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1. A reversible satin blindfold they can neatly tie into a bow whenever they want to enjoy a little kinky sensory deprivation.
2. A versatile panty vibrator that they'll relish putting on underneath the debut of their latest lingerie splurge.
Its adjustable vibration modes and speeds can be controlled at close-range or from afar. Unlike most panty vibrators, this one is strictly external and has a magnetic cap to help it stay put as you walk, sit, lounge or whatever else you plan on doing.
Promising reviews: "This product is amazinggggg for long-distance relationships and even solo play. All different kinds of patterns, or you can make your own. Battery life lasts pretty well and it’s pretty discreet and stays in place well. I’d say that it is just a tad louder than what I expected, but I think that setting can be adjusted in the app. I’d definitely 100% recommend this — especially to long-distance couples." —Leah J.
"I'm not sure how people say this doesn’t work from afar, because this works. My partner and I live a thousand miles apart and we got this and he controls it from that distance. You have to learn how to actually use the app. I 10/10 recommend this" —maricelis torres
Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).
Get it from Amazon for $119.
3. A 24-karat gold-plated nipple clamp, following happiest of trails down to the clitoris for an extra-stimulating squeeze.
4. A simple ball gag provides a soft silicone material for them to sink their teeth into — who needs cavities from gorging on chocolate?
5. A luxury silicone ball gag adorned with a delicate rose. Remove the rose to reveal a hole that's perfect for teasing.
6. A breathable ball-gag designed with adjustable straps for comfort. It's perfect for the lover looking for a little bit of quiet time.
7. An Intro to Kink set by Emojibator that includes a vibrating anal plug, rainbow bondage rope and a choice of water-based or CBD lube.
8. An adjustable strap-on harness designed with not one, but TWO O-ring harnesses perfect for attaching their favorite dildos. You can finally deliver the gift of double penetration this year.
9. A versatile bed restraint system that includes four adjustable cuffs and restraint straps that fit underneath the mattress, offering comfy immobilization. Make sure the walls are thick or your V-Day playlist is...bumping.
10. A Shibari rope that allows them to practice all those "knotty" skills they've been working on this year. This rope is made of 100% natural jute and enhanced with aroma oils for a special touch.
11. Or an ultra-soft bondage rope by Emojibator with Funfetti rainbow colors and 26 feet of length.
12. Don't forget to grab a pair of bondage safety scissors to help them get out of those ropes when the fun ends.
13. A must-have bondage kit with a little bit of this and a little bit of that, so they can play out all their Dom/sub fantasies whenever and wherever.
14. A discreet wearable egg vibrator that won't clash with their favorite lingerie and will get them off with seven vibration modes and or personalized patterns using the Bluetooth app.
The ergonomic egg shape means this discreet vibe stays put, so you can wear it out and about (if that's your thing) and control the vibrations effortlessly from your phone. No one would suspect a thing and with a five-hour battery life...this toy can probably outlast you.
Promising reviews: "App works great super powerful and quiet. All I had to do was send an invite to my bf and he instantly was able to connect and control this thing. AMAZING!!" —Rachael M.
"I use mine on Chaturbate mostly. Connects super easily, which was something I was worried about. The app is easy to use and this device works great for me on Chaturbate. Super comfy, sometimes I forget I have it in." —Vallaria
Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).
Get it from Amazon for $129.
15. A pair of extra soft and sensual bondage restraints with pre-looped twists, so all they have to do is slip them on and start to play.
16. A pair of bangle handcuffs in case they've been hinting at jewelry, but still enjoy some light kink. These cuffs are beginner-friendly, lightweight and adjustable for comfort.
17. Or a pair of luxury leather cuffs that look like a fashion statement from the Tudor Era and meant for things that...Anne Boleyn might have been into, tbh.
18. Orrr, a set of see-through vinyl cuffs, so it'll appear like they're wearing nothing at all. This might be the "transparent" gift you could give, but so be it.
19. A 75-foot roll of bondage tape that only sticks to itself, so they can cover their lover with a little more than jewelry and kisses.
20. A wearable couples' vibrator guaranteed to make sure your partner gets the hint this holiday, so you both can get to know each other better by exploring the 11 vibration intensities.
21. A uniquely-shaped vibrating cock ring by Fun Factory with rabbit ear attachments to stimulate their clit — it may not be decorated with diamonds, but they'll still appreciate this ring.
22. A flexible vibrating butt plug that'll sync to the beat of their sex playlist — or even better, make a custom mix for them to enjoy the good vibes!
There's also an option your own custom patterns, or buzz along to user-created vibration modes already on the app. Supple, body-safe silicone offers a waterproof exterior and the spiralized stem traps lube to help the plug stay put.
Promising reviews: "Exactly as described, and exceeded expectations. This is a great buy for individual’s who seek self satisfaction. This plug is also a fantastic idea of fun for couples who look to spice things up a bit. Couldn’t get any better. Extremely happy with this purchase, and look forward to purchasing more products by this brand." —William Gardener
"We have had a great time with this. I bought the largest and it took a bit to get used to it. We are a couple of states away from each other and he has had a great time setting me off while I’m at work or doing things around home. The vibration is very intense at the highest setting and at the lowest just keeps you on edge. Being made of the material that it is, you have to keep it clean and let it air out, so it doesn’t smell if you get any fecal matter on it. Definitely recommend!" —JayyDee
Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).
Get it from Amazon for $94 (available in 1.5" W and 1.75" W).
23. An innovative training set to help them ease their way into the world of pegging or anal play with a supple silicone 6" vibrating dildo, a strap-on, a harness, a vibrating anal plug designed specifically for beginners, and two wireless remotes to control the vibrations from afar.
So, they want to try out pegging, eh? Well this bundle has it all, and both the beginner's anal plug and dildo vibrator can be controlled with wireless remotes. You can choose one of several different dildo options; the various shapes and designs let you pick exactly what kind of pleasure they want to deliver to their partner.
Shipping info: Orders are processed within one business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. The cut-off shipping date for Valentine's Day arrival is February 7.
Get it from B-Vibe for $179 (valued at $250; available in black and fuchsia with 4 different dildo options).
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
24. A strappy full-body harness boasting adjustable and stretchy straps that offers inclusive sizing. It's a perfect gift for the lingerie lovers in your life who prefer leaving nothing up to the imagination.
25. A full-body harness for penis owners constructed from genuine leather with adjustable buckles and an attached cock ring. Who needs a corny V-Day card?
26. A vibrating Verge cock ring by We-Vibe designed specifically to stimulate the perineum with eight rumbly vibrations that'll make them wonder, "Is that the neighbors making all that racket, or me?"
You can control the vibrations of this waterproof wearable manually or from the convenient We-Connect app.
Promising review: "This thing is the bee's knees. It's strong, has 10 different levels of strength, multiple different vibe modes, just the right amount of weight and does the job, very well at that! It's great for solo and couples. It also comes with an app for long distance fun with a partner! Be aware that you must plan to use it before any kind of stimulation because YOU WILL NOT GET IT ON! Other than that I couldn't be happier with this one!" —JacksonP
Shipping info: FYI, the shipping address and billing info will be labeled as "Wow Tech" on discreet packaging. Free FedEx standard shipping (3–5 business days) is offered on orders $30+ and FedEx express shipping (2–3 business days) is also available at checkout. Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Valentine's day (see Amazon's full shipping information here).
27. A vibrant gag bar from Unbound just begging to be drooled on by anyone curious enough to dip their toes into restraint play this Valentine's Day.
28. A chastity cage for their cock, boasting a transparent design that makes sure neither of you miss out on any of the action during your play.
29. A faux fox tail butt plug designed for tugging and teasing, with the option of having a silicone or metal plug for added weight.
30. A 15-inch rubber flogger, just in case bae has been hinting at impact play but doesn't know where to start.
31. A versatile 2-in-1 whip and flogger that makes a perfect gift for anyone who's kinky AF, but also fickle.
32. A waterproof octopus-shaped vibrator that also doubles as a mini flogger, so they can engage in some light sensation play and good vibes after an elegant dinner.
33. A faux leather paddle with "inappropriate" words mirrored on it, that'll leave them with a strong impression.
34. Or a flexible and lightweight heart-shaped paddle constructed from faux leather, so they can inflict a little *love* this Valentine's Day.
35. A heart-shaped micro bruiser that'll leave even the most experienced impact players begging for more. What's Valentine's Day without a little consensual pain and pleasure?
36. A set of glass anal plugs in graduated sizes, each bedazzled with a vibrant faux gemstone on its heart-shaped base. Ass — add some bling to that booty!
37. A convenient two-piece BDSM kit to get them started featuring Unbound's Tether tape and Orion cuffs. This petite pack offers two very dependable options for gift-wrapping their lover this Valentine's Day.
38. An 11-piece bondage set that's perfect for beginners looking to explore BDSM or experienced kink enthusiasts who prefer a one-stop shop option.
You can definitely enjoy a little (or a lot) kink everyday, but Valentine's Day just hits different.
Don’t miss Sam Claflin in the new rom com Book of Love from BuzzFeed Studios, coming to Amazon Prime Video February 4th and Sky Cinema February 12th.
