After Coming Out I Recieved This 'Anonymous Friend' Letter - I Break It Down With My Response

fight the hate

NOTE: Ok… this blog is gonna be dedicated to the beautiful person who sent me this comment, in regards to one of my last blog post “from the heart”. Just so you know, thanks to the advancements in technology, i took your IP address and tracked your location… I even have your internet service provider you silly fool! I’m gonna break it down and comment back in regards to the things you wrote. I’ll be bolding and putting my response in italics just so we can keep ourselves seperate, since you might catch my gayness. Here Goes:

josh, I can’t believe you, I really can’t..

ME: friend, believe me!

okay, so I heard the news that you were gay, I didn’t believe it, watching you grow up, Everyone knew that you were different, but there are different people in this world, I didn’t care…. But you came out that yu are actually GAY! holy shit that blew my mind.. And to think that I looked up to you one time, wow, thats the real kicker.

ME: This is probably the most hurtful thing you said, just so you know. I do have to question why ones sexuality changes if you look up to someone or not. BTW, you better stop reading your KJV bible.

I didn’t see it Josh, I really didn’t. Seeing you in the house of God, you were a religious man.. A honorable man. and the day you got Married, wow I was so proud, I was hoping that you finally made that step, the right step. Sadly.. I, and so many more around me was mistaken..

ME: You saw it, you really did – you just didn't want to. I have never been a religious man, and you shouldn’t be religious either, it’s relationship not religion, you taught me that dumb ass. People make mistakes and as long as you learn from them, the mistakes was sooo worth it.

You could say whatever you like, It doesen’t matter if you get on your Blog and swear, the fact of the matter is, the world hates GAY PEOPLE, it always will, no matter how far accepted it gets, the would will always secretly hate them.. and you probably think that thats a rligious point of view, but it isn’t. Religiously, every different belief in the world say’s it’s wrong… And I seriously hope that you thinking that you could sleep with a man and still get into heaven is possible than think again, what you think is one thing, but what you do is another. If I thought that I was GAY, i’d stay single for the rest of my life, just with the comfort of knowing that it’ll be worth it in the end.. Hey! I wouldn’t even tell anyone! The world don’t hate gay people.

ME: YOU hate gay people, possibly because you’re a secret fag yourself. Don’t worry hun, I was there too. Most religion teaches tolerance, not ignorance. Life is a journey friend and we’re all on one path to finding ourselves. Ok… so you think I can’t sleep with a man and get to heaven, well… retracking what you said… you can’t get to heaven and hate gay people like you say you do.. so, can we sit together in hell? we can totally be BFFs! I’m not ashamed of myself. I’m not ashamed of who I am, where I’m from, the things that I went through to get me here. I’m not and it’s sad that you think you should hide yourself, when really, you don’t have to.

But even Science Josh believes the same thing.. If you wern’t a religious person, just believed in strict science, It’s all about “Survival of the fittest” and last I checked, two men or two women can’t make a baby. And if the whole world was GAY, we’d be a dead race, extinct.. It’s unclean, unnatural, disease spreading, and well… Just wrong… But the truth is Josh, and it’s really no your fault at all. And your going to swear and your going to be angry, very angry… But before you were born, inside your mothers womb where you were created there was a hormonal imbalance inside your tiny developing brain which caused you to be GAY..

ME: You know it’s funny that you bring science into this. I have to laugh. Science proves that people are straight just as much as science proves the existence of god. Like you said in the start, the world is full of different people. Well, like there are blacks, Asians and whites there are gays, straights and transgendered. Get pass it. And the last time I checked, it’s not gay or straight people that pass on “std’s”.. it’s sexual active people. I know it’s not my fault, nor is it some chemical imbalance in my brain (I believe that is depression, not homosexuality!)

Sad isn’t it.

ME: You’re sad, yes.

See Josh, Your a Hormonal Imbalance, a minor flaw or imperfection. Just like prenatal Diabeties or Fetal Alcohol Syndrome… GAYS AND LESBIENS ARE A DISEASE… One that the world should be trying to get rid of, like Cancer or AIDS, rather the world is embracing this imperfection, this error of nature, this infection.. Yes, an Infection.. See not often it happens, but when a Gay person haves a child (Obviously with someone of the opposite sex) that child has a 33% more likely chance of being GAY.. Sadly, the world goes on.

ME: The world should be trying to rid itself of ignorance and intolerance, the two things you highlight very well. I suppose you believe if two gay parents raises a child it gives them a what… 99% chance of being gay as well? You need to learn facts dumbass.

Although I do agree with you on the fact that GAYS are “REAL LIFE, RED BLOODED, HUMAN! JUST LIKE” us, But what friend wants to make best friends with someone who has Polio or the Measles. To any person with a IQ over a -5 would know that that’s just stupid. To a straight person we view your kind as the same thing, I know that I wouldn’t want my children becomming intimately close with someone of your kind, the same as I wouldn’t want them spending time with a child with the lice.

ME: wow… you think gay people have red blood? maybe your heart isn’t as black as it sounds. And I don’t think the ‘gay disease that you describe is contagious like polio. To anyone with an IQ of over -100, wait.. i’ll make that -150 to include you, would know that that’s just stupid as well. It’s sad that you’d fear for your children as you do.

I know that this comment is killing you, and that you’re probably going to show it to your GAY friends and Delete it, but it’s true.. This is how the whole world views GAY PEOPLE… Your in a WAR YOU CAN’T WIN JOSH!!!

ME: It’s not killing me the way you think it is friend. It’s killing me that your ignorant enough to even post this. And you should know that I wouldn’t just ‘show my gay friends and delete it’… i’m not that. I can respond in a decent manner.

So you can either:

i) Rid yourself of this Diesease,

or

ii) Do nothing.

ME: I’ll take the third option…. accept myself.

You might not like it, But face the facts that I just told you. Hey, I’ve dealt with Seuicide before too, I know you’re not a stupid person Josh, you would never do that, you know the concequences for your own actions, I hope you won’t do that. All I hope is…you work things out with you, and GOD!

ME: Finally, learn to spell suicide. I’m not stupid, and sucidal people arn’t either.

cheers