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Nov 6, 2014

57 Important First Times In Every Female Friendship

BFFs go through a lot.

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1. The first time you take an ugly selfie together.

2. The first time you take a serious selfie together.

3. The first time you coordinate a fancy dress outfit.

4. The first time you record yourself dancing to Beyoncé and promise to never show anyone.

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5. The first time you spend an entire day binge-watching TV.

6. The first time you exchange a thousand words in one look.

7. The first time you both geek out over a shared fandom (or weep your hearts out because Cumberbatch is engaged).

8. The first time you meet each other's parents.

9. The first time you cook dinner together.

10. The first time you have to pretend her cooking is edible.

11. The first time you get changed in front of each other and it's not awkward.

12. The first time you share a horrific hangover.

13. The first time you figure out how to successfully blackmail each other.

14. The first time you can tell they're upset even when they say they're not.

15. The first time you cry on their shoulder.

16. The first time you realise that sometimes people need their space.

17. The first time you give your honest opinion.

18. The first time you let her borrow your brand new dress (and you have to forgive her when she brings it back covered in wine).

19. The first time you support each other's new creative endeavors.

20. The first time you snuggle.

21. The first time you bake a cake but eat all the batter before you get to the actual baking part.

22. The first time you start to develop your own private language.

23. The first time you send her a Snapchat from the loo.

24. The first time you meet her other half.

25. The first time you fight about her other half.

26. The first time you rescue each other from a terrible date.

27. The first time you conduct a DIY bikini wax.

28. The first time you have an entire text exchange in emoji form.

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(FYI that's the Golden Girls theme song.)

29. The first time you go out, just the two of you.

30. The first time you get so drunk from pre-drinks you ditch your big plans and spend all night dancing to TLC in your living room.

31. The first time you leave a party you enjoyed because your BFF is puking in the corner.

32. The first time you save each other from a creeper on the dance floor.

33. The first time you both throw shade at someone at the very same time.

34. The first time you hold her hair back when she's ill.

35. The first time you have a massive argument about nothing.

36. The first time you apologise.

37. The first time you both decide to eat healthy.

38. The first time you ditch the diet and eat pizza in bed.

39. The first time you share a toilet cubicle.

40. The first time you cry in unison.

41. The first time you laugh in unison.

42. The first time you laugh about something that happened ages ago and only you guys will find it funny.

43. The first time one of you freaks out over a missed period.

44. The first time you clutch your ovaries together and curse mother nature.

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45. The first time one of you goes through a massive breakup, and the other has to implement breakup survival plan.

46. The first time you have a feminist rant and feel all empowered together.

47. The first time you're there for each other during family dramas.

48. The first time you dye your hair together.

49. The first time you cover for her when she's made a drunken mistake.

50. The first time you stick up for her in front of a group of people

51. The first time you have an in-depth discussion about pubes.

52. The first time you talk about your bowel movements.

53. The first time you laugh about the fact that you're basically an elderly couple.

54. The first time you go on holiday together.

55. The first time you fart in front of each other and you're 0% embarrassed.

56. The first time you spend time apart and miss each other deeply.

57. The first time you're reunited and you realise nothing has changed.

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