In an ideal world, people who want to have sex can do so without shame, insecurity, and uncertainty — but we're only human.
To help pull the curtain back on how common it is to have a complicated relationship with sex, we want to give you the opportunity to talk about your personal experience anonymously — and hopefully reach people who need to see they're not alone.
So tell us: What issues around sex do you have that you wish people talked about more?
Maybe you don't orgasm easily and wind up more concerned with your partner thinking you're having a good time than, well, actually having a good time.
Or maybe you don't feel great about how you use sex as a distraction.
Maybe you're on a medication that has killed your sex drive.
Or maybe you were a ~late bloomer~ and are afraid people will judge your inexperience.
Maybe you have a kink or fetish that you've never been able to vocalize to a partner.
Tbh, maybe you worry that you're just not good in bed.
Whatever it is, share via the google doc below, and your response could appear in an upcoming BuzzFeed post.