QuickFlirt.com Reveals 5 Ways To Create Irresistible Chemistry

Everybody knows what to do at the first date. But have you ever had that “Chemistry”? If you had that at least once you’ll remember that secrets for all your life, and won’t tell them anybody (why the hell you need competitors in dating, right?). That’s why I in cooperation with QuickFlirt.com dating site made a secret research among site users and ready to reveal most trusted ways to create that wanted “Chemistry”. Check this out! We won’t talk about banal things like smile, touching, etc. Everybody knows it, it’s obvious. To create a Chemistry you’ll need something more…

First of all - Find Something You Have in Common

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If you met on a dating site – pay attention to the profile of the person you like. Find something you both find interesting and use that information for good!

If you met somewhere else, it’s not a big deal, actually. When asking questions, try finding something you have in common. If you find out they like art, tell them about something you really enjoy when it comes to art.

Ask Interesting Questions

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Asking someone what they had for dinner won’t lead to an epic conversation. What their dreams are, what their fears are, who their role models are, what their favorite memories are, what is one book that changed their life, if they’ve ever had a dream at night they truly felt was amazing, if they believe in the spirit world and what their one super power would be if they could have one, those kind of topics will open up conversations worth having.

Interesting fact: 63% of QuickFlirt.com users that took part in research said that if you slowly get more intimate with your questions and look each other in the eye, you are more likely to fall in love.

Entertain

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Whilst asking questions is great, you don’t want to interview them. Most people are scared of running out of things to say and they are also nervous. A great way of making them relax is entertaining them with a story that will make them smile. Then they know they won’t be bored around you. And as they relax, their nervousness will melt away and they will feel happy to share their stories. Take a deep breath. Look at them. Listen to each word they are saying. Forget about yourself for a moment. You are there to find out about them, not to measure your flirting skills. So find out about them. Listen. Look. Enjoy. When they feel you care about what they are saying, they will like you better.

Matching and Mirroring

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When you are in rapport with someone, you will find that if they scratch their ear, you will do the same, or something similar, like scratch your cheek. If they cross their legs, so will you. It works both ways. Observe yourself next time you are sitting comfortably chatting to a friend and you will notice it happening.

QuickFlirt.com respondents mentioned that to create chemistry, you can do it on purpose. You need just match and mirror almost all their movements in the beginning of the conversation (just up to 20-30 minutes). Once you see them matching and mirroring your movements, you know you have established a certain level of connection, which means you can step things up a little bit.

Innuendo

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Looking at someone with that kind of look, will make them think thosekind of thoughts. Pulling your hand through your hair with those kind of thoughts, will make them want to pull their hand through your hair. Touching them briefly with those kind of thoughts, will make them want you to do it again.

This comes further down the line when some chemistry has been established, but make sure to include it. Without attraction you will become friends instead of lovers.