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    30 Sex Toys For Any Couples Looking To Spice Things Up

    Your lover deserves a little TLC and here are some sex toys to help you deliver. šŸŒ¶ļø

    1. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame that supports all your favorite positions. Whether getting off alone or with a partner, this pillow will be there when you need it.

    2. A vibrating cock ring by Lelo because yes, it takes two to tango ā€” but it only takes one cock ring to amplify pleasure for a couple.

    3. A versatile panty vibratorĀ designed to stay put while your lover controls its adjustable vibration modes and speeds at close-range or from afar.

    GIF demonstrating how to wear panty vibrator
    Pink and black panty vibrator inside purse
    Lovense

    Unlike most panty vibrators, this one is strictly external and has a magnetic cap to help it stay put as you walk, sit, lounge or whatever else you plan on doing.

    Promising reviews: "This product is amazinggggg for long-distance relationships and even solo play. All different kinds of patterns, or you can make your own. Battery life lasts pretty well, and itā€™s pretty discreet and stays in place well. Iā€™d say that it is just a tad louder than what I expected, but I think that setting can be adjusted in the app. Iā€™d definitely 100% recommend this ā€” especially to long-distance couples." ā€”Leah J.

    "I'm not sure how people say this doesnā€™t work from afar, because this works. My partner and I live a thousand miles away and we got this, and he controls it from a thousand miles apart. You have to learn how to actually use the app. I 10/10 recommend this." ā€”maricelis torres

    Get it from Amazon for $119.

    4. A harness and dildo combo kit whether you and your lover are experienced strap-on users and looking for something new or you're a beginner exploring new territory...

    Model wearing black harness and black dildo

    5. A remote-controlled prostate vibrator, so you can tease and please your S.O. with nine powerful vibration intensities delivered through its flexible, curved shaft.

    6. A 14-inch double-ended vibrating dildo with seven vibrations, so you can get closer than ever with a partner or explore new positions for masturbating. With a length like that, you could certainly fill two holes at once...or at least try.

    7. An oh-so-convenient Ohnut set constructed with a stretchy, body-safe material to fit your favorite penis or dildo and offer extra cushioning during penetration.

    8. A hands-free Eva vibrator by Dame that can be used alone or with a partner in case clitoral stimulation is a MUST for your guaranteed satisfaction.

    9. A couples' waterproof vibrator by Satisfyer featuring a 180-degree rotating head and various applications, so basically you and your partner will flex your imaginations among other things.

    Model holding blue couple's vibrator

    10. A not-so-subtle vibrating cock ring that's designed for anyone who loves DP with an attached dildo perfect for anal.

    Red double penetration cock ring demonstrated on realistic dildo

    11. A discreet wearable egg vibratorĀ that won't clash with your favorite lingerie and will get you off with seven vibration modes and/or patterns you can personalize using the Bluetooth app.

    Pink egg-shaped vibrator next to cell phone
    gif of egg-shaped vibrator in water to demonstrate strength
    Amazon, Lovense

    The ergonomic egg shape means this discreet vibe stays put, so you can wear it out and about (if that's your thing) and control the vibrations effortlessly from your phone. No one would suspect a thing, and with a five-hour battery life...this toy can probably outlast you.

    Promising reviews: "App works great ā€” super powerful and quiet. All I had to do was send an invite to my bf, and he instantly was able to connect and control this thing. AMAZING!!" ā€”Rachael M.

    "I use mine on Chaturbate mostly. Connects super easily, which was something I was worried about. The app is easy to use, and this device works great for me on Chaturbate. Super comfyĀ ā€”Ā sometimes I forget I have it in." ā€”Vallaria

    Get it from Amazon for $129.

    12. A stretchy silicone cock ring with a ribbed, vibrating attachment to add a little more ~oomph~ to your stroke game.

    13. An app-controlled masturbator sleeve, which willĀ effortlessly get you off with a 360-degree rotation and multiple sensations on the interior of the sleeve. The Max 2 offers three different levels of "contractions," adjustable suction intensity, and seven vibration modes for an extra-stimulating experience.

    Hand holding white interactive masturbator
    Model stretching interior of masturbation sleeve to display texture
    Lovense

    Promising reviews: "My boyfriend and I are stationed across the country from each other, and thanks to the pandemic, haven't seen each other since October with no end in sight. I bought this and Nora. They work well together, and he said it was incredible when we tried them out for the first time yesterday. It definitely made us feel a little bit closer for a bit, since they mimic each other's movement." ā€”Anonymous

    "This is the most realistic toy I've ever used. The suction is excellent even though the air pump is on the loud side. The vibrations are a nice touch and make the experience even more pleasurable. The app works really well with easy control and a whole lot of patterns made by other people to try. Long-distance play works well, especially paired with the Nora. It's perfect for long-distance relationships but also amazing for solo enjoyment too." ā€”Matt

    Get it from Amazon for $129.

    14. An 8-inch splash-proof rabbit vibratorĀ designed with a rotating head that has three speeds and a flexible clitoral arm offering seven different vibration modes for superior external stimulation. All you (and maybe a lover?) have to do is download the app to stay in ~touch~ from anywhere in the world.

    Pink rabbit vibrator next to cell phone on mattress
    Lovense

    Reviewers say that heterosexual couples should pair this toy with the aboveĀ Max 2 for a reciprocal long-distance session.

    Promising reviews: "Especially when it comes to products like these, you are willing to spend the money, because the truth is you get what you pay for. That being said, let me continue with our experiences thus far. First off we literally have no privacy due to the fact we now have five people living in a two-bedroom. This thing is so quiet no one even knew we were using it. My wife said it was a 10 out of 10 experience for her. We have not used the apps yet. Yes, there are two apps required for the device because according to the main app you can connect multiple devices and have complete control over which one/s you want active. The other one just has multiple control settings for the device's operation in Wi-Fi mode." ā€”Dar Mach Shetra

    "At first I was worried about ordering this because of mixed reviews, as I wanted it specifically because Iā€™m in a long-distance relationship and wanted my partner to be able to control it. For distance perspective, my boyfriend lives 1,252 miles away from me. We had no problems using it; we downloaded the app, and he was able to control it right away, and there was no disconnecting. As far as how good the product is, the clitoral stimulation is fantastic, but I couldnā€™t feel the rotator on the inside as much, so it didnā€™t have much stimulation there. If youā€™re looking at this product for the same reason I was, I would definitely recommend it. My boyfriend and I had fun with it for hours." ā€”DCN

    Get it from Amazon for $119.

    15. A unique, strap-on compatible dildo equipped with an ergonomic base that grinds against the wearer's clit, so you and your lover can both get off no matter which role you like to play.

    16. A set of three metal butt plugs in graduated sizes perfect for anal training and long-term play, whether you're new to butt stuff or an experienced pro. Also, they're decorated with a bit of bling to turn that booty into a true work of art.

    Reviewer holding three metal butt plugs with pink gemstones
    Butt plugs arranged by size

    Promising reviews: "Experienced user here so started with the largest, slipped right in with minimal effort, put on a thong to help keep it from popping out and have been rockin' it the past 6 hours, only wish they made a next size up set!" ā€”RandomGuy

    "Bought these for my girlfriend and she loves them! And so do I! They are very comfortable and come in the correct size for those that want to take their love life to a new level. If you are new start with the small size and work your way up. This product is perfect as you can start small and move up as you become more comfortable." ā€”Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $15.88+Ā (available in 14 colors).

    Looking for more toys to fit your budget? Check out this round-up of sex toys under $20!

    17. A 3-in-1 cock ring for people who want to take their endurance to the next level and *safely* restrict blood flow to all the right places.

    Reviewer holding black triple cock ring
    Reviewer stretching cock ring

    You can wear this versatile ring looped around the base of the penis, the shaft and balls or even near the tip for different sensations.

    Promising reviews:Ā "The silicone material is soft and stretches perfectly. Fits very nicely and takes erections to the next level! Your partner will notice a big difference I'm willing to put money on it! Very easy to use and simple toy that is super easy to clean and even enhances pleasure. Can be a little uncomfortable putting on and taking off but a little bit of lube fixes that issue easy. Highly recommend everyone try one of these!" ā€”Brandon

    "Iā€™m not the most well endowed (girth not super lengthy) and it was a perfect snugness. The hole for your bean bag is comfortable as well, never felt any bunching or biting. Overall very well worth it!" ā€”Jeremy Munson

    Get it from Amazon for $8.99+ (available in four colors).

    18. The RockHer scissoring vibrator by Wet for Her, designed for wearability with a textured G-spot bulb and vibrating clitoral ring that deliver 10 scintillating vibration modes with a wireless remote control.

    Purple egg-shaped vibrator

    19. A flexible strapless strap-on featuring a dual-ended design to deliver nine powerful vibration modes to both the wearer and the receiver for simultaneous leg-quaking sensations.

    Pink dual-ended strap-on with wireless remote

    20. A rechargeable strapless strap-on, so you can get a little closer to your partner. If that's not enough bang for your buck, it also vibrates on both ends.

    Purple silicone wearable strapless strap-on with rabbit ear clitoral stimulators

    21. A wearable couples' vibratorĀ designed with dual motors and 11 vibration intensities for you and your lover to explore whether you're in the same room or in different time zones.

    Aqua dual stimulation vibrator next to cell phone
    Aqua dual stimulation vibrator, white charging base, white wireless remote and cell phone
    Amazon

    Promising reviews: "Fastest orgasm ever. I donā€™t usually enjoy putting toys inside, but this directly stimulates the G-spot, so thereā€™s space for more ;). You control everything from intensity to pattern. Connecting to someone else is easy (took us about 20 minutes to figure out before we got started the first time though), and it stays connected even from different states! Itā€™s not too loud (though I donā€™t go past 75% intensity, so that may be a factor). 10/10 recommend." ā€”Kayla

    "Strong little guy, my wife and I love it! The material is quality. We love the app. I get to control and tease at my will (drives her nuts)! It looks bigger in the pictures. The motors are strong and quiet. According to her the ergonomics are on point, and as couple testers we give it five thumbs-up. Nice addition to our alone time." ā€”tim

    Get it from Amazon for $119Ā (available in purple and aqua).

    22. A cock ring equipped with a textured vibrating pad to stimulate the clit or balls ā€” your pick.

    23. A uniquely shaped vibrating cock ring by Fun Factory with rabbit ear attachments to stimulate your lover's clitoris with each stroke during PIV.

    Model holding green cock ring

    24. A unique cushion boasting contoured tips for an extra-stimulating sensation, whether you're using it as a dildo base or getting your grind on.

    25. A vibrating masturbator sleeve that does away with all the bulk of a classic masturbator but still delivers with 10 vibration settings and a customized snugness based on your (or a partner's) grip and rhythm.

    Reviewer holding black ribbed stroker
    Reviewer displaying removable bullet and textured piece

    There's a little bump at the top for an even more stimulating touch to the base of your tip, and ridges on the inside so that every movement offers stimulation.

    I don't have a penis, but this looks incredible, and I want it.

    Promising reviews: "Where do start!!!!! This has brought so much more spice into the bedroom. My bf was a bit scared at first, but this has changed our sex life big time!!! Itā€™s a must, I donā€™t use it often, but I love it and so does my bf." ā€”Denise S.

    "A fantastic masturbation product. All frequencies have a lot to offer. The frenulum tickler is the big plus. This product can make me cum in seconds." ā€”Dale

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99.

    26. The Desire thrusting vibrator by Zalo, which boasts a pre-heating design that warms up to 107Āŗ F for a lifelike sensation and six whisper-quiet thrusting modes (including one turbo)! That warm, fuzzy feeling? Probably an orgasm, possibly butterflies. šŸ¦‹Ā 

    Model holding pink vibrator
    @zalousa / Via www.instagram.com

    Promising review:Ā "I tried it on my wife for the first time tonight and she was blown away. She had several orgasms in record-breaking time. She loved the softness, the pre-heating and the thrusting; they really made her feel great. We have about ten different toys that we have been using and this one has quickly risen to the ranks as number one. I don't see any other toy taking the throne." ā€”Ronnie V.

    Get it fromĀ Zalo or AmazonĀ for $139Ā (available in pink and purple).

    27. A unique dual-stimulating vibrator complete with three motors for internal and external stimulation all over. It's flexible, so it can be used anywhere, and it's waterproof, so you can get it on in the tub, shower, hot tub, pool...

    28. A stretchy, butĀ snug-fitting cock ringĀ by We-Vibe constructed with supple silicone for comfort and 11 vibration modes delivering dual stimulation to the wearer and your lover when you're together or powerful solo vibes when apart.

    Couple holding navy blue cock ring on bed
    Cock ring next to cell phone on nightstand
    @wevibe / https://www.instagram.com/p/CHGQBhynuU4/, @wevibe / https://www.instagram.com/p/B3-CqeDh2cj/

    You can control the vibrations of this waterproof wearable manually or from the convenient We-Connect app.

    Promising review: "We (F/40) and my lover (M/55) have no issues with pleasure and orgasms, but I still purchased on a whim. I was concerned that the sleeve would be too tight for his shaft but happy that the extra tightness prolonged pleasure for both of us!!! I highly recommend that you use this ring in different positions!!!" ā€”Annie

    Get it fromĀ We-VibeĀ orĀ AmazonĀ for $109.

    29. An 8-inch dual-endedĀ stainless-steel dildo with curves that'll leave a permanent smile on your face. Stay home, and splurge a little on yourself.

    At 7.5 inches long, this bulbous beauty steps into the ring and offers 2 pounds of weight for the full feeling your other toys might be missing.

    Promising review:Ā "Product will make your partner squirt. I would recommend pairing this with a Magic Wand as well. Problem my girlfriend and I encountered is itā€™s actually too intense for her, and now she requires to be tied up, so I had to make a follow-up trip to Home Depot. Solid rating at 5/5, will spice up your intimacy time." ā€”M. Allen

    Get it from Amazon for $72.

    30. A very convenient anal training set, stocked with a beginner-friendly plug, a vibrating plug, and a weighted plug. Along with the toys, it includes a comprehensive guide to anal sex, a lube applicator, travel bag, and an enema to help you prep and keep things clean.

    Components of set laid out
    B-Vibe

    This set is perfect for anyone interested in experimenting with anal, whether beginner or expert level.

    Promising review: "This kit made me comfortable and confident enough to try anal again. I had attempted it with a past partner years ago, and we did it ALL wrong. Fast forward a couple of years: I have a patient and knowledgeable partner, and I'm ready to try again. That's when I found this anal training kit, and let me tell you, it is well worth the money. Not only are the butt plugs of exceptional quality, but the Anal Guide is extremely informative. After using only the first two sizes of butt plugs, I'm having anal sex. Apprehension and fear have been lifted, and a whole new world of pleasure has taken its place. I'm seriously beyond grateful to have had such a comforting and helpful tool to introduce me to the magic of anal and butt play in general. Take it from me, if you're nervous but want to explore the pleasure your butthole has to offer, invest in this kit ā€” or any of their beginner products for that matter." ā€”Allyson

    Get it from B-Vibe for $119.99Ā (originally $159.99 and available in black and blue).

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