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What you do with your money is your own business, but idk, I think you should spend it on at least one sex toy. đ¤ˇââď¸
Currently, Spectrum Boutique offers #6 Brick, #4 Pixel, #3 Shell, #5 Beads, and #2 Hexa â pick one or two...or even splurge on them all! These are compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants due to the silicone structure.
Promising reviews: "I have purchased two of these for myself (two different varieties) and they really are just great. I love all the different options (though I will note the difference between my two is not enormous), they feel wonderful, and yeah. A great experience. I had the Tenga egg before, which just didn't cut it, so bumped up to this and really do enjoy it. Super affordable, well made, and a bunch of fun! I've been thinking about continuing with Tenga and getting myself one of the Flips!" âJames
"I haven't been sexually confused in a hot minute but, man does this toy confuse and enthrall me. I haven't been one to validate a need for toys for just myself, but this thing is just a wild lil' monster. Now I'm sold on having some personal toys because this thing is a perfect lil' toy to have around. The spiral action is pretty damn impressive as is the sensation from the internal texture. I can't tell if it feels more like an ass or a vagina but either way I'm happy as could be. Definitely worth trying one out!" âGJ
Get it from Spectrum Boutique for $27 or on Amazon for $21.47+ (available in all six styles).
Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive retailer run by self-proclaimed "Dildo Duchess" Zoe Ligon to provide customers with curated collections and resources.
A wireless remote control allows for partner play from a distance. Want to stay close? Here's the version of the same exact toy without the remote.
Promising reviews:Â "Donât overthink it, just buy it, do it! I love having sex with my husband and when we threw this into the game, the orgasms were like never before. So great!" âLuuups
"I ordered a few things as a new sex you user, this being among them. OMG. It made the things I usually do for my partner a lot more enjoyable for myself. My boyfriend was a little weirded out with trying something new until he was getting a reaction out of me. Also it makes solo play come to a whole new level." âAlecia
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $79.
Promising reviews: "Literally â itâs big and bad (and Iâm mighty glad). I have not even explored all the effects of having both motors running. My current favourite and well worth the money and eye bleeding pink color." âBbrrmmm
"Look, I've always bought mid-range low-tech toys before. I thought I'd give this a try (it's won awards in Europe â they should know, yes!) Anyway, it wouldn't matter if you were on the moon. Worth EVERY PENNY! Seriously. Swoonworthy. This item ummm garbled speech...ummm huh...big grin....really works v v well. Tried it the afternoon it arrived â there is enough charge in it to try it out. Suffice to say I will sleep so very well tonight. Just buy it! You won't regret it." âOld C.
There are five various dildos available in the line, each one with a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong.
Promising reviews: "I love sex toys, this one is the newest one in my collection. This brand makes the most soft and sensational sex toys that I've ever used. The feel is wonderful to the skin and if you're looking for something more on the bigger side this is the right one for you. I generally prefer dildos with a more narrow head, so if you're like me you may have a hard time (pun intended) getting this one in but I took on the challenge. I just had to get very lubricated and extra turned on in order to fit this big boy, but in the end I had that feeling of fullness that I was looking for accompanied by the amazing texture from the toy and ended up cumming super hard and feeling completely satisfied. Highly recommend for that lonely weekend or with some fun with your partner :)" âSatisfied customer (on Summer Fling)
"Love this thing! It's big but not too big and I love the way it looks. Easy to clean, strong suction cup base, girth and shape do me just right. Highly recommend." âSean K.
Get it from Amazon for $39.94+ (available in assorted colors and sizes).
Promising review: "This is my first time trying a toy like this. I didn't know whether it would be a comfortable fit but it worked out surprisingly well. Even though it is small, the vibrations get very intense. I was feeling aftershocks long after a spicy shower session. It's also fairly quiet. My favorite part by far though is the adorable design. Even the placement of the charger is cute. I had so much fun using this toy. definitely recommend." âc.w.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $47.99.
Honey Play Box is a sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators and self-proclaimed lesbian meme queens who are passionate about all things pleasure being positive, inclusive and accessible.
Or...like your finger, if it could move on double speed.
Promising review:Â "Don't be fooled!! Looks small but oh baby. I've never been a vibrator person and I bought this on a whim. This sweet little number will make you feel like you've been called to high heaven â came twice in record time & felt like I was walking on air. It should be a law that every person with a clitoris should own one. Absolutely amazing. 11/10 would recommend. If you buy one, buy this one. You will not regret it." âtck
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $59.
Promising review: "This toy is so pretty, first of all. And is easy to use, definitely great for if youâre new to anal play. 10/10!" âKaylee
"I wish I could rate this a 1,000/10. This is the comfiest butt plug I have ever owned. Perfect size and weight. Comes with a dust bag, too, which is a plus." âMadison
Promising reviews: "You will not be disappointed! Using Poco is like having an ultra-thick, dual-motor-controlled finger pleasure you, that unlike most human fingers, won't get tired. It's pretty perfect." âLaura
"There are so many times when we wish we had a discreet, compact, powerful vibrator tucked away in the bedside drawer to play with, forget about the world and reach new levels of euphoria. Thatâs exactly what I got from the poco vibrator! The best pocket vibrator in the market by far!" âClaudia
Get it from Mystery Vibe for $90 (originally $129).
The ribbing on the shaft allows the wearer to grind against the vibrations, while still being stimulated internally with the G-spot bulb.
Promising reviews: "This little toy is pretty damn great. It's great for both partners. The smaller end fits snugly and the larger end is just the right length and girth. It rubs in the right places. The vibration control is just right with three intensity levels and a few multifunction pulses. Can I just say 'FIREWORKS'?" âTarin
"Oh, wow. Have you ever had a masturbation sesh so good you need a cigarette and want to make breakfast for yourself in the morning? đ I now know what that feels like. IDC if I ever use this with a partner (though I think it will be AMAZING for that purpose), it's so good, I immediately bought a second one, just after trying it out for myself. I was half tempted to put it on Subscribe & Save and add it into my budget to buy a new one every six months as long as they're selling them, just to build up a stockpile. đ" âVpV
Get it from Amazon for $36.99 (available in purple and pink).
Promising review: "It's beautifully slick and smooth and pairs very easily with lubricant when needed. I ended up primarily using the silicone end to get off, since I loved the feeling of the glass in my hand and don't care for the buzziness inherent in holding a lot of vibes. This way, I could get the rumbles of the vibrations from one end without as much discomfort from simply holding it.
"The size was also just right for me, leading to another personal discovery: That no vibrator 'how-to' I had ever seen had ever suggested moving the vibrator when in use. Having a longer 'stem' to hold it by than a bullet vibe, though, allowed me to direct the Stardust Charm almost like a pen and truly draw my pleasure out, so to speak. ;)
"Overall, a gorgeous toy, and might be especially good as a starter toy for anyone with ADHD, autism, or other sensory issues. The only thing I might change is to add some sort of texture to the glass end; something simple that would enhance the experience without obstructing the view of the crystals." âMegan
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $59 or Amazon for $36.16+ (available in four colors).
This waterproof vibrator has a runtime of 1.5 hours and an ergonomic shape that offers easy handling.
Promising reviews: "Great shape (curve), lovely color, wonderful power and versatility. All around wonderful G-Spot vibe." âDiana R.
"Wow I donât know why I waited so long to get a proper toy. This bad boy is a game changer. Iâve only ever had small discrete vibrators but the ability to go from clitoral climax to G-spot climax and back is incredible. I thought the vibration speed wouldnât be fast enough so I bought the Zee too but the Arc really does it all (actually more powerful than the Zee). I also love the packaging and the texture/color. It might take me a while to get tired of the Arc but when I do Iâll definitely be back to try out more products!!" âElla N.
Get it from Dame or Amazon for $115 (available in ice and berry).
Each bulb tapers for 8'' of textured sensations. This is your friendly reminder that glass is perfect for temperature play.
Get it from Early to Bed for $76.55 (originally $84.95) or Crystal Delights Glass for $84.95.
Early to Bed is a Chicago-based, queer- and woman-run retail sex boutique committed to providing an inclusive shopping experience.
Uhh...I love this toy? I find myself reaching for it a lot because that dual stimulation does something to me that other toys can't and it's incredible. More importantly, the flexibility of the shaft helped me find the perfect position, and as a bigger person it's really nice to have a toy fit my body without too much effort on my part. I'm still tinkering with the power of the AirVibe and finding the perfect combination of its 10 vibration settings and five delicious suction intensities.Â
Promising reviews: "First-time vibrator user and IN LOVE! Not only do I achieve multiple orgasms, but if I'm not careful it has also made me squirt (which I had no idea my body could do). I love the versatility of it. I'm never looking back. Do yourself a favor and get one!" âFeeling Vibes
"This is absolutely amazing. Rocked my world and canât go back to any of my old toys, itâs just not the same. The way it hits every spot you need and more is really *chef's kiss*. 10/10 recommend to anyone new or experienced." âMimi
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $99.
This dildo boasts a length of 8.25 inches and a width of 1.6 inches. There's a suction cup base in case you want it to stay put, but I feel like the hardest decision is how to find enough time in the day to explore everything this dildo has to offer. TIP (no pun intended): this toy has a faux-urethra opening, so just pay special attention during cleaning!
Promising review: "This dildo was shockingly huge, in the best kind of way. Perfect length and girth, extremely smooth and lifelike. Loved that there were 10 vibrations to choose from and how powerful they were. Really love the shape and the thickness of the head. Celebrating this purchase!" âTaylor
It's me. I am 'bators. JK, but seriously â I love this toy. And every time I think another one has shown up to take its place, I am reminded by the compact size, easy handling and very very discreet noise (when pressed against the body)...that this toy is my ride or die. I tell everyone I know, and now I'm telling you. Never used suction? Get the Puff. New to sex toys? Get the Puff. Just want to expand your ever-growing collection? Puff.
Promising reviews: "Was hesitant to try this since I wasnât sure about the whole suction aspect but I do not regret going for it at all! Such an incredible price for an equally amazing toy! If youâre on the edge about getting this, just buy it, youâll love it <3" âjillian
"Iâm new to all of this. My friends literally raved about Puff for a year before I finally decided to get one. I did not knowâŚI could feel like that. It is amazing. It took me some time to fully utilize the suction feature in the puff, but the vibration itself is *chefs kiss*. I also used it once during sex with my boyfriend and phew!!! I donât even know if I have any words. Great for beginners!" âB.
Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in quartz and mint).
Word on the street is that you can also use this as a DIY stroker. đ Warm up Whim by placing it in warm water or holding it close for awhile to retain body heat. This toy is waterproof, body-safe, and compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants.
Promising reviews: "I bought these because they're unlike anything in my collection. Of course, they're fantastic for humping / grinding, but I think my favorite way to use them is to wear them inside my underwear when I'm home cooking, running errands, or stuck in traffic. The Pelle whim provides just the right amount of pleasure for me; not quite enough for a climax, but certainly enough to keep me smiling when I'm out in public. And no one is the wiser ;)" âAmber
"I was super intrigued but also really hesitant at first. It almost seemed too good to be true. I'm so happy I finally decided to splurge, I wish I'd done it way sooner! The whim(s) are soft, easy to clean and discreet. Out of my large toy collection this is definitely my favorite. Perfect amount of stimulation without being overwhelming." âBlu
Get it from Spectrum Boutique or Pelle for $98.
Promising reviews: "First things first. The number of preset vibrations are amazing. Tried every single version and each one was exciting. Very discreet, pretty quiet. I will admit itâs a little tight but I believe that to be on purpose. Just make sure to use a generous amount of lube. Cleanup is super simple. I will also add that the outer casing is pretty solid as it has fallen off my dresser now twice. No damage thus far. Highly recommend. Great toy for price" âJoe B
"I don't even know where to begin. The toy is the best I've ever used. The vibrations are strong enough to be felt throughout the shaft all the way to the tip. Just leaving it turned on without stroking will bring most to a VERY enjoyable edge. Add some stroking and you'll get to experience your strongest finish! A fun game to play is with a partner who gets to edge you using the various modes :)." âJohn Lee
Get it from Amazon for $34.99.
Promising review: "This product has been a game-changer! I have a small collection of 10 or so sex toys and I have to say that this became a quick favorite and I havenât even had it for 10 minutes! I was looking foreword to this arriving because of all the good reviews and I have to say; it was so worth it! One little thing I donât like is the loudness. It surprised me at first but I can get used to it. It doesnât bother me too much just because Iâm home alone most the time. Iâd say if you have other people in your house, just save it for when they leave or turn on the AC to drown out the noise. Overall, exceeded expectations almost completely (other than the noise)!!!" âRose
Get it from Amazon $64.95+ (also available as plus and rechargeable versions).
You ever fucked an icicle before? Now's your chance.
Promising reviews: "Wife wanted a glass dildo so we chose this one due to the variety of size. She loves being filled by the Brutus end and enjoyed the smaller end as well." âPistol Pete
"I didnât think Iâd get this inside me but it was easier than I thought because itâs smooth glass and unlike anything Iâve ever tried. If you like girth, this is for you. Itâs heavy too, which adds to the amazing feeling. It retains heat while youâre using it and feels like a warm hug. Longest orgasm ever with this one. Did not expect that. I would not recommend this for beginners. The smaller end would be suitable for beginners though. Iâd definitely try this if I were you. :)" âFUW
What, like it's hard?
Promising reviews: "Awesome little thing. Packed with power, very discreet, very soft and feminine. Lots of brilliant settings and options. The silicone feels so soft and luxurious to touch. Highly recommend!" âEmily T.
"Amazing I love it so much! Highly recommend without or even with a partner hehe itâs actually made me & partner now want to buy vibrating cock rings hahaha." âKyla B.
Get it from Vush for $90.
Vush is an Australia-based sexual wellness brand thatâs all about self-love and creating IG-worthy sex toys thatâll rock your world and match your aesthetic.
This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?
Promising review: "I am absolutely thrilled to have bought this. I know many people looking at it will think the price is extortionate but you really do get what you pay for. This rabbit vibe is ridiculously powerful â especially the clit vibrational settings! The toy itself is very hard and rigid so that's something to bear in mind. There are other toys on the market of you're looking for something softer. The head is so beautiful and bulbous, and has more girth than I expected, which was a welcome surprise. The length is so perfect and gives a deliciously 'full' feeling. I like the fact that it stands when charging. Also, the cute little pouch to keep the vibe in is a nice addition." âKansasGirl
This delectable device is created for intermediate anal players who want to experiment with multiple sensations all at once. The weighted plug ranges from 1.3" W to 1.7" W for a very full feeling. Not to mention, the six vibration patterns and four intensities, so you can build your way up to climax at your own pace.
Promising review:Â "Got the medium Snug & Tug the other day and was looking forward to trying out the cock ring portion more than anything. As usual with B-Vibe products it is very soft and smooth; this extends to the ring as well, which has plenty of stretch for perfect placement.
"The ring is nice because it isnât too tight yet firm enough to keep me erect (havenât had a chance to use it during sex yet just practice sessions) without feeling like I am being strangled.
"The plug itself is a great shape and was easy to insert but my biggest compliment for the plug part is that IT STAYS IN PLACE!!! This might not sound like a big deal but I havenât had the best luck with prolonged wear of plugs cause they always seem to slip out, so the most I get is a few hours while working. The Snug & Tug on the other hand stays put, probably thanks to the ring portion connected to it, so I have been able to go about my days and nights without having to worry about it slipping out.
"All in all 10/10 especially when you add in the vibrations!!!" âDouble G.
Get it from B-Vibe for $110+ (available in M and XL).
This little toy has an ergonomic design for easy handling and six vibration modes to blow your mind.
Promising reviews: "This is amazing! Iâve had it for months and have used it a ridiculous amount and itâs still going. Itâs amazing for solo play, but is also SO good for partner play. It gives me really strong orgasms." âPolly
"While I can't say how good this toy feels, I think my GF's eye-rolling-back-in-her-head orgasms do all the talking in that regard. What I like is how effective it is at pleasing her, which it does every time. I'm also a big fan of how easy it is to clean, because I'm always on toy clean-up duty afterwards, but whatever â as long as she's happy, I'm happy. And she's very, very happy with this one." âCollie
Get it from Womanizer for $99 (available in four colors).
Promising review: "This is a fantastic vibrating male toy. It is very easy to use and gives great sensations. It is very versatile as it can be used wet or dry, with a partner or solo, and it can be used without an erection.Â
"For me, itâs my new favorite toy. Since the Pulse can be used with or without lube, I first tried it dry. I found that unit stayed in place so I was able to watch porn and stay at the height of arousal for any length of time. When using it dry and with a slight movement it rubs the frenulum and gently pulls the skin on the shaft, creating a very pleasurable experience for me. Not to mention that the cleanup was very easy. When using it with lube the sensations are much more varied and The Pulse can create a wide array of sensations. It is very easy to hold on to even with lube everywhere.Â
"I tested it with a partner, where I was lying on my back with The Pulse on my shaft and had my partner straddle me. She felt the vibrations and was able to enjoy the vibrator for as long as she wanted, all the time I was hard and happy.Â
"One nice feature is that you can use The Pulse without an erection. Since the unit wraps around the shaft, you donât have to insert it like a traditional masturbation sleeve. The crescendo to orgasm is different when I use a vibrating toy. A feeling I hope all penises get to experience. The overall size is very small and the charger uses a simple USB power supply so it is very easy to charge and no bulky charging plugs." âJack
Get it from Early to Bed or Amazon for $99.
Promising reviews: "Every time I use them I'm super wet. I personally cant feel them once inside, I lift weights every day, and I also haven't given birth, BUT when I use them all day, my boyfriend gets off in less than five mins. The last time was four pumps. :/ (He made up for it.) I have no complaints." âBrittani
"Very nice quality. Shiny and smooth. Very pretty. I really enjoyed the coldness of them. I'm a first time user of Ben Wa balls. Tried two the first time. They were too heavy for me to keep them inserted. I'm looking forward to building my strength to keep both of them in. The cloth storage bag is a very nice accessory." âSexyRedHead
Get it from Adam & Eve for $27.95+ or Amazon for $12.64+ (available in small and medium).
Promising reviews: "Noticed I was getting grumpier than usual and decided to take things into my own hands. This time hands free :) I usually go for battery operated and this is my first suction mounted. Just wow, oh wow. Leg trembling results in a matter of 3â5 minutes, totally unexpected. Very pleasantly surprised. On top of fantastic results itâs absolutely cute! Suction power is awesome. Very pleased." âNina Kuz
"Super cute!! This is my first dildo and I was a little afraid of its thickness and length even though it's an average size but the confetti helped lol and the lube. It's 8 inches, including the height of the suction cup and balls, so technically it's really 6 inches. The suction cup was super strong (wont stick to textured wall of course). It's fairly firm but very bendable." âKelly
Get it from Amazon for $22.99.
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