Chances are you've heard or read some questionable sex tips in the past. Cosmopolitan / Via reddit.com But what sounds good in theory just doesn't always...work. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF College Humor / Via blog.collegehumor.com So we're turning it over to you. What sex advice do you actually suggest? http://bricesander.tumblr.com/post/82159338191/sex-tips What are some real, legitimate tips and lessons all sex-havers need to hear? View this photo on Instagram instagram.com We're looking for advice that would benefit everyone — regardless of their sexuality or gender identity. But we're also looking for specific tips that may just apply to people with certain sexual preferences. Basically, what sex advice do you consider to be important, realistic, and genuinely helpful? Maybe you have a certain technique that you swear by. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF NBC / Via infinitesimal7.tumblr.com 5/5 would bang this way again. Maybe it's a sexual lesson that lots of people would actually benefit from. View this photo on Instagram instagram.com Like that laughing and joking mid-sex is totally acceptable and kind of encouraged. Or that drunk sex doesn't hold a candle to the greatness of sober, oh-wow-I-have-all-my-senses-intact sex. Or maybe it's just a piece of sex advice that you wish someone would have told you sooner. MTV / Via mtv.tumblr.com Like that not having an orgasm is completely fine. Or that sometimes your genitals just won't want to cooperate and that's OK. Or that your kink or fantasy really isn't that weird — really. So tell us all your super helpful sex tips and your time-tested sexual wisdom. View this photo on Instagram instagram.com Share it in the comments and it might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Health post.