There’s a reason we hold people in positions of authority, like teachers, to am even higher than normal standard in cases of sexual contact with their students our others under their care. Because the power differentials matter. Because 14 year olds are at a disadvantage physically, emotionally, socially, etc. blaming the victim is scummy as hell. If you don’t understand why a young girl might behave that way with an authority figure, do some research. If you don’t understand that consent isn’t just saying no, if you don’t see the fact that your statement if “oh mostly I agree with statutory rape laws” is negated by your “except when xyz” and your claim of not victim blaming falls apart when you blame this effing victim, stay away from kids. Please.