Core feminist beliefs do not include the inherent hatred of men. Contrary to popular belief, males can identify as feminists as well. In his essay "Other Men," John Stoltenberg reflects on his feelings of masculine inadequacy and subsequent isolation, due to his association with the radical feminist movement. For Stoltenberg, feminism allowed him to understand the need for a “gender-just future,” where assisting in the liberation of woman kind would assist in the deliverance of men from stifling assumptions about how masculinity should be experienced (167). Under a patriarchal system, a brotherhood is rampant that embraces men “on account of their being men” that completely ignores the interests and autonomy of women. Stoltenberg calls more men to cast aside what they know about feminism, and most importantly to shed the illusion of “masculine complacency.” Despite her anger at the double standards found in pop music’s representation of women, Lady Gaga outright denounces being a feminist in the interview above. Perhaps at that moment in time Gaga misunderstood that feminism does not necessarily require man hate, and works to defend all women, even the “strong women that speak their minds” that she so admires. For true feminism to succeed, males and individuals of all identities must be included.
Stoltenberg, John. "Other Men"
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