use lube and massage oils in the bedroom. Those lubes and oils are all FDA-cleared and developed with hydrating formulas.
26. A UV sterilizer powerful enough to kill 99.9% of bacteria, but designed in a travel-friendly pouch, so you can take it with you on the go and keep your toys extra clean at all times.
UV will sanitize your sex toys hands-free and get rid of nearly *all* of the bacteria that tries to live there and ruin your good time. This specific sterilizer works in less than five minutes to thoroughly sanitize your toys before use and after cleaning. It fits sex toys up to 10 inches long, is designed to be travel-friendly and TSA-approved, and it's also USB rechargeable!
Get it from B-Vibe for $84.99 (originally $90).
27. A variety pack of AA and AAA batteries, so you can stop stealing from your remote or flashlight whenever you want to enjoy some self-love or partner play with a toy that hasn’t evolved to USB-rechargeable.
The pack includes 12 AA and 12 AAA batteries.
Get it from Amazon for $12.82.
28. An outlet adapter adds more space for all your sex toys to charge up with three plug spaces and two USB ports. If you’re like me and forget to charge your products regularly, this extender comes in handy when several of your go-to vibes need resurrecting.
I own two of these (so far) and have one permanently stationed in my bedroom for quick-and-easy charging of sex toys (and toothbrushes lol). The USB ports are very convenient because a lot of toys don't come with charging bases, so I can just plug the toy into the extender without searching for an unused base. Not to mention, being able to charge my one to two vibrators, my toothbrush, and also plug in up to two more items is basically a luxury. Oh, and it doesn't cover up the other socket.
Also, these travel really well, and I take one on extended trips where I know I'll be charging several items.
Promising reviews: "Small but meets all the needs of extra outlets as well as charging my cellphone without added bulk. The design of it offers space for even bigger plugs so they don’t overlap the extra outlets and make them unusable. Great product and design!" —Jean
"There is nothing to not like about this item. Just the look and the weight tells you it's a high-quality product. I've not seen the equivalent in all my years. Every outlet fits snugly, with no wiggle at all. If you ever need a plug extender, this is the one. It's fantastic." —Kydwyn
Get it from Amazon for $11.99+ (available in three colors).
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