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13 Leaked Screenshots Of Brides Vs. Maids Of Honor Drama That Changed Their Friendships Forever

I've never heard of someone asking a maid of honor to do all the bridesmaid's makeup.

Ajani Bazile-Dutes
by Ajani Bazile-Dutes

BuzzFeed Staff

1. This bride who was upset her maid of honor was prioritizing her pregnancy instead of planning the bride's wedding...which was two years away:

"my friend that I asked to be the maid of honor is expecting in may of 2021..."
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2. This maid of honor who backed out of the wedding because the bride's fiancé got into a car accident and let the maid of honor's husband take the blame to commit insurance fraud:

"I was only going to have 2 girls in my bridal party, her and my childhood friend. Should I go ahead and ask someone else?"
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3. This bride who fired her maid of honor and bridesmaids because they couldn't drop their whole lives to give her attention:

Screenshot of a text exchange
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4. This bride who felt her maid of honor shouldn't have moved before the wedding:

***ANONYMOUS POST FROM A BRIDE***
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The post says: "My co-maid of honor (friends since 6th grade) moved away recently and has yet to land a job but just told me she will be late to my bachelorette party (because she does not want to take time off from a new job), so I was understanding about that. But now, since my rehearsal dinner is on a Friday night, she is telling me she will miss that altogether because her other friend from New York just decided to get married a week after me, and she does not want to take more time off. The rehearsal dinner is not until 7 p.m., and she could fly in (her new town is not far from New York). She also has to come back multiple times for another friend of hers getting married later this year. She chose the worst time to move. How is any of this my fault? She knew when we postponed last year the dates of the rehearsal dinner and the bachelorette party. I was fine with the bachelorette party but the rehearsal dinner also is too much. She is not acting like a maid of honor. Not sure what to do. Thanks for letting me vent. Any advice about how to handle this would be great."

5. This bride who wanted her maid of honor to, like, literally, organize the whole wedding:

"well obviously, you will be in charge of organising the hen weekend."
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"Is this expected of a MOH?"
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Someone listing all the maid of honor duties expected of them
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"But I think she's thinking I have a LOT of spare time, due to not working."
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6. This person who couldn't handle the fact that they were not chosen as the maid of honor:

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7. This person who couldn't accept that their friend chose their brother as the maid of honor instead of them:

AITA for pulling out of my best friend's wedding because I'm not the maid of honor?
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8. This maid of honor who didn't like the rest of the wedding party and wasn't planning to hide it:

Screenshot of a text exchange
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9. This bride who was pissed that their maid of honor got COVID:

A social media post calls a bridesmaid selfish after she texted the bride the day after the wedding to tell her she has COVID
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10. This bride who got caught by their maid of honor after posting in a Facebook group:

A bride-to-be posts in a Facebook group asking what to do about a maid of honor who isn't making an effort to help plan things, and the maid of honor responds "did you forget I was part of this group?"
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11. This bride who was not understanding that her maid of honor just became a mother:

The bride-to-be posts in a Facebook group asking what to do about a maid of honor who hasn't been participating, and how to talk to her without sounding mean
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A response says the bride-to-be should extend grace to her maid of honor who is a new mom, and the bride-to-be says that a wedding and child are of equal importance
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12. This bride who wasn't celebrating their maid of honor's pregnancy:

A bride-to-be says she feels "betrayed" because her maid of honor got pregnant and will have a due date two weeks before her new postponed wedding date
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13. And this bride who didn't want to invite the maid of honor's long-term partner to the wedding:

The bride-to-be says she's not inviting her maid of honor's partner to the wedding because they're not allowing plus-ones, but the maid of honor is accusing them of homophobia
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