What Makes Someone Great At Sex?

It's a little more complicated than touching each other's genitals.

Posted on June 08, 2015, 21:32 GMT

Casey Gueren

BuzzFeed Staff

Think back to the last time you had a really REALLY good time hooking up with someone.

Whenever the sex/foreplay/mutual groping/making out/whatever you were doing was super hot and satisfying.

10 of 10, would bone again.

But…what made it so great? Was it their absolute adoration of your body? Their level of experience? That crazy tongue trick they pulled out of nowhere?

Was it something they said or did? Or was it something they DIDN’T say or do?

Maybe it was all about their attention to detail, their creativity, their questionably large inventory of amazing sex positions, or just the fact that they gave you an orgasm.

Basically...what makes someone good in bed?

We want to know the quality, technique, or random quirk that makes someone really good at the whole sex thing (however you define it). Tell us in the comments and it might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Life post.