• Add Yours badge

What Do You Secretly Want To Know About Being Married?

Do people change after marriage?

Marriage. It's a huge decision! Probably one of the biggest ones you'll make in your life.

But not everyone has that "I 100% KNOW THIS IS THE ONLY PERSON FOR ME" moment. So, is there something that scares you about marriage in general? Like, maybe you're nervous your relationship will change dramatically after marriage.

Or maybe you're worried you will get sick of your spouse...or, worse yet, eventually find them unattractive.

Are you currently considering marriage, but secretly want advice — on things like a prenup — from someone who has been married for a while?

Perhaps you have questions about finances or future in-laws or gross habits — whatever it is, I've probably gone through it! I've been with my husband 14 years and we've been married over seven. We've endured some of life's biggest obstacles together, including an organ transplant, unemployment, a baby, deaths, moving to a new state, and lots more.

So, ask me anything you want to know about marriage and I'll answer honestly. Submit your questions below and you could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post! (If you want to remain anonymous, say so in your question!)

NOTE: Seven years of marriage IS an accomplishment! However, I know I haven't been married like 50 years or anything — so I'm not trying to say I'm a marriage "expert" by any means. I just want to offer answers to questions people are curious about when it comes to marriage!