Buzz·Posted on Jun 23, 201418 Signs You're A Southerner Living In New York CityYou ain't livin' in the country no more, kiddo!by Michael BlackmonBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. If there's one thing you miss most about the South it would have to be manners. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. Whenever you go to a restaurant and ask for sweet tea, you're always surprised by what your server brings you. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. It's still surprising when a New Yorker somehow "knows" you're not a NY native just from the sound of your voice. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. That moment when you meet another person from below the Mason-Dixon line and you both vent your frustrations. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. Within a week of arriving you knew this wasn't going to be exactly the same as women of Sex and the City. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. You often think about when personal space was a thing. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. You miss when strangers would give a gentle smile whenever you happened to make eye contact. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF However, this is the response you get from strangers now: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. You feel really horrible when you don't give money to the less fortunate who hound people for money. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. You've repressed your urge to say the word "Y'all." 10. You miss regional chain restaurants like Bojangles so much. View this photo on Instagram 11. You sometimes want to assume fetal position and cry when you think about paying rent. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 12. Sometimes you're startled while walking down the street because there's some incredibly loud noise. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. No matter how long you live in NYC, you doubt your nostrils will ever adapt to the smell of feces and/or piss that randomly assaults your nostrils. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 14. You know the struggle of not having developed "train legs" yet. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. When you first saw a humongous rat while waiting for the train and you had to remain calm: Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 16. Your reaction when everyone says that the blocks and avenues "run on a grid": Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 17. Seeing something weird/sketchy on the train and wondering if anyone else notices. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 18. Although it's not the easiest place to live, you still romanticize the city. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF