Parents·Updated on Sep 4, 2018. Posted on Aug 27, 201616 Questions You Secretly Have When You Find Out You're Having A BoyEverything you secretly wondered, but never said out loud.by Krista TorresBuzzFeed StaffFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink 1. First off, how do you clean IT? Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF ABC Yes, you mean the baby penis and balls. 2. And then there's the question of circumcision. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF jezebel.com Just saying the word sounds painful. 3. And while we're on the topic, what are you going to teach him to call his "thing"? java_queen_ / Via instagram.com You could go traditional here with "penis" or make up your own word, like "Beanee Weenee" or "Frank N' Beans." 4. How should you style his hair? Paramount Of course you think about these kinds of things. 5. Wait, wait. Back to the penis. Does putting on a diaper hurt him or smash it? Or worse yet, stunt its growth? NBC You don't want to be responsible for any permanent shrinkage. 6. And once he is potty trained, how will you ever keep your toilet seat clean? Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF Fox Face it. You will never be able to keep the toilet clean for as long as he lives at home. 7. Is your grocery bill going to double? Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF Nickelodeon No, it will probably triple. 8. At what age will he start getting facial hair? View this photo on Instagram Instagram: @domperripapi And when should he shave it? 9. When will his voice change? memes.com Come on, the only kind of puberty you know about includes periods and boobs. 10. What age do you start talking about condoms? sean.lavelle.161 / Via instagram.com Or have the "talk" in general? 11. And what if he dates someone you hate? Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF Columbia Things could get ugly. 12. Will he get boners? Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF Disney YES. 13. What do you do when you find lotion in his bedroom? kreshtacevallos / Via instagram.com And what if it's a really BIG bottle? 14. More importantly, what do you do if you find his porn stash? Universal You can't even deal with that. 15. Are you even equipped to handle things like ~wet dreams~? Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF NBC The answer is no. 16. And there's also that fear of not knowing when he'll be taller than you. jeaninedixon / Via instagram.com Just because he's bigger than you doesn't mean you can't punish him.