8 Ways Friendship Is Different At Ages 18, 25, And 30
Ch-ch-ch-chaaaaanges.
1. Where you and your friends hang out:
At 18: In the general vicinity of your school.
At 25: The bar. YOUR bar.
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At 30: At each other's apartments.
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2. How you communicate:
At 18: Snapchat.
At 25: Texting.
At 30: Slack (or other form of "work" chatroom).
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3. What you talk about:
At 18: College.
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At 25: What to do with your life.
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At 30: No, really, what should you do with your life?
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4. What you fight about:
At 18: Petty shit.
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At 25: Things you said when you were drunk.
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At 30: Not much. And you're usually over it pretty quickly.
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5. Drinking:
At 18: Definitely no drinking happening here!
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At 25: Booze. So much booze.
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At 30: You drink the same amount, but more of it is wine now.
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And it feels way worse the next day.
6. What you eat:
At 18: Whatever fast-food restaurant is closest.
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At 25: Brunch and hangover food.
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At 30: Home-cooked-dinner parties.
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7. When you hang out:
At 18: Every single day.
At 25: Every weekend, most of the weekend.
At 30: Twice a month, if you're lucky.
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8. How many people you think of as your good friends:
At 18: Between 8 and 25 people.
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At 25: You've got a tight-knit group of four or five.
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At 30: Mostly just the one best one.
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But by then, you'd rather have fewer great friends than so many just-okay ones.