Elena has lost her parents, two of her guardians, and her brother (temporarily) to name a few.
She's a serial dater.
She goes for much older men.
She basically tore apart two brothers for her love.
Damon tried to kill Elena's brother, and she still dated him.
Everyone knows Caroline secretly has a thing for Stefan.
Elena JUST went off to college. She shouldn't be tied down!
It's ok, Elena. We understand.
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