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    17 Unbelievably Thoughtless Things Carrie Bradshaw Did On "Sex And The City"

    If there's one thing Carrie Bradshaw's gonna do, it's have the audacity.

    Hiya, I'm Ajani and recently, I ran out of new shows to watch during quarantine. So I decided to finally watch Sex and the City after years of friends suggesting it. And though the show definitely had some...flaws, I generally found the series funny and entertaining!

    However, one of the hardest things about watching the series were all of the god-awful choices Carrie Bradshaw made that I just couldn't fathom:

    1. When Carrie stalked Big and his mom at church because he wouldn't introduce her as his girlfriend.

    Carrie and Miranda spying on Big and his mom at church

    2. When she showed up to Big's place with Big Macs and a beret, announcing she'd move to Paris with him (even though he kept it a secret from her for months).

    Big opening the door to see Carrie in a beret with McDonald's bags

    3. When she got back with Big after she already knew he had huge — like massive — commitment issues.

    Big asking Carrie if they want to play another round of bowling and then them kissing

    4. When she cheated on Aidan with Big, who was also MARRIED.

    Aidan telling Carrie "I love you" and Carrie in bed with Big

    5. When she demanded that Aidan forgive her for cheating on him.

    Carrie repeating "You have to forgive me to Aidan"

    6. When she made Aidan accept her friendship with Big.

    Carrie telling Aidan she's gonna keep Big in her life

    7. When she invited BIG up to Aidan's country house.

    Carrie, Aidan, and Big having an uncomfortable dinner

    8. When she crashed Natasha's lunch to apologize even though Natasha had made it clear before that she did not want to see Carrie.

    9. When she sent Aidan to help Miranda, who was naked, injured, and immobile.

    Miranda laid naked on the floor and Aidan picking her up and carrying her out

    10. When she showed up to "comfort" an injured Miranda, but used it as an excuse to talk about herself.

    Miranda calling Carrie out for bringing her bagels and then talking about Aidan

    11. When she ditched her date at a party because she decided she was "too old" to be dating bisexual men.

    Carrie leaving her date

    12. When she judged Samantha after accidentally walking in on her having oral sex with a delivery guy in her office.

    13. When she was young and broke, but chose to buy a magazine over food.

    14. When she wore her engagement ring around her neck instead of her finger in order to appear single.

    Carrie dressed to go out and wearing her engagement ring as a necklace

    15. When she blew off dinner with Miranda to have dinner with Big.

    Carrie telling Miranda over the phone that she blew off their dinner plans because Big was making her veal

    16. When she left her whole life in New York, quit her column, and moved to France with Aleksandr Petrovsky.

    Carried on the phone talking about how living in Paris is hard for her

    17. And finally, when she flaked on the party her fans were throwing her so she could go to her boyfriend's art exhibit instead.

    Carrie telling Aleksandr she'll ditch her party and go with him to his exhibit

    What were some other awful decisions made by Carrie Bradshaw? Let us know in the comments.