Buzz·Posted on Dec 5, 201716 Things That Happen When You've Been In A Relationship For Three YearsYou're basically speaking your own language by this point.by Gyan YankovichBuzzFeed StaffFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink 1. The personal jokes that started at the beginning of your relationship evolve into the weirdest, most unexplainable things. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Sony Picture Classics / Via giphy.com A lot of the time the original joke is completely forgotten and you just have this whole new word/hand signal/nickname that you could never explain but will also never stop using. 2. And somehow, those same jokes never seem to get old. Ally Maynard @missmayn The secret to a successful long-term relationship is the ability to laugh at the same joke 3,682,000 times. 05:44 AM - 19 Oct 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 3. Basically, you develop your own kind of secret language. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF FX / Via giphy.com If someone else were to read your texts, there would be full sentences that would make absolutely no sense to them. 4. The answer to the question "did I ever tell you about that time..." is normally "yes, you did." Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF TBS / Via giphy.com Because long gone are the days of staying up until 2 a.m. swapping life stories — you've got 'em all now. 5. When your S/O mentions a friend you've never heard of, you find it verrrry hard to believe they're a "close friend." Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Taff / Via giphy.com After three years, you know all the important ones. 6. You become one of those people who automatically says "we" and "our." Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF CBS / Via giphy.com You swore it'd never happen but all of a sudden you start with the "oh, we love that bar" and "we'd love to come." 7. Your partner becomes the one person you tell all the things you're totally meant to keep to yourself. RO @romanrochelle When you tell your mans all the tea cause he your best friend too 05:05 AM - 22 Dec 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 8. You’re comfortable telling them about weird body things you NEVER thought you’d tell anyone who was not your doctor. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF ABC / Via giphy.com 9. You can't help but always bring one another up in conversation because, well, most of your stories involve them. @asialbx / Via Twitter: @asialbx 10. Though it takes time to completely open up, after three years you can safely be the brattiest version of yourself in front of them. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF ABC / Via giphy.com And of course, you've seen all the worst versions of them too. 11. You feel confident ordering takeout for them and can normally guess what they're going to pick from a menu. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF E! / Via giphy.com 12. You wake up one day and realize that you've picked up new interests completely by osmosis. FOX Whether it's a sport, franchise, or hobby, chances are if your person likes it, you'll eventually start showing some level of interest. 13. You know every single piece of clothing in their wardrobe. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Paramount Pictures / Via giphy.com Them: "What should I wear tonight?"You: "How about the linen button-up with the grey cardigan, jeans, and those fun socks your mom got you for your birthday last year?" 14. After three years, there's no offense taken if someone doesn't feel like cuddling. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Showtime / Via giphy.com Goodbye, dead arm. 15. You slowly witness yourself becoming that stereotypical long-term couple you once thought you'd never become. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF ABC / Via giphy.com 16. And your dates are very different to what they used to be, but they're always just as special. Crystal Ro / BuzzFeed Even when they are a weekend BB&B run.