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    17 Dating Tips That Aren't Actually Bulls**t

    When you suck at being an adult, and you still have to find the right person to spend your entire life with. Ugh..Just get a cat!

    1.Making the first move may be the most horrifying thing to do, but it's the best horrifying thing ever

    2.The best pick up line ever made was "Hi, I'm (insert name)"

    3.Learn to say "No"

    4.The three month rule

    5.No pressure, no sweat

    6.Actions speak louder than words

    7.Have no regrets

    8.If it sickens you, forget it

    9.Enjoy your own company

    10.Listen to your friends and family

    11.But NEVER let them make decisions for you

    12.You Don't always have to be in a relationship

    13.Never give too much, and have nothing back

    14.Be with someone who makes you happy

    15.Don't find yourself in the middle of a relationship

    16.Don't commit yourself to someone who hasn't asked you to

    17.No Fuckboy Zone