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Think things like career centers, academic advising, writing centers, peer tutoring — all the things that will save you from drowning in your more overwhelming classes. Most students can benefit from help on things like time management and academic planning, says Roy, so those can be important features on a campus if you really want to succeed academically.
Obviously, that doesn't mean your life WILL look like that. But doing an exercise like this can help you figure out if a school only sounds cool in theory or if it's a place you could actually make into a home. Research clubs and classes, look into what buildings on campus you might spend a lot of time at, picture where you'd fit into the picture.
You can also work backwards — picture how you'd spend your perfect day on a generic college campus and look for schools that fit that dream. "There’s a tremendous amount of freedom in college to create your own schedule, create your own life," says Howes. "I don’t think many high school students take the time to think about how they'd prefer to spend their time, but if they do, they can find a place that suits it."
"I would tell myself DON'T GO FAR FROM HOME JUST TO BE FAR FROM HOME. I was so ready to get out of my hometown that I went across the country. Bad choice. Homesickness hit me like a brick the first year and even though I eventually got over it, it still wasn't ideal. Going to college a four hour drive away would've felt just as far, but without the hassle of expensive plane tickets and having no one to go to in an emergency."
—Zoe Marchant, Facebook
"My school had service trips the summer before freshman year and that's where I met some of my closest friends for my entire time at college. Having an established group of friends before I even stepped foot on campus helped so much. Meanwhile, everyone else was bumbling around desperate to find their place. It's my number one piece of advice for high school students, find a school that has something like that."
—Mark Rossi, Facebook
"I wish I had understood the difference between a liberal arts college and a larger university. It’s not just size, and I didn’t realize that! I ended up graduating from the perfect university but I transferred there once I realized how much I didn’t like being at a liberal arts college."
This definitely requires a degree of brutal honesty with yourself. Do you actually want go to an elite school or do you want to have gone to one? If you're a small fish in a huge pond of high-achieving students, does that motivate you or overwhelm you and make you want to give up? Would you rather be in a place where you can lead the pack and have a chance at being the top of your class, or would you wind up slacking?
"Look at what motivates you and what really helps you excel," says Howes. Thinking critically about it can help prevent winding up somewhere you'll either be way in over your head or super bored.
"Many times, your original choice of major isn't a great fit, and you're left with limited options. Choose the school based on the fit as a whole, so if you decide to change your major or program, you have the best chance to succeed."
—Hannah Torrance, Facebook
It's easy to get caught up in a fantasy of a complete identity overhaul in college — like, maybe if you go to a super prestigious school your inner scholar will rise up, or maybe if you go to a big party school, you'll finally become the social butterfly you always dreamed of being. But if you only apply to schools because you want to be the type of person who could thrive there rather than because you actually are the type who would, you'll probably wind up feeling super out of place or disappointed.
Instead, pick schools that strike a balance, says Howes — ones that are a good fit for who you are now, but also that will help you grow into more of the person you want to be. So for example, if you're a little shy and want to be more social, look for schools that won't overwhelm you in size, but that have plenty of clubs or groups where you know you could meet cool people.
"For the most part, I really loved my college experience. However, one thing that affected me all four years was the fact that most clubs and groups on campus had really competitive application processes — including the ones that you'd think should be open enrollment, like volunteering club! If I could do it all over again, I would've looked into schools that didn't make you jump through so many hoops to do things that were supposed to be fun or enriching."
—Amanda Riggens, Facebook
This kind of thing is especially important your freshman year when you'll have a lot of stuff to figure out. People like RAs can be invaluable resources during that stressful transition time, says Roy.
"I didn't realize how strict the requirements for my program were until I got there. There was nearly no room to take classes for fun or 'just because,' which was something I quickly realized I had been looking forward to in college. Luckily, I transferred to a school that allowed me that flexibility!"
—Sharon Winchester, Facebook
Otherwise, you will get very overwhelmed very quickly.
This one's from Transition Year, a partnership between The Jed Foundation and the American Psychiatric Foundation focused on emotional health in college. Here's the full worksheet.
"Making decisions based on pleasing other people rarely turns out well," says Howes. "What do you really want? What's best for you?"