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    10 Things That Are Too Real When You're The Better Friend

    Friendship may be one of your priorities, but its not everyone's, and that is okay! Love your crap friends just as they are, and take pride in your mad friendship skills.

    1. You are so ready to be there for a friend through hard times.

    But if you ever need to talk, you can't tell if your friend is listening or wondering what color to paint their bathrooms...

    2. Plans? What plans? You know that last minute cancellations are a common occurrence.

    3. You celebrate their major life events, and any other little victory.

    But they might have forgotten your birthday last year...

    4. Response time varies from hours to days.

    And you try to resist the urge to text them, again.

    And you always cave. Hello? Are you alive?!

    5. You keep track of developments in your friend's life, but they might miss a few details of your own.

    6. Even if plans are not canceled, you still find yourself ditched when you're out.

    7. You're ready to put everything on hold if your friend sends you an SOS.

    But when shiz gets real in your own life, you know it might be a while before they show up

    8. You get all standard approvals before posting photos to social media, but wake up to pictures like this on facebook the morning after a night out.

    9. Your friend always as to 'one up' you, and you let them.

    10. Finally, no matter how many times stuff like this happens you love your friends and would give them the shirt off your back. Some people might call you a doormat, but you know you're really the strong one because you are choosing to be a good friend. Good job for being such a kick ass friend.