Buzz·Posted on 5 Aug 2016Everything I Wish I'd Known About Planning A Wedding With AnxietyAs if weddings weren't stressful enough, planning one when you have chronic anxiety can feel like walking through a minefield.by Fiona WardBuzzFeed ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail "Have you thought about a date?" "How many bridesmaids are you having?" "Are you having an engagement party?" Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 1. As wonderful and exciting as it is, getting engaged can also fuel a lot of worrying. 2. It can be hard to be positive about The Big Day. 3. It's tempting to put off wedding planning rather than deal with it. View this photo on Instagram 4. And once you do get started, it can be predictably overwhelming. View this photo on Instagram 5. You wonder whether you should plan your wedding around your anxiety. 6. There's a lot of second-guessing involved. 7. But the most important thing is taking care of yourself and your relationship. View this photo on Instagram