This post has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can create a post or quiz. Try making your own!Buzz·Posted on Mar 21, 201425 Things Only Butch Gay Men Will UnderstandGrrrrr....I'm not that kind of gay.by gabrielr13Community ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. We started having doubts about our sexuality because we never fit the “stereotypes”. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. We are undecided on whether to hang out with gay men or straight men. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. But at the end, we usually choose to hang out with straight dudes. 4. Finding someone to relate to within the gay community feels like looking for a needle in a haystack. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. Never being able to find a good representation of gay men in the media. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. Some chicks never seem to understand that you can be gay and butch at the same time. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. We get asked “Are you sure you’re gay?” on a daily basis. 8. People just assume we are bisexual. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. Never getting the appeal of gay parades. 10. Rainbows are abominations. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 11. We can’t stand drag queens. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 12. Madonna is not our gay icon. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. We don't really consider any female pop artist a gay icon. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 14. Gay clubs are extremely awkward. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. Other gay dudes assume we are always “on top” because we are manly. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 16. Musicals = Nightmares Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 17. Sports and video games are lot more interesting than fashion design. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 18. If one of us is a “bottom”, people will give us a MEGA GASP. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 19. Rock or even hip hop are lot catchier than pop or techno. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 20. Glee is the worst TV show ever in our opinion. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 21. Dragon Ball Z > Sailor Moon 22. Having facial hair is actually pretty awesome. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 23. Always dreaming about this dude. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 24. That moment when you see your straight male friends kissing their girlfriends and realize how depressed you are. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 25. Feeling as if there aren't enough butch gay dudes out there . Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF