Oh.. Almost forgot. That feeling that you described about not feeling that you belong there is completely within you. If you feel you don’t belong it’s because YOU feel you don’t belong because I can assure you that no one else gives a Damn about where you’re peeing
I’m gay, this is absurd. There is absolutely no reason to force all of us taxpayers to create a special trans-bathroom when the fact is there are no urinals in women’s restrooms so the trans man has to use a stall, complete privacy. The trans woman doesn’t need A urinal to pee In a men’s bathroom so again straight to a stall and complete privacy. If you look the part then no-one Is going to question you. Non-issue. How about finding something else of importance to fight for.