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    Reasons Why Elena Gilbert Should Just Stay Single

    Team Stefan or Team Damon? How about Team Elena should work on some of her underlying emotional issues first?

    Elena has lost her parents, two of her guardians, and her brother (temporarily) to name a few.

    She's a serial dater.

    She goes for much older men.

    She basically tore apart two brothers for her love.

    Damon tried to kill Elena's brother, and she still dated him.

    Everyone knows Caroline secretly has a thing for Stefan.

    Elena JUST went off to college. She shouldn't be tied down!

    It's ok, Elena. We understand.