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    28 Times Carrie Bradshaw Made Decisions That Seriously Made Me Question Her Logic Or Morals

    She really blamed Miranda for Big leaving her at the altar.

    🚨Warning: Spoilers for And Just Like That are in here!🚨

    1. When she got back together with Big the first time after she already knew he had huge — like, massive — commitment issues.

    Big asking Carrie if they want to play another round of bowling and then them kissing

    2. When she cheated on Aidan with Big, who was also MARRIED.

    Aidan telling Carrie "I love you" and Carrie in bed with Big

    3. When she demanded that Aidan forgive her for cheating on him.

    Carrie repeating "You have to forgive me to Aidan"

    4. When she made Aidan accept her friendship with Big.

    Carrie telling Aidan she's gonna keep Big in her life

    5. When she invited BIG up to Aidan's country house.

    Carrie, Aidan, and Big having an uncomfortable dinner

    6. When she crashed Natasha's lunch to apologize for her affair with Big, even though Natasha had made it clear before that she did not want to see Carrie.

    Natasha saying she's sorry she and Big ever got married, that he cheated on her, and that Carrie felt the need to come because she's ruined not only her marriage but also her lunch

    7. When she tracked down Natasha AGAIN years later at her place of work to ask her about the money Big left her in his will (even though, AGAIN, Natasha had made it clear she didn't want to see her).

    Carrie in a black van following Natasha and then asking the front desk at her job to speak to her

    8. When she sent Aidan to help Miranda, who was naked, injured, and immobile.

    Miranda lying naked on the floor and Aidan picking her up and carrying her out

    9. When she showed up to "comfort" an injured Miranda but used it as an excuse to talk about herself.

    Miranda calling Carrie out for bringing her bagels and then talking about Aidan

    10. When she wore her engagement ring around her neck instead of her finger in order to appear single.

    Carrie dressed to go out and wearing her engagement ring as a necklace

    11. When she left her whole life in New York, quit her column, and moved to France with Aleksandr Petrovsky.

    Carried on the phone talking about how living in Paris is hard for her

    12. When she flaked on the party her fans were throwing her so she could go to her boyfriend's art exhibit instead.

    Carrie telling Aleksandr she'll ditch her party and go with him to his exhibit

    13. When she blamed Miranda for Big leaving her at the altar.

    Carrie blaming Miranda for ruining her marriage because Miranda told Big he was crazy to get married

    14. When she got back together with Big after he left her at the altar.

    Carrie running into Big's arms and them making out

    15. When she cheated on Big with Aidan because she felt running into him halfway around the world had to mean *something*.

    Carrie kissing Aidan

    16. When she completely dismissed Charlotte's concerns about Miranda's drinking.

    Charlotte telling Carrie she's concerned about Miranda's drinking and Carrie dismissing it

    17. When she guilt-tripped Miranda into staying at lunch after Charlotte made disrespectful comments about Miranda exploring her sexuality.

    Carrie convince Miranda to stay at lunch after Charlotte made disrespectful comments about Miranda's sexuality

    18. When she expected Charlotte to offer her $30,000 so she could pay the down payment to buy her apartment.

    Carrie asking Charlotte why she didn't offer her the money

    19. When her insurance didn't cover the hot physical therapist, so she paid out of pocket just to keep seeing him.

    Carrie telling the receptionist she will pay out-of-pocket for her hot physical therapist

    20. When she bought an apartment she didn't want because she didn't want to upset her real estate agent.

    Carrie telling her friends she bought an apartment she doesn't like

    21. When she body-shamed Samantha after she gained weight.

    Charlotte, Miranda, and Carrie all having huge facial reactions when they see Samantha's stomach poking out of her shirt

    22. When she judged Samantha after accidentally walking in on her having oral sex with a delivery guy in her office.

    Carrie says Samantha would have never walked in on her giving a delivery guy a blowjob because she would never have done that

    23. When she was at a benefit for Charlotte's kids' school, saw a guy she went on ONE bad date with, and tried to leave the benefit early even though she was an auction item.

    Carrie trying to leave the auction where she is an item but Charlotte stopping her

    24. When she pressured Samantha to come to her book launch party after her chemical peel went wrong and then shamed her appearance at the party.

    Carrie begging Samantha to come to her party and then shaming Samantha's botched chemical appearance at the party

    25. When she showed up to Big's place with Big Macs and a beret, announcing she'd move to Paris with him (even though he kept it a secret from her for months).

    Big opening the door to see Carrie in a beret with McDonald's bags

    26. When Carrie stalked Big and his mom at church because he wouldn't introduce her as his girlfriend.

    Carrie and Miranda spying on Big and his mom at church

    27. When she ditched her date at a party because she decided she was "too old" to be dating bisexual men.

    Carrie leaving her date

    28. And just like that, we've reached the last item on the list: When Carrie found Big on the floor after his heart attack still alive, and she just stood there forever and then held him instead of calling an ambulance.

    Carrie standing and staring at Big who is collapsed on the bathroom floor

    What were some other awful decisions made by Carrie Bradshaw? Let us know in the comments.