Parents·Posted on Mar 3, 201617 Dumb Ass Frustrating Things About Trying To Have A Baby In Your ThirtiesThe struggle is real.by by Morgan ShanahanBuzzFeed Staff, by Ali VelezBuzzFeed Staff WriterFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink 1. People will constantly talk about how hard it is to have babies over 30, even if your 30th birthday was yesterday. Universal Pictures It's gonna be fine. We're all fine. I'm FINE....Right? 2. There is no end to the unsolicited advice. Twentieth Century Fox People will tell you what to eat, what temperature to keep your genitals, and what position to bone in. Gird your loins. 3. You have become intimately acquainted with your menstrual cycle. NBC Up until now uterus duty has been a one week on/three weeks off kind of situation. No more. You now track your reproductive system's every move. 4. You've started timing sex to synch up with your ovulation schedule. John Lund / Getty Images "I'm sorry, we can't come to your dinner party. My basal thermometer tells me we're busy tonight." 5. Everyone from your dentist to your dad's golf buddies have asked about the status of your uterus. memegenerator.net 6. Everyone also has advice on what you are ~supposed to~ be eating from day one. Universal Pictures Basically nuts and seeds are taking over your life, both in the bedroom AND the kitchen. 7. Even if you've been pregnant before, there's something about that dirty thirty that gets the anxiety over the idea of infertility pumping. Warner Bros. Television Distribution That something is called secondary infertility and there's not a person in the world who won't remind you it exists once they know you're trying. 8. You suddenly can't go anywhere without seeing babies everywhere. Digital Vision. / Getty Images EV.ERY.WHERE. 9. TTC? POAS? BFP? You're totally fluent in internet fertility abbreviations. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF FOX 10. You spend a lot of money buying all sorts of supplements and ovulation kits. Amadeustx / Getty Images That's a whole lot of money to be literally peeing on. 11. You probably feel like any difficulty is your own damn fault for waiting so long. Pixar 12. You might find yourself crying a lot. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF Screengems It is OK to cry. This shit can be frustrating. 13. All of your tracking ads online are now pregnancy-related. IPGGutenbergUKLtd / Via Thinkstock Dammit. You googled "luteal phase" ONE TIME. 14. You might seriously lose if one more person tells you to "just relax." Warner Bros. Television Distribution / Via giphy.com According to *everyone on earth* stress is bad for getting pregnant, which stresses you out even more. 15. You've learned to stay away from Dr. Google. That dude isn't even board certified. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF CBS 16. You're gonna need a tribe for this. NBC Motherhood is not a road to be traveled alone. While it can be difficult to watch a friend conceive before you, being able to share the craziness with someone who gets it is priceless. 17. It might take a long time, and that's completely normal. Warner Bros. It doesn’t always happen on the first try, even for 25-year-olds. So stay strong and take care of yourself.