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    50 Splurge-Worthy Sex Toys Because Your Valentine (Or Self) Is Worth It

    To tide you over until the chocolate is on sale...🍫

    Hey! While we’re doing our best to make sure the products we feature will arrive in time for Valentine's Day, shipping times can vary depending on where you live, which product you purchase, and more. So order earlier than you think you need to and be sure to double check the retailers’ websites for shipping information to ensure that your gift will arrive in time for February 14th!

    1. A rabbit vibrator inspired by Fifty Shades that adds a freaky element to their annual V-Day re-watch of all the films. *Ahem* Mr. Grey will see you now...

    Black rabbit vibrator on pink background

    2. A minimalist cone-shaped vibrator boasting three speeds and a tapered tip for targeted stimulation. This vibe is a perfect gift for the friend or lover who loves earth tones, plants, and most importantly: pleasure.

    3. A semi-transparent dildo decorated with adorable heart-shaped confetti, so they can celebrate V-Day with a *bang* whether solo or with a partner.

    Model holding semi-transparent and pink dildo with confetti hearts

    4. A wearable couples' vibrator guaranteed to make sure your partner gets the hint this holiday, so you both can get to know each other better by exploring the 11 vibration intensities.

    Model posing with pink wearable vibrator and wireless remote near torso

    5. A rose-shaped clitoral stimulator because everyone loves flowers, but I bet they love leg-shaking, curseworthy orgasms even more.

    Red rose-shaped vibrator

    6. A Blow & Glow Kit by Fun Factory featuring the ever-popular Manta vibrating stroker and Nos dual-stimulating cock ring, so basically a perfect gift for anyone who likes to suck dick.

    7. A vibrating bejeweled butt plug that they can wear to add a little bling in the bedroom or up the ante and explore distance play with its 30-foot remote control range.

    8. A harness and dildo combo kit — whether they're an experienced strap-on user and looking for something new or a beginner eager to explore new territory, this comfortable combo is a great addition to their collection.

    Model wearing black harness and black dildo

    9. A petite pleasure set by Le Wand that'll satisfy and maybe even deliver plusieurs des petites morts with a bullet vibrator and contoured pointed vibrator designed for targeted pleasure.

    Chrome and white bullet vibrator with textured sleeve, chrome and white palm-sized vibrator, white logo enamel pink, white textured silicone ring attachment and white carrying bag
    Le Wand

    Get 30% off everything at Le Wand from now until Feb. 14!

    The bullet vibrator has 11 vibration modes and four intensities, making it a small but mighty adversary in your arsenal. Or, you can explore more pinpointed pleasure with the Le Wand Point vibrator boasting 15 vibration modes and six different intensities. Pair the bullet with the textured silicone sleeve and ring that add a little more stimulation to your play. Show off your pleasure — I mean pride — with the logo enamel pin.

    Shipping info: Le Wand orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Shipping options available at checkout include: UPS Ground, UPS 3-Day Select, UPS 2-Day Select Air and UPS Next-Day Air. Orders must be placed by Feb. 7 in order to receive items in time for Valentine's Day. 

    Get it from Le Wand for $139.99 (originally $199.99).

    10. The luxury Kip lipstick vibrator by Dame that's perfect for the #BossBabe who's always on the go. They'll adore its aesthetically-pleasing design and five rumbly vibration settings for pinpointed, powerful pleasure.

    Model holding yellow and lavender bullet vibrators

    11. A vibrating Verge cock ring by We-Vibe specifically made to stimulate the perineum with eight rumbly vibrations and make this a Valentine's day they'll never forget.

    Models holding dark gray vibrating cock ring on torso
    @wevibe / https://www.instagram.com/p/B01c2xlhTv-/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    You can control the vibrations of this waterproof wearable manually or from the convenient We-Connect app.

    Promising review: "This thing is the bee's knees. It's strong, has 10 different levels of strength, multiple different vibe modes, just the right amount of weight, and does the job, very well at that! It's great for solo and couples. It also comes with an app for long distance fun with a partner! Be aware that you must plan to use it before any kind of stimulation because YOU WILL NOT GET IT ON! Other than that I couldn't be happier with this one!" —JacksonP

    Shipping info: FYI, the shipping address and billing info will be labeled as "Wow Tech" on discreet packaging. Free FedEx standard shipping (3-5 business days) is offered on orders $30+ and FedEx express shipping (2-3 business days) is also available at checkout. Also available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $113.05 (originally $119).

    12. A wireless wand vibrator boasting a muted pink hue that effortlessly blends in with that bouquet of flowers being delivered, except this one will last. Its flexible silicone head and three simple buttons also do a great job of making their legs quake.

    Pink wand vibrator

    13. The BuzzFeed x Bellesa AirVibe suction toy: with 10 powerful vibration modes and five suction intensities, it'll leave a tingle in their toes. For what it's worth, the number of leg-quaking orgasms they'll experience with this toy is bound to put you at the top of their list for next year.

    14. An open vibrating sleeve created with premium silicone for a soft and supple sensation and flexible wings that wrap around their shaft, so they can feel each speed and vibration setting at their preferred grip.

    Model holding black Pulse Solo Essential sleeve

    15. The Poco vibrator by Mystery Vibe, which is designed specifically for G-spot stimulation with a flexible body shaped to resemble fingers and dual motors, so they can feel all 16 intensities no matter where it's placed.

    16. A unique rabbit vibrator that looks a lot like this emoji: 🤌 A pair of dual motors and a curvaceous design deliver rumbly vibrations to their G-spot and clit simultaneously.

    Purple abstract rabbit vibrator next to flowers

    17. A precision bullet vibrator by Vush named after their favorite flower because it's both pretty and powerful, with 25 vibrating combinations and a flexible rosebud design.

    Model touching top of light pink bullet vibrator

    18. The Mini Pleasures Set by Le Wand, featuring a miniature stainless steel wand dildo and an even tinier version of their best-selling rechargeable wand because big things can come in small packages.

    White and silver mini wand, stainless steel dildo, white enamel pin and box

    19. A remote-controlled prostate vibrator with dual motors and six powerful vibrations to explore that simultaneously stimulate the perineum and prostate (or G-spot) for maximum sensation.

    20. The Jubilee clitoral-licking butterfly, which has nothing to do with X-Men and everything to do with pleasure via dual stimulation from its nine vibration settings and 10 "licking" modes. That means it creates the kind of orgasm that makes them see fireworks.

    Pink vibrator surrounded by pink objects
    @honeyplaybox / https://www.instagram.com/p/CK2hZcKLAuz/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Promising reviews: "Long story short, this thing had me climbing the wall LOL! Because of the suction, it is hands-free. The 'tongue' is surprisingly soft and flexible. It looked like hard plastic initially. But it definitely does the job, whether on the nipple or clit. Highly recommend." —Atalanta_J

    "I am not sure why this product doesn’t have more reviews, but oh my GOD, I just thought I’d share my personal experience. Hands down the best sex toy I’ve ever used. This made my body do things I didn’t know I was capable of. If you are considering purchasing this product, take this review as your sign to purchase. I promise you and your body will NOT regret." —Sadie

    Shipping info: Honey Play Box offers flat rate shipping ($7.95) and free shipping on orders $69+ and most orders ship within one day. 

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $68.99 (originally $108.99; available in pink and purple).

    21. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame, so they can enjoy their lovers' weekend with extra leverage and ample support to explore their (new) favorite positions.

    22. A unique strap-on compatible dildo ingeniously stimulating the wearer with an ergonomic base that grinds against the clit, meaning they can get off no matter which role they prefer to play.

    23. trio of textured butt plugs created by self-proclaimed dildo duchess Zoë Ligon for the more experienced anal players. Each plug boasts a different texture and they ALL vibrate, so.... like a box of chocolates, they should probably try them all.

    Light blue, green and orange textured plugs
    @bvibe_social / Via www.instagram.com

    Get 30% off everything at B-Vibe from now until Feb. 14!

    The small (bump texture), medium (swirl texture) and large (twist texture) plugs each have six vibration modes and a splash-proof design. I'm not necessarily encouraging you to buy them all, but just that you ask yourself "what's the harm?"

    Promising review: "The texture plugs are fantastic. The medium was my first B-Vibe product and turned out to be a gateway plug. The medium has a fantastic shape and is easily used in both partner play and the shower. The large has heft and the motor is extremely strong. Time, lube, and patience makes them so easy to enjoy. These are well constructed products worth their premium price." —Kevin

    Shipping info: B-Vibe orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Shipping options available at checkout include: UPS Ground, UPS 3-Day Select, UPS 2-Day Select Air and UPS Next-Day Air. Orders must be placed by Feb. 7 in order to receive items in time for Valentine's Day.

    Get it from B-Vibe for $169.99 (originally $247.67).

    24. A dual-stimulating vibrator that boasts 10 vibration settings and 11 intensities, not to mention innovative suction technology that'll stimulate their clit all the way to nirvana.

    the womanizer duo atop a burgundy knit beanie hat surrounded by twinkle lights and a glass of red wine

    25. The Dea by Bellesa, which reimagines the classic rabbit design to bring them toe-curling dual stimulation through its two delectable silicone petals.

    Model holding purple vibrator

    26. combo pack by Fleshlight to make them feel like they're floating on Cloud 9, which is to say — there's a Flight Aviator Fleshlight and a Quickshot Vantage included for both solo and partnered play.

    Transparent masturbation sleeve and small open-ended transparent masturbator with water-based lubricant
    Fleshlight

    The Flight Aviator masturbator is sleek and designed for intense stimulation with an intricate ribbed interior. The Quickshot Vantage masturbator offers versatility with an open-ended design for exposure that allows them to not only see their orgasm, but they can also add it to supplement handjobs and blowjobs. And of course, this pack includes water-based lube to use with both toys.

    Promising reviews: "A great pack that comes with everything you need. Fun for your alone times and adds excitement to fun times with someone else. The Aviator and Quickshot both feel amazing! Also, super nice to see the action." —Noukue C.

    "Was so excited to try this pack for my first Fleshlight experience. It was better than I imagined. My girl and I are so happy to be able to continue to spice things up with the Flight Pack. Must buy if you are looking for extra fun in the bedroom!" —Justin S.

    Shipping info: Free shipping is offered on orders $100+ and UPS Surepost (7–12 days), UPS Ground (1–5 days), UPS 3-Day Select, UPS Second-Day Air and UPS Next-Day Air are available at checkout.

    Get it from Fleshlight for $93.95 (valued at $111.85) or separately on Amazon for $49.95 (Fleshlight) and $34.95 (Quickshot).

    27. An arc-shaped vibrator elegantly curved to stimulate their G-spot with its bulbous ends and leave them smiling and satisfied.

    Model holding blue arc-shaped vibrator

    28. The tech-savvy Osé 2 dual stimulator by Lora DiCarlo that has a fully adjustable design, so they can find favorite positions and reach their favorite parts during use. A suction clitoral mouth offers external stimulation while the shaft pleases with its come-hither stroking motion.

    Model with off-white vibrator on body

    29. A remote-controlled vibrating egg created with a little bit of fairy dust, and by that I mean it has six vibration modes and five speeds for powerful dual stimulation.

    Pink charging case with pink egg-shaped vibrator

    30. A flexible rabbit-inspired vibrator because it moves with them and keeps constant contact with their clit while still hitting their G-spot.

    Model reaching for pink Nova 2 vibrator from tub

    31. An innovative training set to help them ease their way into the world of pegging or anal play with a supple silicone 6" vibrating dildo, a strap-on, a harness, a vibrating anal plug designed specifically for beginners, and two wireless remotes to control the vibrations from afar.

    Fuchsia butt plug with white wireless remote and purple dildo with black wireless remote
    Black harness with pink dildo attached
    B-Vibe

    Get 30% off everything at B-Vibe from now until Feb. 14!

    So, they (or you) want to try out pegging, eh? Well this bundle has it all, and both the beginner's anal plug and dildo vibrator can be controlled with wireless remotes. You can choose one of several different dildo options; the various shapes and designs let them pick exactly what kind of pleasure to deliver to their partner.

    Promising review: "This is a great anal beginner toy or an excellent option for those looking for something on the smaller end of the plug spectrum. Its excellent motor gives it a lot of bang for the buck so even those who enjoy a larger toy could get a lot of pleasure out of this plug." —Kat Stark (on Novice anal plug).

    Shipping info: B-Vibe orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Shipping options available at checkout include: UPS Ground, UPS 3-Day Select, UPS 2-Day Select Air and UPS Next-Day Air. Orders must be placed by Feb. 7 in order to receive items in time for Valentine's Day.

    Get it from B-Vibe for $178.49 (originally at $254.98; available in black and fuchsia with 4 different dildo options).

    32. A sleek and powerful wand vibrator in case they want to up the ante on their partner play with up to 50 vibration combinations and a versatile waterproof design.

    Model holding orange wand vibrator

    33. An Onda internal vibrator by Lora DiCarlo designed with a signature "come-hither" stroking mechanism and rumbly vibrations that will truly blow their mind.

    34. A new-and-improved toy by B-Vibe that combines the best of both worlds with a weighted plug and vibrating cock ring delivering incredible sensations down below.

    Model holding Snug and Tug plug behind back

    35. A luxury clitoral stimulator equipped with Pleasure Air Technology and an autopilot function to deliver some back-arching cunnilingus without having to bother with pillow talk.

    36. A snail-shaped vibrator boasting a unique shape that's designed for simultaneous constant clitoral contact and internal stimulation. As in, it delivers multiple sensations that can take them to the edge real quick.

    37. The Come Together Set from the makers of the hands-free Eva vibe, which includes a versatile external vibe, the Eva (of course), a stimulating arousal serum and Alu organic lubricant to help keep things friction-free.

    38. The Arc G-spot vibrator by Dame designed with a clit-stimulating ridge, five intensities, and five patterns to keep them buzzing all the way to next Valentine's Day.

    Model holding red vibrator in bathtub

    39. An innovative vibrating toy that delivers hands-free orgasms to people with penises by stimulating the frenulum with 10 vibrations at six varying intensities, so they can blow their own mind with half the effort.

    40. The Bringing Sexy Bath kit, featuring the Water Slyde, unique sex toy alternative if they enjoy masturbating in the bath and want to make things a bit easier and hands-free.

    41. The Satisfyer Pro 2 because Cupid is shuffling into town and giving you gift of air pulse technology, 11 intensities, and gratuitous orgasms.

    42. An app-controlled masturbator sleeve that'll effortlessly get them off with a 360-degree rotation and multiple sensations on the interior of the sleeve. The Max 2 offers three different levels of "contractions," adjustable suction intensity, and seven vibration modes for an extra-stimulating experience.

    Model stretching interior of masturbation sleeve to display texture
    Model with white masturbation sleeve on desk and a model with a pink rabbit vibrator on desk
    Lovense, @lovensetoys /https://www.instagram.com/p/CN2TPByArSu/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Reviewers say that heterosexual couples should pair this toy with the Nora Rabbit Vibrator for a reciprocal long-distance session.

    Promising reviews: "My boyfriend and I are stationed across the country from each other and, thanks to the pandemic, haven't seen each other since October with no end in sight. I bought this and Nora. They work well together and he said it was incredible when we tried them out the first time yesterday. It definitely made us feel a little bit closer for a bit, since they mimic each other's movement." —Anonymous

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's Day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $119.

    43. A powerful, rechargeable wand vibrator because, let's be honest, they don't need anymore Valentine's day decor and this sex toy requires nary a plug-in cord to satisfy their desires.

    White, gray and black wireless wand vibrators

    44. Or, splurge a little more on a simple and oh so sweet bundle by Le Wand starring the petite rechargeable wand vibrator, two silicone attachments, and two textured silicone covers for a stimulatin' good time.

    Teal wand vibrator next to two purple silicone attachments and two purple textured silicone covers
    Le Wand

    Get 30% off everything at Le Wand from now until Feb. 14!

    The petite wands itself has 10 powerful vibration patterns and six different patterns to explore. A flexible neck and shower-friendly design allow for pleasure in various spaces. But why we're here: the two silicone attachments are designed for internal stimulation, sending those rumbles to your favorite spots; and the two covers offer different textures for extra-stimulating external ~vibes~.

    Shipping info: Le Wand orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Shipping options available at checkout include: UPS Ground, UPS 3-Day Select, UPS 2-Day Select Air and UPS Next-Day Air. Orders must be placed by Feb. 7 in order to receive items in time for Valentine's Day. 

    Get it from Le Wand for $174.99 (originally $249.99; available in three colors).

    45. An Eva vibrator by Dame designed with flexible wings to tuck under the labia and nest on the vulva, stimulating them with three vibration intensities. *hint* Tell them to introduce it into couples' play for extra good vibes.

    46. A curvy G-spot vibrator for self-proclaimed size queens craving girthy internal stimulation with the slender end or a sensual massage with the larger end. Oh, did I mention this toy is just over 10 inches long? Yuh.

    Model holding hot pink vibrator

    47. The innovative Lioness 2.0 vibrator for the tech-savvy masturbator who wants to get off and later read all about it, with this unique vibe that tracks their body's response to arousal and stimulation. Get them a vibrator that's both smart and sexy.

    48. A postpartum-inspired sexual wellness kit for whenever they're ready to get back on the saddle after giving birth or experiencing pain in their nether regions. Because no one should have to sacrifice comfort for pleasure.

    Jade set of silicone rings, pink vibrator and bottle of Überlube lubricant
    Dark green set of silicone rings next to vibrator and lubricant
    Oh Nut Co.

    This innovative set includes the Ohnut silicone rings to add a cushy bumper during penetration, a bottle of the über-popular, silicone-based Überlube, a palm-sized Iroha mini vibrator by Tenga, and access to Pelvic Gym, an online resource to learning more about pelvic health, managing pain, and recovering after birth. 

    Promising review: "Having used it a few times now, we agree that the Ohnut works. My wife no longer feels the intense discomfort from penetration that's too deep. For her, sex is now enjoyable and doesn't leave her hurting. For me, it still feels great. The Ohnut doesn't impede me at all. The Ohnut goes on quick, the right size doesn't constrict my bit, and doesn't interfere with sexy time at all. Definitely recommended." —Tom R.

    Shipping info: Free priority shipping is available for all orders $30+. Orders placed Monday–Friday before 2 p.m. PDT will ship the same day. Orders placed after that, over the weekend, or on a major holiday will ship the following business day. USPS Ground shipping (3–10 business days) and USPS Priority Mail (3–5 business days) are available at checkout. In order to receive items by Valentine's Day, orders must be placed by Feb. 6.

    Get it from Ohnut Co for $125 (originally $168 and Pelvic Gym is $10/month).

    Ohnut Co is a woman-founded wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort so people can rediscover the joy of connection.

    49. A couples' gift set by Mystery Vibe featuring the award-winning Crescendo flexible vibrator and the flexible, wearable Tenuto vibe that delivers dual-stimulating vibrations.

    50. A unicorn-inspired sex machine, because they are worth it and deserve to take the ride of their life this Valentine's Day. No one else will be able to say they've ridden a unicorn...*wink wink*

    Your lover (or you), after a very expensive but satisfying session with their gift:

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