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    50 Splurge-Worthy Sex Toys Because Your Valentine (Or Self) Is Worth It

    To tide you over until the chocolate is on sale...🍫

    Hey! While we’re doing our best to make sure the products we feature will arrive in time for Valentine's Day, shipping times can vary depending on where you live, which product you purchase, and more. So order earlier than you think you need to and be sure to double check the retailers’ websites for shipping information to ensure that your gift will arrive in time for February 14th!

    1. A rabbit vibrator inspired by Fifty Shades that adds a freaky element to their annual V-Day re-watch of all the films. *Ahem* Mr. Grey will see you now...

    Black rabbit vibrator on pink background

    2. A minimalist cone-shaped vibrator boasting three speeds and a tapered tip for targeted stimulation. This vibe is a perfect gift for the friend or lover who loves earth tones, plants, and most importantly: pleasure.

    3. A semi-transparent dildo decorated with adorable heart-shaped confetti, so they can celebrate V-Day with a *bang* whether solo or with a partner.

    Model holding semi-transparent and pink dildo with confetti hearts

    4. A wearable couples' vibrator guaranteed to make sure your partner gets the hint this holiday, so you both can get to know each other better by exploring the 11 vibration intensities.

    Model posing with pink wearable vibrator and wireless remote near torso

    5. A rose-shaped clitoral stimulator because everyone loves flowers, but I bet they love leg-shaking, curseworthy orgasms even more.

    Red rose-shaped vibrator

    6. A Blow & Glow Kit by Fun Factory featuring the ever-popular Manta vibrating stroker and Nos dual-stimulating cock ring, so basically a perfect gift for anyone who likes to suck dick.

    7. A vibrating bejeweled butt plug that they can wear to add a little bling in the bedroom or up the ante and explore distance play with its 30-foot remote control range.

    8. A harness and dildo combo kit — whether they're an experienced strap-on user and looking for something new or a beginner eager to explore new territory, this comfortable combo is a great addition to their collection.

    Model wearing black harness and black dildo

    9. A petite pleasure set by Le Wand that'll satisfy and maybe even deliver plusieurs des petites morts with a bullet vibrator and contoured pointed vibrator designed for targeted pleasure.

    Chrome and white bullet vibrator with textured sleeve, chrome and white palm-sized vibrator, white logo enamel pink, white textured silicone ring attachment and white carrying bag
    Le Wand

    Get 30% off everything at Le Wand from now until Feb. 14!

    The bullet vibrator has 11 vibration modes and four intensities, making it a small but mighty adversary in your arsenal. Or, you can explore more pinpointed pleasure with the Le Wand Point vibrator boasting 15 vibration modes and six different intensities. Pair the bullet with the textured silicone sleeve and ring that add a little more stimulation to your play. Show off your pleasure — I mean pride — with the logo enamel pin.

    Shipping info: Le Wand orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Shipping options available at checkout include: UPS Ground, UPS 3-Day Select, UPS 2-Day Select Air and UPS Next-Day Air. Orders must be placed by Feb. 7 in order to receive items in time for Valentine's Day. 

    Get it from Le Wand for $139.99 (originally $199.99).

    10. The luxury Kip lipstick vibrator by Dame that's perfect for the #BossBabe who's always on the go. They'll adore its aesthetically-pleasing design and five rumbly vibration settings for pinpointed, powerful pleasure.

    Model holding yellow and lavender bullet vibrators

    11. A vibrating Verge cock ring by We-Vibe specifically made to stimulate the perineum with eight rumbly vibrations and make this a Valentine's day they'll never forget.

    Models holding dark gray vibrating cock ring on torso
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    You can control the vibrations of this waterproof wearable manually or from the convenient We-Connect app.

    Promising review: "This thing is the bee's knees. It's strong, has 10 different levels of strength, multiple different vibe modes, just the right amount of weight, and does the job, very well at that! It's great for solo and couples. It also comes with an app for long distance fun with a partner! Be aware that you must plan to use it before any kind of stimulation because YOU WILL NOT GET IT ON! Other than that I couldn't be happier with this one!" —JacksonP

    Shipping info: FYI, the shipping address and billing info will be labeled as "Wow Tech" on discreet packaging. Free FedEx standard shipping (3-5 business days) is offered on orders $30+ and FedEx express shipping (2-3 business days) is also available at checkout. Also available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $113.05 (originally $119).

    12. A wireless wand vibrator boasting a muted pink hue that effortlessly blends in with that bouquet of flowers being delivered, except this one will last. Its flexible silicone head and three simple buttons also do a great job of making their legs quake.

    Pink wand vibrator

    13. The BuzzFeed x Bellesa AirVibe suction toy: with 10 powerful vibration modes and five suction intensities, it'll leave a tingle in their toes. For what it's worth, the number of leg-quaking orgasms they'll experience with this toy is bound to put you at the top of their list for next year.

    14. An open vibrating sleeve created with premium silicone for a soft and supple sensation and flexible wings that wrap around their shaft, so they can feel each speed and vibration setting at their preferred grip.

    Model holding black Pulse Solo Essential sleeve

    15. The Poco vibrator by Mystery Vibe, which is designed specifically for G-spot stimulation with a flexible body shaped to resemble fingers and dual motors, so they can feel all 16 intensities no matter where it's placed.

    16. A unique rabbit vibrator that looks a lot like this emoji: 🤌 A pair of dual motors and a curvaceous design deliver rumbly vibrations to their G-spot and clit simultaneously.

    Purple abstract rabbit vibrator next to flowers

    17. A precision bullet vibrator by Vush named after their favorite flower because it's both pretty and powerful, with 25 vibrating combinations and a flexible rosebud design.

    Model touching top of light pink bullet vibrator

    18. The Mini Pleasures Set by Le Wand, featuring a miniature stainless steel wand dildo and an even tinier version of their best-selling rechargeable wand because big things can come in small packages.

    White and silver mini wand, stainless steel dildo, white enamel pin and box

    19. A remote-controlled prostate vibrator with dual motors and six powerful vibrations to explore that simultaneously stimulate the perineum and prostate (or G-spot) for maximum sensation.

    20. The Jubilee clitoral-licking butterfly, which has nothing to do with X-Men and everything to do with pleasure via dual stimulation from its nine vibration settings and 10 "licking" modes. That means it creates the kind of orgasm that makes them see fireworks.

    Pink vibrator surrounded by pink objects
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    Promising reviews: "Long story short, this thing had me climbing the wall LOL! Because of the suction, it is hands-free. The 'tongue' is surprisingly soft and flexible. It looked like hard plastic initially. But it definitely does the job, whether on the nipple or clit. Highly recommend." —Atalanta_J

    "I am not sure why this product doesn’t have more reviews, but oh my GOD, I just thought I’d share my personal experience. Hands down the best sex toy I’ve ever used. This made my body do things I didn’t know I was capable of. If you are considering purchasing this product, take this review as your sign to purchase. I promise you and your body will NOT regret." —Sadie

    Shipping info: Honey Play Box offers flat rate shipping ($7.95) and free shipping on orders $69+ and most orders ship within one day. 

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $68.99 (originally $108.99; available in pink and purple).

    21. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame, so they can enjoy their lovers' weekend with extra leverage and ample support to explore their (new) favorite positions.

    22. A unique strap-on compatible dildo ingeniously stimulating the wearer with an ergonomic base that grinds against the clit, meaning they can get off no matter which role they prefer to play.

    23. A trio of textured butt plugs created by self-proclaimed dildo duchess Zoë Ligon for the more experienced anal players. Each plug boasts a different texture and they ALL vibrate, so.... like a box of chocolates, they should probably try them all.

    Light blue, green and orange textured plugs
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    Get 30% off everything at B-Vibe from now until Feb. 14!

    The small (bump texture), medium (swirl texture) and large (twist texture) plugs each have six vibration modes and a splash-proof design. I'm not necessarily encouraging you to buy them all, but just that you ask yourself "what's the harm?"

    Promising review: "The texture plugs are fantastic. The medium was my first B-Vibe product and turned out to be a gateway plug. The medium has a fantastic shape and is easily used in both partner play and the shower. The large has heft and the motor is extremely strong. Time, lube, and patience makes them so easy to enjoy. These are well constructed products worth their premium price." —Kevin

    Shipping info: B-Vibe orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Shipping options available at checkout include: UPS Ground, UPS 3-Day Select, UPS 2-Day Select Air and UPS Next-Day Air. Orders must be placed by Feb. 7 in order to receive items in time for Valentine's Day.

    Get it from B-Vibe for $169.99 (originally $247.67).

    24. A dual-stimulating vibrator that boasts 10 vibration settings and 11 intensities, not to mention innovative suction technology that'll stimulate their clit all the way to nirvana.

    the womanizer duo atop a burgundy knit beanie hat surrounded by twinkle lights and a glass of red wine

    25. The Dea by Bellesa, which reimagines the classic rabbit design to bring them toe-curling dual stimulation through its two delectable silicone petals.

    Model holding purple vibrator

    26. A combo pack by Fleshlight to make them feel like they're floating on Cloud 9, which is to say — there's a Flight Aviator Fleshlight and a Quickshot Vantage included for both solo and partnered play.

    Transparent masturbation sleeve and small open-ended transparent masturbator with water-based lubricant

    The Flight Aviator masturbator is sleek and designed for intense stimulation with an intricate ribbed interior. The Quickshot Vantage masturbator offers versatility with an open-ended design for exposure that allows them to not only see their orgasm, but they can also add it to supplement handjobs and blowjobs. And of course, this pack includes water-based lube to use with both toys.

    Promising reviews: "A great pack that comes with everything you need. Fun for your alone times and adds excitement to fun times with someone else. The Aviator and Quickshot both feel amazing! Also, super nice to see the action." —Noukue C.

    "Was so excited to try this pack for my first Fleshlight experience. It was better than I imagined. My girl and I are so happy to be able to continue to spice things up with the Flight Pack. Must buy if you are looking for extra fun in the bedroom!" —Justin S.

    Shipping info: Free shipping is offered on orders $100+ and UPS Surepost (7–12 days), UPS Ground (1–5 days), UPS 3-Day Select, UPS Second-Day Air and UPS Next-Day Air are available at checkout.

    Get it from Fleshlight for $93.95 (valued at $111.85) or separately on Amazon for