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16 Moments Everyone Has When Bringing Your Significant Other Home To Meet Your Family

Don't even THINK about sleeping in the same room — Mami's house, Mami's rules.

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1. Before your trip, you have to go over a visual "who's who" with your S.O. and let them know about that one cousin to avoid.

Once your S.O. knows which one of Abulelita's ears is the good one to talk into, and not to sit in Papi's chair, you are ready to go home.
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Once your S.O. knows which one of Abulelita's ears is the good one to talk into, and not to sit in Papi's chair, you are ready to go home.

2. You are greeted by your parents, who act like they haven't seen you in 30 years, and embrace your S.O. like a long-lost child of their own.

No polite handshake for your S.O. We're familia. It's all hugs and kisses from the start.
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No polite handshake for your S.O. We're familia. It's all hugs and kisses from the start.

3. First question: "Are you kids hungry?"

"You two must be starving. What can I make you? PLEASE, EAT!"
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"You two must be starving. What can I make you? PLEASE, EAT!"

4. After the HUGE meal that was prepared with love comes the cafecito and questions.

"Did you get enough to eat? How was your flight? What do you do for a living? What are your plans for the future? Are you cold? Can I get you a sweater?"
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"Did you get enough to eat? How was your flight? What do you do for a living? What are your plans for the future? Are you cold? Can I get you a sweater?"

5. Then, mercifully, it's time for bed, but don't even THINK about sleeping in the same room — not until you're married.

Yes, even if you live together IRL. Mami's house, Mami's rules.
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Yes, even if you live together IRL. Mami's house, Mami's rules.

6. This could be especially awkward for your S.O. if they have to share a room with one of your siblings.

Not the greatest for the sibling either, really.

Not the greatest for the sibling either, really.

7. Now that you've met the immediate family, it's time to meet EVERYONE ELSE.

Cousins, tios and tias, neighbors, friends, literally everyone — and your S.O. has no idea whether they are being praised or made fun of.
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Cousins, tios and tias, neighbors, friends, literally everyone — and your S.O. has no idea whether they are being praised or made fun of.

8. Everyone fawns all over your S.O., except that one overprotective cousin who consistently gives the stink-eye from across the room.

We all have that cousin. Please, don't ever be that cousin.
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We all have that cousin. Please, don't ever be that cousin.

9. Soon, the lighthearted questions turn from career and background to matters of INTENTIONS, and words like "marriage" and "babies" get thrown around.

You both just smile and deflect as much as you can. Your S.O. is starting to sweat a little.
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You both just smile and deflect as much as you can. Your S.O. is starting to sweat a little.

10. Since your S.O. is now family, they are quickly put to work in the kitchen.

But you've prepared them for this, so they actually offer to help out and your mother swoons.
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But you've prepared them for this, so they actually offer to help out and your mother swoons.

11. Eventually, the party winds down and people start to say their three-hour goodbyes to the newest family member.

You guessed it, more hugging and kissing.
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You guessed it, more hugging and kissing.

12. Everyone except for your Titi Carmen, who never knows how or when to end a conversation.

And she has cornered your S.O. for a heart-to-heart.
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And she has cornered your S.O. for a heart-to-heart.

13. Finally, you are able to pull your S.O. out of there and whisk them away for a drink, anywhere but in that house.

They need and deserve a little break.
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They need and deserve a little break.

14. When it's time to leave and go back to your regular life, your mom now feels like she's saying goodbye to TWO of her own children.

This is unconditional love in its purest form.
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This is unconditional love in its purest form.

15. Once you get back home, you get a wave of phone calls and messages about how much everyone loves your S.O. and it warms your heart.

Then they demand that you both come home for Christmas and ask what they should get your S.O.
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Then they demand that you both come home for Christmas and ask what they should get your S.O.

16. Even though your S.O. has been through the crazy whirlwind that is meeting your family, they know and understand you in a much deeper way after seeing where you came from.

And you love them even more for the memory of seeing them playing dominoes with your Abuelo.
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And you love them even more for the memory of seeing them playing dominoes with your Abuelo.

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