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Is A Formal Relationship Better For You Or A Laid Back One? Take This Quiz And Find Out!

Answer 30 "Would You Rather" questions and get an insight on your relationship goals.

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  1. Would you rather date someone who’s highly ambitious about their career, or someone who cares more about passions outside of work?

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    Someone who’s highly ambitious about their career
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    Someone who cares more about passions outside of work
  2. Would you rather be with someone who wants to start a family in the very near future, or someone who’d like to wait a few years to really figure things out?

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    Start a family in the very near future
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    Wait a few years to figure things out
  3. Given the choice, would you want to be in a relationship in which one of you eventually becomes the primary income source and the other is the primary caregiver, or would you rather be in a relationship where both of you work?

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    Primary income source & primary caregiver
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    Both of us work
  4. Would you rather be with a thrill-seeker, who likes to travel and skydive and try various dangerous things, or would you rather date someone who is more calm and serene?

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    Someone who is a thrill-seeker
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    Someone who is calm and serene
  5. Do you want to be with someone who’s confrontational and places the problem right on the table, or someone who approaches issues between you in a more careful, gentle way?

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    Someone who is confrontational
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    Someone who is careful
  6. Would you rather date someone who’s interested in a very active social life, with parties and events and activities every other night, or someone who’s more of a homebody, and prefers to stay in with you or hang out in smaller, quieter groups?

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    Active social life
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    Someone who’s more of a homebody
  7. Would you rather be with a night owl or an early bird?

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    Night owl
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    Early Bird
  8. Do you want to be with someone who prefers to watch comedies or dramas and thrillers?

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    Comedies
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    Dramas and thrillers
  9. Do you want someone who is deeply romantic – someone who is always open about their feelings and likes to be tender and affectionate? Or would you rather be with someone who is more mysterious, subtle, and slow to reveal their emotions, but still feels th

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    Someone who is deeply romantic
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    Someone who is mysterious
  10. Is it more important for them to be able to make you laugh, or for you to feel like you can have an intellectual conversation with them?

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    Be able to make me laugh
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    Be able to have an intellectual conversation
  11. Would you rather be with someone who has all the same interests as you – same favorite movies, same hobbies, same taste in music, etc? Or do you want to be with someone who’s the complete opposite of you so that you can introduce each other to new things?

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    Someone who has the same interests
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    Someone who’s the complete opposite
  12. Does religion matter? Would you rather end up with someone who practices the same religion that you do, or are you flexible in that area?

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    Someone who practices the same religion
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    I am flexible in that area
  13. Would you rather be with someone who wants to move all over the place, live in various cities, and constantly be exploring? Or would you be happier with someone who’s interested in building a life in one single place for a long period of time?

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    Someone who wants to move all over the place
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    Someone who’s wants to build a life in one single place
  14. Are you more interested in someone who likes to plan out date nights, from the happy hour to the restaurant to the after-dinner venue? Or do you want to be with someone who is more spur-of-the-moment?

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    Someone who likes to plan out date nights
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    Someone who is more spur-of-the-moment
  15. Do you need to be with someone who’s completely independent and often in need of their own space, or someone who’s a little more co-dependent and likes to do things together, frequently?

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    Someone who’s completely independent
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    Someone who’s co-dependent
  16. A wine-and-beer kind of drinker, or someone who prefers cocktails? Does it matter to you?

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    Wine-and-beer
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    Cocktails
  17. Would you rather be with someone who’s really into playing sports and doing physical things, or someone who prefers activities that don’t involve hand-eye coordination?

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    Someone who’s really into doing physical things
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    Someone into activities that don’t involve hand-eye coordination
  18. Do you want a nature-lover who enjoys being outside as much as possible in big open spaces, or someone who’s more of a city person?

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    A nature-lover
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    A city person
  19. If you go on vacation together, would you rather be with someone who will lay on the beach with you all day, drinking margaritas and reading books, or someone who will be active with you, and is ready to go surfing or parasailing at the drop of a hat?

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    Someone who will lay on the beach with me all day
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    Someone who will be active with me
  20. Are you more interested in the person who’s the life of the party, in the center of the circle making everyone laugh, or the person sitting calmly in the back, who strikes up a conversation with you and intrigues you from the start?

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    The person who’s the life of the party
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    The person sitting calmly in the back
  21. Do you want to be with someone who will indulge in your guilty pleasures, such as watching trashy reality shows and eating peanut butter out of the jar, or someone who is more of an upbeat go-getter?

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    Someone who will indulge in my guilty pleasures
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    Someone who is more of an upbeat go-getter
  22. Are you looking for a passionate, intense Noah-and-Allie from The Notebook situation, or something equally as strong but more silly and quirky, such as Leslie-and-Ben from Parks and Recreation?

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    Noah-and-Allie
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    Leslie-and-Ben
  23. If you’re in the mood to watch a movie, do you want someone who’s going to go out to a theater with you at eleven o’clock at night, your bags stuffed with candy from Walgreens, or would you prefer someone who will eat homemade popcorn with you while you w

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    Someone who’s going to go out to a theater
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    Someone who will watch a movie at home
  24. Does it matter if they’re a cat person or a dog person or none of the above?

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    Cat Person
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    Dog Person
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    None of the above
  25. Do they have to be a neat-freak, or are you more comfortable with someone who’s laid-back when it comes to household duties and overall messiness?

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    Someone who's a neat-freak
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    Someone who’s laid-back
  26. Are you looking for someone who’s going to order take-out and and sit on the floor with you every night while you guys eat it in front of the tv, or someone who’s interested in preparing somewhat-healthy, homemade meals multiple times a week?

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    Someone who’s going to order take-out
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    Someone who prepares homemade meals
  27. Do you want a book-lover or a movie-watcher?

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    A book-lover
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    A movie-watcher
  28. Would you have more fun with someone you can argue and debate with, or someone whose opinions lie in a similar area to yours?

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    Someone I can argue and debate with
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    Someone whose opinions are similar to mine
  29. Would you rather be with someone who wants to have a big family, or someone who’d like to really think about it and maybe have one or two children?

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    Someone who wants to have a big family
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    Someone who wants to have one or two children
  30. Do you need to be with a cuddler and all-around consistent spooner, or someone who prefers to roll to the other side of the bed when you go to sleep so that you both have plenty of space?

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    A cuddler and all-around consistent spooner
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    Someone who rolls to the other side of the bed for space

Questions by Kim Quindlen

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