Need Sex Advice? I’ve Got The Answers You’re Looking For

My name is Lara and I like to give advice. Oh, and I like to talk about sex, too.

Hi world! Do you have a sex or body-related question that you want some advice around? If so, you're in luck! Because I am here to provide advice and answers.

Before we get started, let me introduce myself. Hi! My name is Lara Parker and I work here at BuzzFeed and have for the last six+ years. I am also a person who enjoys talking about sex and sexual health! Part of this is because I am an adult who has urges and part of this is because I believe that there is nothing wrong with discussing sex. In fact, I think we should be discussing it more!

Instagram: @laraeparker

Whether we like it or not, sex is part of our world. It is how some human life is created. It is a thing people do when they are bored and also when they are in love. It is a thing that can and should feel amazing for all parties involved. And it is not something that should be shameful! Safe intimacy of any kind between consenting adults can be awesome. And while I know things are really weird right now with the state of the world and your own relationship with sex might be totally different, and that's ok! There's still plenty to talk about. So... let's freakin' talk about sex!

Whether you want some advice on how to send the best damn sext of your life during this quarantine...

Lara Parker @laraeparker

some of my best writing has been wasted on sexts to men whose best reply was, "is that so?"

05:59 PM - 27 Apr 2020

...or you wanna know if you should, ahem, dump him...

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...or you wanna know why you can't seem to reach orgasm, I have advice and will do my best to find the answers for you*!

*If I can't personally provide helpful advice, I will consult the help of medical and or sex ed professionals to help, too!

So start asking me questions! Give me your problems and I shall give you advice. You can DM me on Instagram or Twitter. I'm @laraeparker on both!

Lara Parker

You can also leave a comment at the bottom of this post if you want to! And please note that all submissions will be anonymous. To give you an idea of how your question will be presented, here's an example of another advice column we do by my co-worker Stephen.

A couple more things to note:

* Please be as specific as possible when it comes to the issue you'd like advice on, but try to keep things concise. Ideally, the whole message should be able to fit in a single screenshot!

* We'll be screenshotting any DMs we want to feature, but we'll censor or remove any information that could identify you (usernames, photos, etc.).

* If your issue involves someone else, please use fake names and change any identifying details in your story.

* Oh, and please know that I can't respond to every DM. I am only one person and I have like, a lot of reality TV to watch! You'll be notified if your message is selected for this column, though.

* Do not send me a dick pic. Thanks.

* Advice columns are only good for problems that don't pose an immediate risk to your health and safety. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 1-800-273-8255. Other international suicide helplines can be found at befrienders.org.

See you soon! xoxo

Lara Parker