6. Books will never embarrass you.
When you’re on a date, it feels like everyone else in the restaurant can tell. You feel them staring at you as your date shovels food into their mouths or spills their red wine on their shirt. Avoid the humiliation and stay at home with a good book. Or if you and your book do go out, use an e-reader so no one knows what book you’re reading.
8. Books have been vetted. Most dates have not.
We’ve all been there: your date’s match.com photo had been taken 10 years ago, the friend that set you up neglected to mention the halitosis and hair loss, or halfway through dinner your date tells you they were recently laid off and evicted from their apartment. But books are reviewed and vetted across dozens of platforms (Amazon, Goodreads, etc.) They won’t just switch genres halfway through or end abruptly with no explanation.
10. A book never needs to know where your relationship stands.
Going on a date with someone on Valentine’s Day can send mixed signals. They think you’re more serious about them than you are or they run scared that the relationship is moving too fast. With books, your relationship is whatever you want it to be. No discussion required.
11. Books can be way more entertaining than a date.
Most dates consist of small talk (crazy weather, huh?), interview questions (so, where did you grow up?), and mundane chit chat. A book can entertain you for hours, without you having to utter a single word.
13. After a book, you’ll be a better person.
Unless you’re dating a Nobel Prize winner or Fullbright Scholar, you’re not coming back from that date any smarter. And unless your Valentine is Jackson Pollack, you’re not boosting your creativity either. Choose self-improvement this Valentine’s Day and pick up a book.
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