Response to 13 Reasons Why Nice Guys Are The Worst:
I think the point is these women have already decided they don’t want “something meaningful” with you. It doesn’t matter if you’re after sex or “meaningful romance”—-you’re not getting either from her. If she’s not into it (and she knows right away,Ipromise), your “niceness” toward her is irrelevant. In short, if at that point you’re not cool with treating her exactly the same way you treat your dude friends and getting exactly the same from her in return, then stop being “nice” and move on.