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1. A Tushy bidet attachment if you've been with your S.O. so long that you know all their ~dirty~ secrets — including that they don't wipe well. This'll leave them with a cleaner crack and help y'all reduce the amount of TP you use. Plus it has the added benefit of water temperature control, meaning you can control how warm or cold the spray is.
2. A scratch-off world map for the couple who's always exploring. At this point in your relationship, you have plenty of past adventures to scratch off as you wait for future ones.
3. A 100 Things To Do scratch-off bucket list so your plans no longer consist of the following exchange: "What do you want to do this weekend?" followed by "IDK, what do you want to do this weekend?"
4. A one-year couples journal to kickstart fun, meaningful conversations like the ones you had during the early days of your relationship. Or, a Q&A-a-day three-year journal for couples in a more time-tested relationship who want to create a time capsule of their lives together.
5. A scratch-off Valentine's Day card that'll hide your mushy message and remind them of the Etch A Sketch they were obsessed with as a kid.
6. A pound of cereal marshmallows, because as much as you love them, you've tolerated them eating the marshmallows from your box of Lucky Charms for far, far, far too long.
Promising review: "Buying these charms was one of the best decisions of my life. The bag is twice the size of my head. The marshmallows are aesthetically pleasing and delicious. It's everything I ever wanted in a snack." —Amazon Customer
Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Valentine's Day.
Get it from Amazon for $12.98.
7. A pair of cat parent mugs if you're both unabashed owners of the most perfect fur baby. Even if your mug collection is overflowing, these are the two you'll both grab each morning.
8. Or a tarot seed packet for the folks who want to try co-parenting but don't want the added pressure of 3 a.m. feeds and trying to save enough money to put a child through college. Why not try plants?
Sow the Magic is a small business based in Asheville, North Carolina.
Shipping Info: Processing takes 3–5 business days. Orders ship from North Carolina so delivery time depends on your location. Expedited shipping is available at an additional cost.
Get it from Sow the Magic on Etsy for $7 (available in a variety of plants).
9. A box of 100 conversation starters so you never stop learning new things about your S.O. But don't toss out the deck once you've gone through it; revisit it in a little bit and you may be surprised how your answers change.
10. Or a set of 150 questions inspired by the Love Language test to deepen your connection even after all this time together.
11. An incredibly practical and oh so luxurious faux fur throw blanket that'll keep 'em nice and cozy during movie nights, in the car, in bed, at breakfast, in the shower...OK maybe not that last one. If your S.O. is always cold (even though the thermostat says 78 degrees), you need this.
12. A TikTok-famous 1,000-piece puzzle from The Magic Puzzle Company because it brings an element of surprise and excitement you've never experienced with other puzzles — or other partners! Not only is the illustration so beautiful that you'll probably glue and frame it when it's completed, but it also features 50 Easter eggs throughout *and* a magical twist that reveals itself once the puzzle is finished.
13. And a handy puzzle board if you and your partner are big on puzzles but small on space. It folds up neatly so you can start a puzzle in the living room and finish it in the kitchen, and is large enough to hold a 1,500-piece puzzle.
Promising review: "My husband and I recently purchased this as a Christmas gift for ourselves! During the winter we puzzle in place of gardening! We just finished a 1,000-piece puzzle on it and loved it! The drawers slide right out for sorting and the puzzle table is easily moved. A great gift for retired folks!" —Karen G.
Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Christmas (see Amazon’s full shipping information here).
Get it from Amazon for $64.99.
14. A variety pack of Partake cookies for the couple who's bonded over their shared allergies...to basically everything. Well, it's your lucky day! Common allergens like peanuts, eggs, dairy, soy, tree nuts, and more are not on the ingredient list of these delicious cookies!
Partake is a Black woman-owned small business started by Denise Woodard, a mom whose daughter suffered from severe food allergies as a young child. Frustrated that there weren't a lot of snack options for her daughter, Denise took matters into her own hands and quit her corporate job to launch Partake.
This variety pack comes with eight flavors — four crunchy (Chocolate Chip, Double Chocolate, Ginger Snap, and Birthday Cake) and four soft baked (Cookie Butter, Double Chocolate Brownie, Chocolate Chip, and Lemon).
Promising review: "I thoroughly enjoyed these cookies. I was skeptical at first because I couldn't understand how you could make cookies without all those ingredients. After watching the entrepreneur video I went to the website and said, I'll just support a Black business, being a Black man myself. To my surprise these are the best cookies I've ever had. I'll be ordering more because my wife and I are constantly fighting over them. I wish you much success I'll be partaking on the regular. Pun intended." —Duane D.
Amazon Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Valentine's Day.
Partake Shipping Info: Orders typically ship within 48 hours of receiving on Mondays–Fridays.
15. A fill-in-the-blank book so you can spell out all the reasons you love your significant other...like when they leave you little presents around the apartment, aka dirty cups and dishes. OK, maybe not that...
16. The Adventure Challenge: Couples Edition — a book of scratch-off dates to add some spontaneity to your long-term relationship. Each activity is a surprise until you scratch it off. You'll also get an instant camera so you can snap a pic of all the fun you have during each challenge.
17. A dual-zone comforter that'll keep the peace in the literal and figurative marital bed. Y'all have been together long enough yet you're still fighting over someone hogging the blankets or turning on the AC overnight even though it's 40 degrees outside? Rookie move!
Promising review: "This comforter is what we’ve always needed. My husband and I are always tangled in blankets because I need more but yet they always end up on his side. This comforter provides an all-in-one solution that keeps me warm and him cool and our bedroom looking calm and zen." —Hannah
Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Valentine's Day.
Get it from Amazon for $129.99+ (available in two sizes and four colors).
18. A Drinking Animals Coloring Book or a Jason Momoa coloring book because there's no better way to take the edge off than with coloring, a cocktail recipe, and fantasies of Aquaman.
19. An AllTrails Pro subscription if your other half is always itching to go explore the great outdoors. AllTrails is a free service that helps you find the perfect route for your hike, bike ride, family stroll, or trail run. The Pro subscription allows you to download the maps so you can stick to your route even if you don't have service — a nice plus if you're adventuring somewhere that's out of cellphone range.
20. A mystery box of cat hats for the feline fans whose relationship has progressed so swimmingly that they've added a furry friend to the family.
21. A heated back and neck massager so you both finally stop complaining about aches and pains. Let's face it, you love each other but you're way past the stage of wanting to give each other 30-minute massages. Good thing this lil' guy will do it without requiring that you give them a massage in return.
22. An Amazon Fire TV Stick 4K to bring y'all thousands — literally thousands — of streaming channels, movies, and shows, as well as live TV, news, and sports. The one nice thing about long-term relationships is that you both appreciate just sitting quietly and watching a show together.
23. An art kit that'll help you both tap into your creative (and maybe freaky?) side to create a tangible piece of art whose origins will be your dirty little secret.
24. The new AirPods Pro because you've been together long enough to understand that you really do love each other but if you so much as hear them breathe you're going to scream. These'll help block out the noise with the sound of your favorite tunes.
Promising review: "I have purchased every generation of AirPods. When I first read the reviews here, before purchasing these AirPods, I thought people were perhaps exaggerating a bit. But after having them for two days, what they say is absolutely true. The sound is amazing. Light years better than the AirPods Pro 1. It’s hard to believe that the richness of sound and bass can actually be produced by these small speakers. The noise cancellation feature is outstanding; in fact, when I took them out of my ears, and was hit with the onslaught of actual live sound around me, I realized just how effective the noise filtration is. They’re comfortable, fit great in my ears, especially with the choices of circular ear pads that are included, and the battery life is so much better than the previous generation. Love these guys. Very satisfying purchase." —M. SHAPIRO
Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Valentine's Day.
Get them from Amazon for $239.99.
25. A 7-in-1 Instant Pot if you want to give them two gifts in one. This time-saving device will deliver your dinner in minutes when it used to take hours, giving you more time to spend with each other. Awww!
26. A screaming goat who sits on a tree stump and shrieks whenever you touch it (honestly, same) for the partner who still appreciates a gag gift.
27. The Wand, a practical mini handheld filter so y'all can enjoy a bottle of wine together. This lil' guy is designed to remove the histamines and sulfites in alcohol that may trigger headaches and hangovers. It's also supposed to revive oxidized wine so you don't have to toss an open bottle.
28. A two-pack of Tile Bluetooth trackers to put a stop to your partner's most-asked question: "Honey, can you call my phone?" Good thing they'll never need help ~finding~ all the reasons they love you.
29. A teeth-whitening pen that'll brighten and whiten without irritation of whitening strips that slip and slide. ONLY gift them this if they've literally said, "Please buy this for me." (Because now is not the time to surprise your partner and them think that you think their teeth are yellow.)
30. A bleach-free, no-scrub weekly shower spray because the only thing y'all fight about is whose turn it is to clean the shower. This is a surprisingly great gift that'll make soap scum and shower grime buildup go bye bye without them ever having to wipe. Rinse it clean the next day, and you'll both be amazed to see those hard water stains on your shower door are *poof* gone. And maybe get 'em something a bit more fun too just in case!
Live footage of y'all exchanging gifts on February 14:
