4 Essential Flirting Tips That Will Help You Get That Guy

So, you want to get that special guy’s attention? Or maybe you want him to think of you more? Whatever your reason is, flirting is a game that needs to be played the right way. And this is how it's done...

1. It’s All In The Eyes

It all starts with your eye contact. It's one of those things if you know how to use right, you will be able to get the attention of most guys. Because of the absence of words, you need to able communicate to him with your eyes that you're into him.

Have you ever found yourself in that situation where you see a guy that you're attracted to, and he catches you staring at him? You both hold eye contact just for that extra second, and then look away. This is a subliminal message in your communication that you may not even be conscious of.

Unfortunately, guys (and girls,) aren't the best readers of body language, and after that first cursory glance all could be lost if you don't get him looking back for more. So how do you get him to do that?

2. The Power of The Smile

Make no mistake of it, nothings screams out "I like you" more than a smile. It doesn't mean you need to start smiling randomly, but if you do see a guy that you like and make eye contact with him, the next thing to do is give him a light smile – so he knows you're acknowledging him.

Guys can be slow on the uptake, and there's every good chance that he will be sitting there thinking to himself "Did she just look at me and smile?"

3. Flirtatious Body Language

It's time to take things to the next level, and let's face it, you probably want to give him a few more hints as to how you feel about him. It's time to suggest your sexual attraction towards him, and that's best achieved through flirtatious body language.

From playing with your hair, to exposing your neck, and even biting your lips – these are all clear indications that he is making you feel all warm and fuzzy. He should also be able to interpret them that way - if he has any idea as to what's going on.

4. Leave Him Wanting More

Once you have his attention, and it's apparent that he knows what's going on, it's time to get him to make the move. Don't keep sending him too many signals, otherwise he will think you're weird. After 3 body language signals give it a little break – see if he has the courage to come over and say "Hi". And if he does, well then, you're more than half way there.