Tell Me When You Realized You Might Be The Problem In Your Relationship

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You learn so much about yourself and your partner when you're in a relationship. But what happens when you learn that YOU are the actual problem in your relationship?

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From your likes and dislikes to the way you prefer to give and receive love, relationships bring that all to light.

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And sometimes what you learn about yourself isn't always pretty, especially when you realize your partner isn't the person you want to be with anymore.

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Maybe you prefer a more dominant partner and you found yourself taking advantage of their kind personality.

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Or perhaps you noticed the way you communicate with your partner isn't conducive to a healthy relationship.

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Whatever it is, we want to hear about it. Tell us when you realized you were the problem in your relationship, and your answer could be used in a BuzzFeed Community video or post.