Animals·Posted on 28 Nov 201626 Important Firsts Every Cat Owner Has ExperiencedDoes the death stare mean "I love you" or "I'll kill you"?by Gena-mour BarrettBuzzFeed StaffFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink 1. Taking your first selfie together. reddit.com 2. And enjoying your first joint nap. 🌿 @teabvt i found this hilarious picture on my camera of how I nap with my cat... she owns me and I know it 02:09 AM - 22 Oct 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 3. Holding your cat's paw. View this photo on Instagram instagram.com 4. And refusing to move, because your cat is sitting on you. Flo Perry / BuzzFeed 5. Feeding your cat human food because you feel bad they're missing out. imgur.com 6. Finding the cat has peed on something you love. catshaming.co.uk 7. Asking your cat a question and forgetting that they can't actually reply. Fox / 20th Television So what if they can't speak, they know what you said. 8. Taking a picture of your cat sleeping in a ridiculous position. View this image on Imgur HOW is that comfortable? I must know. 9. Putting on a funny voice for your cat. Flo Perry / BuzzFeed 10. And calling them by any other name except their actual name. Elaina Wahl / BuzzFeed 11. Experiencing your first pang of jealousy when you see your cat giving someone else attention. PentaHeila @Haylz_WoWfreak Traitor cat, traitor cat, does whatever a traitor cat does .. I see you Midnight.. 03:52 AM - 14 Jun 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 12. Holding your cat up to a mirror to let them see their reflection. Rachel @rachellorenh Take cat to mirror. "Look it's you" 06:30 AM - 12 Aug 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite "See how cute you are? Looooook!" 13. Using your cat's fluffy belly as a pillow. Twitter: @laurenlaubbb But not putting your full weight on them, because they're precious and you don't wanna squish 'em. 14. Letting your cat into the bathroom with you. Twitter: @TarinaTribe There's only so long you can listen to them scratching at the door. 15. Having a serious discussion with your cat as to whether they want to stay in or go out. View this photo on Instagram instagram.com 16. Inadvertently finding the place your cat hates being touched, and paying dearly for it. Adam Ellis / BuzzFeed / Via buzzfeed.com 17. Accepting that your cat is basically an extension of your laptop. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Kayla Yandoli / Via youtube.com No matter what, their butts will always find a way to your keyboard. 18. Having your affection rejected for the first time. Sian Butcher / BuzzFeed 19. Comparing pictures to see how much they've grown. imgur.com And how far you've come. 20. Seeing your cat with another cat for the first time, and assuming they're either best friends or dating. miles @milespiere My cat ain't been home for a minute and I find him here finessing 🤔 04:27 PM - 04 Jun 2016 Reply Retweet Favorite 21. Discovering hair all over your clothes. Jamie Jones / BuzzFeed 22. Accidentally stepping on your cat's paw and feeling the worst guilt you've ever felt. Twitter: @sturgee14 23. Taking your cat to the vet for the first time and feeling incredibly conflicted. imgur.com On the one hand, you want to look after their health, but on the other hand, you feel bad making them go. 24. Receiving your first wake-up call at a ridiculous time in the morning. Taylor Miller / BuzzFeed 25. Finding your cat doing something they definitely shouldn't be doing. imgur.com 26. And questioning whether your cat's death stare means they actually want to kill you. reddit.com "I'll kill you" or "I love you"? You'll never know.