All I can say is thank heavens i'm single, I swear at the moment i'm surrounded by terrible boyfriends- 'The cheat', 'The lazy', 'The emotional abuser' and 'The i do nothing right but acted perfect for a while so now shes in love with me and i can do whatever the f*ck i want' Honestly WHAT ARE THESE GIRLS DOING???? I know i'm not one to talk, and its one hundred percent easier to give advice and not take your own, but seriously I know what its like to sit in relationships because your keeping hold to the memory of that one time he bought you a tub of Ben and Jerrys cookie dough ice cream without you asking him too.
So here is my rant- lets start with 'The Cheat'.. he is the selfish boyfriend, the one who wants his girl all for himself but isn't ready to actually stay loyal, all ill say is if someone else can catch your mans eye then he wasn't a man to begin with- wish the new girl luck and on too the next. This guy is a lost cause- he will never appreciate the girl he has in front of him and will always look for something better.. beware- when he fails to find anything better, he will text /call/ appear/ write and do whatever else he can to try and lure you back in- and at that point, hes a desperate cheat and what could turn you off more?
'The lazy' this is the guy that never puts in any effort- he sits at home and does whatever it is that he does- all before seeing or making plans with you- he isnt ready for a girlfriend. This guy cant take care of himself so how do you expect him to take care of you? long him off and find someone who actually wants to invest time for you ffs
'The emotional abuser' this is the worst kind of guy- this is the one that picks at your flaws and makes you feel like you are nothing without him, he wants to know where you are at all times but does what ever the f*ck he wants, he wants you to be fully invested in him and his life but refuses to get to know or understand your lifestyle. He will use you, get what he wants from you, crush you and at the end you will feel lost. He projects all the shit he feels about himself on to you and unfortunately he doesn't see this.
and lastly 'The i do nothing right but acted perfect for a while so now shes in love with me and i can do whatever the f*ck i want' you are the worst kind of boyfriend because you are the one that is taking advantage of the girl you apparently care about's heart! girls if you find yourself constantly making excuses for him, trusting him when you know he is telling you lies, and waiting for the old him to return. Then he is offically 'too comfortable' so make him uncomfortable and show him that if hes going to do what ever he wants. So will you.
Of course, i'm not adverse to love, and i'm first class witness to some amazing, strong and happy relationships, my mum and dad for example are still as in love today then they were when they met at my age! This is more a subliminal post to all my friends at the moment who wont break up with their douchy boyfriends, and to my boy friends who tell me about all the shit they do and put me in awkward situations.
get out of these relationships girls, this is the season of the singletons. (shots, skirts, sex and smiles)
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