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Let's Stop Bringing Jennifer Aniston Into Brangelina's Split Because It's Sexist AF

She probably hasn't been sitting around for 12 years waiting to be vindicated, tbh.

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And you'll also probably have seen the internet erupt with Jennifer Aniston jokes.

Jennifer Aniston, reading TMZ this morning:


Well, The New York Post have gone one step further and put this image on their front page announcing the news.

Today's cover: Jennifer Aniston knew Brangelina would end one day

People have called them out for it.

The New York Post cover today. Mean, frivolous, lazy guesswork.


And the narrative was always that Jen wasn't over her relationship with Brad, and was desperate for a family.

This notion only became stronger as the Jolie-Pitts expanded their brood. But this is also pretty fucking sexist – and plays into the idea that the only way for a woman to achieve happiness is to be married with children.

But then she met Justin Theroux, fell in love and then married him. Committing to another person for the rest of her damn life is a fairly good indication that she was indeed over the relationship that broke down TWELVE YEARS AGO.

Let's just think about this for a second. They split up over a decade ago. And yet, for 12 years, Jennifer has been defined by this one relationship. It seems that no matter what she does with her life, it is forever punctuated by what her ex-husband is doing.

Defining Jennifer Aniston by a previous marriage is shockingly sexist #sexism

And to imply that a woman who was left by her husband for another woman has sat around waiting to be vindicated for 12 years suggests that self-worth is derived only from male attention.


Remember when Brangelina was in its infancy and there were literal T shirts made, emblazoned with the words "Team Jolie" or "Team Aniston," designed for the public to pledge their allegiance?

Well, this rivalry perpetuates the outdated dichotomy of a wronged woman and an evil seductress.

It's kind of like the Madonna/Whore complex – where women either exist in a perfect virginal camp, or a "slutty" one. In this situation, Jennifer, who was America's Sweetheart at the time of the split, was presented as the "good" one – the poor woman who'd been jilted by her husband. Angelina, however, with her vials of blood, pronouncements that heroin "fascinated" her, was firmly in the latter camp. But it's pretty clear that both women have more compelling qualities than this reductive depiction of them.

It also perpetuates the imagined rivalry of two women over a man – the idea that a woman's self-worth hinges so much on the attention of a man that they'll fight another woman for him.