25 Ways You Know Youre Screwed And Have No Chance

when you know you are more than friends but will never actually get the commitment of a relationship

1. You might have gone out to drinks but haven't gone on a real date

she payed for drinks and you might have gone out for lunch or dinner but it is specifically not a date

2. You kissed on the first date

It wasn't a sweet tender kiss at the end of the date, it might have been a make out after drinks

3. You've been hooking up with them for more than a month

You've been "talking to" them for more than a month. In laymen's terms you would be in the dating stage of the "relationship"

4. You've hooked up more than a few times

The sex is aggressive not sweet you might make eye contact or kiss but its not sensual. You've come to the point where you argue about who initiated it because inside both of you are kind of bored of it but don't want to say anything because you are afraid that that will mean the end of the "relationship."

5. You normally see them at night

If you see them during the day its either because you didn't leave the night before or because you happen to be at the same place at the same time

6. If you stay over you have the urge to leave early in the morning

The only reasons you stay over is if they catch you sneaking out or they wake up before you or if you are afraid that either their parents or roommates will catch you sneaking out

7. The conversations have dulled

You may talk a lot but the conversations have become repetitive because the indecision about the relationship is taking its toll on one of your minds. You can talk about sex no problem because that is the only thing that is secure.

8. You are becoming more insecure by the day

The insecurity about the relationship is taking its toll not only on conversations but on every aspect of your being which is in course taking its toll on conversations even more. Even the things that you were most secure and proud of you are unsure of despite their reassurance because if they saw those good qualities wouldn't they want to date you not just hookup with you. You don't know if they are giving you compliments because you deserve them or because they are trying to get in your pants.

9. HOT HOT HOT

You describe them starting with their physical attributes first before their personality. They may have an awesome personality that you like but you usually describe them as hot, sexy or gorgeous before anything else and more than any other adjective. Even your attractiveness you are starting to question sometimes as well because its the main thing they focus on.

10. Ex's are present

Ex's come up almost everyday. You often compare yourself to them and although they have flaws and you feel like you have them beat in most ways but you are often puzzled by the fact the other person dated them but the person wouldn't date you but dated them. They say that the exs are not as cool as you but if they dated them and wouldn't date you than something must be wrong with you right? right? So you are good enough to have sex with but not date?

11. Ex's first You second

Ex's are much better than you and much more important. If you meet any of the other person's friends one of the first ones you met was probably an ex. You guys aren't as affectionate in front of the ex but the person whose ex it is doesn't realize it.

12. End or Beginning of the relationship

Of course they have a million excuses why you guys aren't or can't date. You feel like you've been together for a lot longer than you have actually been seeing each other. They give you the same excuses to why you aren't dating as you would if you guys were breaking up.

13. You are exclusive but the potential to change that is open at any moment

You might be out for drinks but with the slightest glance either of you could go home with someone else. They may say that they only think about you while they are with you but if they see someone they like they have every right to go after them.

So when you aren't together you are freaking out even more because they are thinking about other people and are fully admitting it so does that mean they are wanting to have sex with them or acting on it. Do they want to date those people instead? Why?

They say the aren't sleeping with anyone else but at any moment that can change because there is absolutely no commitment in the "relationship". Any day your relationship could change and be just a friendship or be absolutely nothing. Fuck FUCK FUCK! Are they fucking someone else right now or are they thinking about you? Is the other person better if so are you going receive a text soon saying your done?

14. You have no right to complain if they sleep with someone else or things come to an end

If anything were to happen between the two of you you have no right to be upset about it although you will be because youve actually started to develop feelings for them.

15. You fight often

Its usually about respect, or the "arrangement" or due to insecurities because of either

16. You are described as really close friends who know each other very well

So you've been friend zoned now what? But you are also fuckable...how does that make sense. You have feelings for each other but you are just friends so where do we go from here.

17. You can't act like just friends with them but neither can you treat them as if you are in a relationship

There is a long list of banned words and topics due to the intangible nature of the relationship. Although "relationship" is one of those banned words.

18. No grand gestures

They may be a romantic and sentimental but nope no grand gestures for you. sorry you aren't good enough for that no matter how much you would love them.

19. You spend almost everyday with them but every time you see them you have sex

You would be best friends if it were a normal relationship but it just doesn't click because there is something missing.... that thing is a label, a definition, a vague outline of what is going on between the two of you.

20. You are FUCKED because you will be tossed away for another soon enough

It may hurt as hell but thats the way it is and the sooner you come to terms with that and realize you can't just continue hooking up with the same person for an elongated period of time without developing feelings for a person.