Come Anonymously Share Your Sex Insecurities

To help pull the curtain back on how common it is to have a complicated relationship with sex, we want your confessions about sex, shame, and insecurity.

by Anna Borges

BuzzFeed Staff

In an ideal world, people who want to have sex can do so without shame, insecurity, and uncertainty — but we're only human.

To help pull the curtain back on how common it is to have a complicated relationship with sex, we want to give you the opportunity to talk about your personal experience anonymously — and hopefully reach people who need to see they're not alone.

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Come Anonymously Share Your Sex Insecurities

In an ideal world, people who want to have sex can do so without shame, insecurity, and uncertainty — but we're only human.

To help pull the curtain back on how common it is to have a complicated relationship with sex, we want to give you the opportunity to talk about your personal experience anonymously — and hopefully reach people who need to see they're not alone.

So tell us: What issues around sex do you have that you wish people talked about more?

Maybe you don't orgasm easily and wind up more concerned with your partner thinking you're having a good time than, well, actually having a good time.

Or maybe you don't feel great about how you use sex as a distraction.

Maybe you're on a medication that has killed your sex drive.

Or maybe you were a ~late bloomer~ and are afraid people will judge your inexperience.

Maybe you have a kink or fetish that you've never been able to vocalize to a partner.

Tbh, maybe you worry that you're just not good in bed.

Whatever it is, share via the google doc below, and your response could appear in an upcoming BuzzFeed post.

Come Anonymously Share Your Sex Insecurities

In an ideal world, people who want to have sex can do so without shame, insecurity, and uncertainty — but we're only human.

To help pull the curtain back on how common it is to have a complicated relationship with sex, we want to give you the opportunity to talk about your personal experience anonymously — and hopefully reach people who need to see they're not alone.

So tell us: What issues around sex do you have that you wish people talked about more?

Maybe you don't orgasm easily and wind up more concerned with your partner thinking you're having a good time than, well, actually having a good time.

Or maybe you don't feel great about how you use sex as a distraction.

Maybe you're on a medication that has killed your sex drive.

Or maybe you were a ~late bloomer~ and are afraid people will judge your inexperience.

Maybe you have a kink or fetish that you've never been able to vocalize to a partner.

Tbh, maybe you worry that you're just not good in bed.

Whatever it is, share via the google doc below, and your response could appear in an upcoming BuzzFeed post.

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