"I grew up in India where a woman got married, settled down, and kept a house. I never thought I'd do anything different. I lived a very sheltered existence. I went to a British school, then a women's college, and then I met my husband. I assumed that I'd be taken care of for the rest of my life. But shortly after we came to America, my husband slipped into a coma and lingered for another fifteen years. We had a small child at the time. I'd never worked before, except for a part-time job in the bookshop at the Met. I was a very quiet person. And suddenly I had to make all of the decisions. I had to get a full time job. It was empowering. I learned that I could be fearless, I could be angry, and I could fight. These were three things that I'd never had to do before. I was thinking recently, that if my husband had lived, he might not have liked who I've become."
