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23 Thoughtful Hostess Gifts That They'll Actually Use

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1. A ~customized~ bottle of wine that can be as sweet or as rude as your host prefers.

Choose from several label designs and customize your label text to be as nice or as naughty as you'd like. Bottles ship in threes, so you can load up for all kinds of parties you're attending!Get three bottles from BuzzFeed's Wordy Wine for $49.99 (available in Artisenal Red, Italian Rose, and Vintner's White).
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Choose from several label designs and customize your label text to be as nice or as naughty as you'd like. Bottles ship in threes, so you can load up for all kinds of parties you're attending!

Get three bottles from BuzzFeed's Wordy Wine for $49.99 (available in Artisenal Red, Italian Rose, and Vintner's White).

2. Or a cheery bottle topper to dress up that bottle of wine you've had for months and finally found a use for as a hostess gift. But how will they use it again? They too can later use it on a dusty bottle of wine for a hostess gift!

It's called the circle of life.Get it from ModCloth for $8.99 (also available in "CHEERS!" and "POP FIZZ CLINK").
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It's called the circle of life.

Get it from ModCloth for $8.99 (also available in "CHEERS!" and "POP FIZZ CLINK").

3. And a bottle of the finest pup-friendly champagne so everyone in the host family is well-occupied.

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Get it from Amazon for $12.99.

4. A scrumptious-smelling candle for enjoying the party's baked leftovers with a convincing fresh-from-the-oven smell lingering in the background.

Get it from BuzzFeed's Homesick Candles for $29.95.
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Get it from BuzzFeed's Homesick Candles for $29.95.

5. A set of drink coasters nearly as cute and thirsty as you'll feel checking the Facebook event guest list for potential suitors.

Party hosts always seem to be short on coasters. These are cute enough to give forgetful guests a damn hint about using them on the coffee table. Get a six-pack from Amazon for $14.99 (available in three patterns).
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Party hosts always seem to be short on coasters. These are cute enough to give forgetful guests a damn hint about using them on the coffee table.

Get a six-pack from Amazon for $14.99 (available in three patterns).

6. A gorgeous bouquet with same-day delivery to send ahead of time because you'd rather not bother with nestling a vase en route.

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Get them from From You Flowers: Fall Harvest Celebration for $27.99+ and Sapphire Skies Bouquet for $39.99+

7. An adorable holiday cactus that absolutely truly undoubtedly WON'T die on your host because they don't need to water it. Ever!

You can give a host a cute succulent, but you also don't want to have to follow up with reminders about ~actually~ watering it.Get it from Urban Outfitters for $18.
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You can give a host a cute succulent, but you also don't want to have to follow up with reminders about ~actually~ watering it.

Get it from Urban Outfitters for $18.

8. A charming investment they'll drain by the end of the night, but it's totally fine.

Get it from Nordstrom for $56.
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Get it from Nordstrom for $56.

9. A rich AF napkin set so they can incur even more envy from the haters on their Insta stories. Also, they asked you to bring napkins.

Get a 12-pack from Urban Outfitters for $6.
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Get a 12-pack from Urban Outfitters for $6.

10. A lightning cable to help prevent their phone from running out of juice while they're managing a Spotify playlist and everyone's texting them with last-minute party questions.

Get it from Amazon for $6.49+ (available in two colors).
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Get it from Amazon for $6.49+ (available in two colors).

11. A hilarious *adult* party game to fill in those awkward silences when there's a group of people who don't know each other that well.

And this compact box won't hog a bunch of storage room, either!Promising review: "Bought for my family reunion and absolutely loved it. Who doesn't like memes?? The family got a kick out of playing it and it had us laughing all night. Definitely would recommend at any party or get-together!! So glad I bought this game." —N. V.Get it from Amazon for $29.99.
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And this compact box won't hog a bunch of storage room, either!

Promising review: "Bought for my family reunion and absolutely loved it. Who doesn't like memes?? The family got a kick out of playing it and it had us laughing all night. Definitely would recommend at any party or get-together!! So glad I bought this game." —N. V.

Get it from Amazon for $29.99.

12. A hand-carved clip as a step above their average chip clip that has the name of the local bank on it and mysteriously appeared in the junk drawer ages ago.

They're going to have so many bags of half-eaten bags of chips that need a clippin' so why don't you lend a hand? OK, you get it.Get it from Areaware for $30.
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They're going to have so many bags of half-eaten bags of chips that need a clippin' so why don't you lend a hand? OK, you get it.

Get it from Areaware for $30.

13. A pack of gorgeous thank you cards for the stationery fiend who you know will start on their thank you notes for hostess gifts the next morn.

And perhaps a sheet of stamps, as well?Get a 10-pack from Paper Source for $17.95.
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And perhaps a sheet of stamps, as well?

Get a 10-pack from Paper Source for $17.95.

14. A beautifully designed nutcracker and some nuts to crack with it. After all, those decorative ones aren't reliable for actually cracking nuts. (I've tried many times, much to my mother's annoyance.)

Minimal exertion required for cracking nuts. Hand-wash only.Promising review: "Love to use. Reminds me of winter nights cracking nuts and hanging out with my dad in a slower time. Elegant design gets the job done. No waste. Well made; I may buy more for gifts next Christmas." —KateGet it from The Grommet for $40.
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Minimal exertion required for cracking nuts. Hand-wash only.

Promising review: "Love to use. Reminds me of winter nights cracking nuts and hanging out with my dad in a slower time. Elegant design gets the job done. No waste. Well made; I may buy more for gifts next Christmas." —Kate

Get it from The Grommet for $40.

15. A cozy throw blanket from the Chip and Joanna Gaines Target collection to lend all the Fixer Upper vibes to your friend who never shuts up about shiplap.

One can never have enough blankets!Get it from Target for $29.99.
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One can never have enough blankets!

Get it from Target for $29.99.

16. A bamboo bath caddy for the ultimate in post-party relaxation.

Promising review: "Great product. Looks nice in my bathroom. Last night it did a great job holding my wine while I relaxed in the tub after a long day of chasing children. I highly recommend it." —CrysGet it from Amazon for $27.99.
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Promising review: "Great product. Looks nice in my bathroom. Last night it did a great job holding my wine while I relaxed in the tub after a long day of chasing children. I highly recommend it." —Crys

Get it from Amazon for $27.99.

17. And a set of sheet masks that only look like a million bucks so everyone in the host fam can get in on some peak pampering on the day after.

Promising review: "I'm obsessed with these masks. I use them once a week to pamper myself and they're seriously the best quality and leave your skin feeling hydrated. My favorite is the lemon mask!" —AsmaGet them from Amazon for $8.99.
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Promising review: "I'm obsessed with these masks. I use them once a week to pamper myself and they're seriously the best quality and leave your skin feeling hydrated. My favorite is the lemon mask!" —Asma

Get them from Amazon for $8.99.

18. A red wine stain remover people swear by because no matter how many precautions are taken, accidents can and will happen! And probably at *this* party!

Promising review: "I purchased this item and it sat on the shelf for a few months without use. Then, last night, I spilled a whole glass of red wine on my cream-colored sheet and blanket. I followed the instructions: absorbing all the liquid with paper towels, then moistening the stains with water, then spraying liberally, then wiping off. After about two rounds of this, the stains almost completely disappeared. I'm very impressed, it was definitely worth the cost because I otherwise would have had to replace my sheet and blanket! It works wonders with fresh stains if you act quickly." —Mrs. RochesterGet it from Amazon for $8 or The Grommet for $7.95.
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Promising review: "I purchased this item and it sat on the shelf for a few months without use. Then, last night, I spilled a whole glass of red wine on my cream-colored sheet and blanket. I followed the instructions: absorbing all the liquid with paper towels, then moistening the stains with water, then spraying liberally, then wiping off. After about two rounds of this, the stains almost completely disappeared. I'm very impressed, it was definitely worth the cost because I otherwise would have had to replace my sheet and blanket! It works wonders with fresh stains if you act quickly." —Mrs. Rochester

Get it from Amazon for $8 or The Grommet for $7.95.

19. A gourmet food basket with both sweet and savory goodies to satisfy all kinds of post-party cravings.

Includes Jack Allen Blue Cheese Twist, Jack Allen Blue Cheese, herb-marinated olives, dried apricots, water crackers, a box of truffles, and two squares of Ghirardelli chocolates.Get it from Jet for $25.32 or Walmart for $25.32.
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Includes Jack Allen Blue Cheese Twist, Jack Allen Blue Cheese, herb-marinated olives, dried apricots, water crackers, a box of truffles, and two squares of Ghirardelli chocolates.

Get it from Jet for $25.32 or Walmart for $25.32.

20. A four-pack of heat-resistant mats they can use for resting hot casseroles now, pulling dishes out of the oven later.

You can never have too many trivets. Especially when you're throwing a party! Can use as a pot holder, trivet, jar opener, or anywhere you need extra grip or extreme heat or cold protection.Promising review: "I have a couple of silicone trivets, but always found that I needed a couple more. My other ones are circles, so I really wanted to get these in squares so I have a couple sizes and shapes. These work wonderfully. They protect my counters and keep things from slipping. I grab them instead of oven gloves to get things out of the oven or grab hot handles. I found that after switching to a gas stove a month ago all my handles get much hotter, so I use these to keep my hands from getting burnt." —AundreaGet it from Amazon for $9.98.
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You can never have too many trivets. Especially when you're throwing a party! Can use as a pot holder, trivet, jar opener, or anywhere you need extra grip or extreme heat or cold protection.

Promising review: "I have a couple of silicone trivets, but always found that I needed a couple more. My other ones are circles, so I really wanted to get these in squares so I have a couple sizes and shapes. These work wonderfully. They protect my counters and keep things from slipping. I grab them instead of oven gloves to get things out of the oven or grab hot handles. I found that after switching to a gas stove a month ago all my handles get much hotter, so I use these to keep my hands from getting burnt." —Aundrea

Get it from Amazon for $9.98.

21. A ~luxury~ pump hand soap for helping replenish the host's hand soap supply that guests are sure to deplete during the shindig.

Get the hand wash from Amazon for $15.
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Get the hand wash from Amazon for $15.

22. A charming photo frame to commemorate the party. But for now, you can pre-fill with a pic of you and the host or a pretty card.

Get it from Target for $12.99.
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Get it from Target for $12.99.

23. And a monogram mug that, yes, is from Anthro but whatever you don't really even like them anyway. Or maybe they collect monogram coffee mugs and this can go on their special shelf?!

One of the only good and true things in the world is that Anthro always has some pretty dishware for gift giving.Get it from Anthropologie for $8 (available in 26 letters).
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One of the only good and true things in the world is that Anthro always has some pretty dishware for gift giving.

Get it from Anthropologie for $8 (available in 26 letters).

You after you present your amazing gift and are ready to take over the party:

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