17 Screenshots Of Men Who Think They're "Nice Guys" That Prove They Are The Furthest Thing From It

    "I'm a nice guy who helps old people across the street. I'm also married and looking for discreet shenanigans."

    Ajani Bazile-Dutes
    by Ajani Bazile-Dutes

    BuzzFeed Staff

    1. This "nice guy" who didn't understand why someone was hesitant to meet him:

    "The old 'meeting a guy off the internet is scary cause he might actually be a nice guy' scenario"
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    2. This "nice guy" who sent someone a "reminder" before they went out:

    Screenshot of a reminder a "nice guy" sent out
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    3. This "nice guy" who felt he was owed something:

    "So who's that guy with you this morning?"
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    "Seriously? I waited all afternoon for your delivery. And I cleaned your table..."
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    4. This "nice guy" who was looking to cheat on their spouse:

    Profile of a guy who says he's nice but that he's "married, seeking discreet shenanigans."
    u/LadyLazarusRed / Via reddit.com

    5. This "nice guy" who said "despite those sweatpants, I still find you attractive" as if that was a compliment:

    "Despite those sweatpants, I find you attractive."
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    6. This "nice guy" who was mad someone was too busy taking care of a dying relative:

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    "I should've communicated that to you and I apologize but I'm not tolerating this dying man slander."
    u/murphskillet / Via reddit.com

    7. This "nice guy" who claimed he wasn't a player anymore:

    "but do you have pretty big boobs? is that too weird to ask"
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    8. This "nice guy" who somehow thought he wasn't being misogynistic:

    Screenshot of Facebook comments
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    9. This "nice guy" who had a short temper:

    "You can't even return the Christmas message, unfortunately I didn't expect you to be like this"
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    10. This “nice guy” who messaged the same person from multiple phone numbers because he kept getting ignored:

    Screenshot of a text conversation
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    11. This "nice guy" who was perplexed why someone he liked chose someone who wasn't as "successful" as him:

    Screenshot of a text conversation
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    "Yes a washed up football player who works at Trader Joe's"
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    "I wish I were good enough for you tbh but I guess you want..."
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    12. This "nice guy" who called his ex a gold-digger just because she moved on from their relationship:

    A man ranting about his ex
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    13. This "nice guy" who said that once women reached their 30s they would realize how "nice" guys like him exist:

    "In your 20s we are invisible to you until your 30s when you realize we exist."
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    14. This "nice guy" who called women objects:

    "We aren't 'trophies' for you to keep, and that's not a compliment."
    u/Many_County_7636 / Via reddit.com
    "Would you rather be a participation medal?"
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    Screenshot of a text conversation
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    15. This "nice guy" who made a creepy move on someone days after they got out of a relationship:

    Screenshot of a text conversation
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    16. This "nice guy" who was upset someone was prioritizing their health over him:

    Screenshot of a text conversation
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    17. And lastly, this "nice guy" who thought that he was single because women have too much autonomy and independence today:

    "Nowadays they no longer need that so they just get with whoever floats their boat with very few consequences for their actions."
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