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What Do You Wish You'd Known Before Having A Threesome?

Communication, people.

Threesomes are a super-common fantasy — but without proper preparation they can range from slightly awkward to a total train wreck.

So, if you've participated in a threesome — good or bad — we want to hear your best tips and the lessons you learned.

Maybe you have advice on how to find the perfect third person to join you and your partner.

Or maybe you learned the hard way that you should always have extra condoms on hand.

Maybe setting boundaries and expectations was the most important factor in a successful threesome.

Or maybe you'd just like to share some tips about the best positions to satisfy all parties.

Whatever advice you have, share it using the dropbox below, and your response could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Health post.