Emily Ratajkowski Shared The Reason She Turned Her Engagement Ring Into Two Divorce Rings

    "Finding the resources and strength to leave a relationship is often a very brave and remarkable act."

    Emily Ratajkowski shared the deeper meaning behind transforming her engagement ring into "divorce rings."

    Closeup of Emily Ratajkowski

    In 2018, Emily was married to producer and actor Sebastian Bear-McClard.

    Sebastian Bear-McClard

    Around that same time, she debuted her two-stone Toi et Moi engagement ring, which was a massive upgrade from the paperclip he initially used to propose.

    In 2022, Emily filed for divorce from Sebastian, revealing that she still had the ring, which had now become two separate "divorce rings."

    Jewelry brand Alison Lou told BuzzFeed, "Being as there were two stones, the idea of divorce is a separation, so it was always going to be splitting the ring into two separate but complementary rings. We wanted to give them both their own moment to shine."

    On April 7, Emily posted to her TikTok that she "forgot to make a TikTok about my divorce rings" and shared a deeper meaning behind the liberating jewelry.

    Closeup of Emily Ratajkowski

    Since it's been a few years since the divorce, she explained the "main reason that I'm sharing that I did this because I seen so many comments that associate divorce with failure and shame. And both personally and politically, I fundamentally disagree with that."

    Closeup of Emily Ratajkowski

    "I think historically, the shame around divorce is at least partly what has kept women in unfair, unhappy, and even sometimes abusive marriages."

    Closeup of Emily Ratajkowski

    "Finding the resources and strength to leave a relationship is often a very brave and remarkable act. I'm not trying to make the point that everyone needs to make a divorce ring or turn their wedding dress into a mini dress or whatever symbolic gesture for evolution."

    Emily Ratajkowski in a navy blazer with no shirt, black leather skirt, and chain strap bag

    "But I do think that single moms and women who are starting over for the first time in a terrifying way should find solace in the fact that they're not failures for leaving."

    Closeup of Emily Ratajkowski

    Several fans praised Emily for sharing the meaning behind her rings and even shared some of their own experiences.

    "Omg I love this! I loved my wedding rings & after the breakup they started to only symbolise pain & failure. So keeping them & turning them into something beautiful again is an amazing idea 😭💗," one TikTok user wrote.

    Screenshot of a social media comment by a person expressing love for an idea about repurposing wedding rings post-breakup

    Another user wrote, "I'm going thru a divorce rn & I want my wedding ring so I can turn it into a necklace for our daughter to symbolize our love for her."

    Text message from Elli expressing desire to transform wedding ring into a necklace for daughter to symbolize love

    "Aw, my mom always wore a divorce ring through my childhood, it seemed very healing," another person wrote.

    Text on a black background reads "Aw my mom always wore a divorce ring though my childhood, it seemed very healing."

    Someone commented, "I wear my grandmother's divorce ring every day! It was the first thing she purchased for herself when she left <3."

    Dimara shares her tradition of wearing her grandmother&#x27;s divorce ring, symbolizing independence and love

    "This. I'm divorced twice by my choice. I refused to be unhappy in life. It was extremely brave and scary but nothing was going to stop me. Thank goodness 👸🏻. I am so happy now!" another TikTok user wrote.

    Text post by Anne discussing her choice to divorce twice for happiness, expressing bravery and current happiness

    "My mom got her diamonds divided and put me and my sister's birthstones next to them to make it a 'mom ring'!" Another person commented.

    Image of a social media post by Becca about her mother&#x27;s custom &quot;mom ring&quot; with diamonds and birthstones

    And finally, a Sex + Relationship Coach wrote, "Not every relationship is supposed to last forever. Ending isn't a failure. Love that you repurposed your ring 💍💖."

    Text: &quot;Not every relationship is supposed to last forever. Ending isn&#x27;t a failure. Love that you repurposed your ring.&quot; With a heart and flower emoji